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I have evil thoughts

csuramcsuram
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My MIL's birthday is February 22nd. My husband swears he has a feeling our daughter will be born on her birthday. I have a so so relationship with her mainly because she is extremely emotional and I dont deal with that well. Additionally he wants to give our daughter her maiden name as a middle name (Kiely).

So come hell or high water I AM NOT pushing this baby out on the 22nd. I will do whatever it takes. I know I am evil and probablly cursed myself. Keep your fingers crossed for me.

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  • PlannedChaosPlannedChaos

    Hehehe.  I had the same thoughts when my MIL told me I "had better have a boy", because her granddaughter (my SD) would adjust to it better.

    Yeah, when I found out I was having a girl, I did a massive happy dance!

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  • pilotjenn2pilotjenn2
    My fingers and toes are crossed for you. And don't feel bad, I'm having the same thoughts about my MIL birthday and my due date. Just waaay to close together.
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  • Hunter22Hunter22 member
    You are my twin in this situation. My MIL's birthday is also the 22nd and my original due date was the 23rd. To say the least the woman makes my blood pressure rise faster than anything on this planet and has stated time and again how this child will be HER birthday present. The hell he will be! So, I have already informed my doctor that if I go into labor the night before he better kick it up a notch to make him come before 12 am or if it is that day I will close my legs tight LOL! Of course, we will probably have the babies on the 22nd just because it is the ONLY day I don't want him to come!?
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  • Kyla SiscoKyla Sisco
    Ha ... my friend is pg now too and her MIL relationship isn't that great. Her mom said it would be perfect to have her child born on her MIL's B-Day because as soon as that baby comes -- everyone will forget about MIL's B-day. That's evil!
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  • MarleMarle
    I don't know if you saw my reply to the other post but I am torn about this. If the baby comes the same date you can actually always make a big deal of your baby's BD while almost ignoring MIL's and it would be totally genuine! She would be destined to attend a baby's BD party for the rest of her BDs and have her thunder stolen.
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    Soon to celebrate the day we met, even if the day before marks when we said goodbye.
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  • csuramcsuram
    Hunter22 I will do a little labor dance for us both to completely miss the 22nd.
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  • Hunter22Hunter22 member

    imageMarle:
    I don't know if you saw my reply to the other post but I am torn about this. If the baby comes the same date you can actually always make a big deal of your baby's BD while almost ignoring MIL's and it would be totally genuine! She would be destined to attend a baby's BD party for the rest of her BDs and have her thunder stolen.

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    I did think this but it wouldn't be satisfying enough I don't think. She really wanted a girl, so much so that she made an extremely crude comment to my husband when he told her it was a boy, so I am hoping this kid just continues to spite her :)?

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  • TheFannins729TheFannins729 member
    LOL...you're so funny.  I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for you!
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  • MarleMarle
    Either way she'll lose for being a PITA I think. If you are so unfortunate to have him on her BD you need to plan to go all the way so that the alternative is as satisfying as possible.....Oh my I sound terribly evil!
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    Soon to celebrate the day we met, even if the day before marks when we said goodbye.
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