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This shows her maturity...(last bff post, lol)

SouthernBellelovesaYankeeSouthernBellelovesaYankee
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After she told me to no longer talk with her (twice), she continues to text me telling me that she hopes I am happy with my decisions and blah blah blah

I texted her back and explained to her that I gave her options and wanted to know what the fvck else I should do. And that if she wanted our friendship to be over with, that she should quit texting me and not drag it out. This isn't middle school. All of this is completely unnecessary.

LOL. I think that shut her up. This was a long time coming. I really was.

I guess she won't be asking if she could spend the night with FI and I, bwhahahahahaha

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Re: This shows her maturity...(last bff post, lol)

  • SteffsjetSteffsjet
    You are better off without her drama. ?She is such a winner!
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  • The New Mrs.The New Mrs.
    Do you think it has to do with jealousy?? Or her "losing" you - since you're pg and getting married maybe she feels like you're leaving her behind...? That was my ex-BFF's problem when I got engaged and she never got over it. Sucks but at least now I know what kind of friend she really was.
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  • MidwestTexanMidwestTexan member

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    You are better off without her drama.  She is such a winner!

    I could not have said it any better, Steffsjet!

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  • CalinsBrideCalinsBride
    I really dislike the needy. It's like, get a life of your own, please.
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  • sxu0007sxu0007
    I kicked my bff to the curb right before my wedding.  You are better off w/out her.  F that!
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  • SouthernBellelovesaYankeeSouthernBellelovesaYankee

    imageThe New Mrs.:
    Do you think it has to do with jealousy?? Or her "losing" you - since you're pg and getting married maybe she feels like you're leaving her behind...? That was my ex-BFF's problem when I got engaged and she never got over it. Sucks but at least now I know what kind of friend she really was.

    I never really thought about that. You do have a point.

    ::high fives::

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  • The New Mrs.The New Mrs.
    imageSouthernBellelovesaYankee:

    imageThe New Mrs.:
    Do you think it has to do with jealousy?? Or her "losing" you - since you're pg and getting married maybe she feels like you're leaving her behind...? That was my ex-BFF's problem when I got engaged and she never got over it. Sucks but at least now I know what kind of friend she really was.

    I never really thought about that. You do have a point.

    ::high fives::

    My ex-BFF and I planned to stay single and travel the world together. Then I met DH and he was my new priority and she hated that. Felt like I dumped our dreams for a boy. And she really didn't care to see where I was coming from... I've heard too many other people say the same thing happened to them for the same basic reasons. Sorry for all the BFF drama - even though she's annoying you, it's still very hard to lose a friendship like that, esp if you've been BFF's forever  = /

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  • achase123achase123
    What is it about being KU that brings out the best (or worst I might add) in friends.  Some of my friends have been so great but one in particular sounds eerily like your friend.  I guess you just find out people's true colors.  I think with my (former) bff it is jealousy and not being satisfied with her own life.
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  • TinkermegTinkermeg
    imageSouthernBellelovesaYankee:

    imageThe New Mrs.:
    Do you think it has to do with jealousy?? Or her "losing" you - since you're pg and getting married maybe she feels like you're leaving her behind...? That was my ex-BFF's problem when I got engaged and she never got over it. Sucks but at least now I know what kind of friend she really was.

    I never really thought about that. You do have a point.

    ::high fives::

    I lost 2 friends when I got married, and one when I got pregnant. I don't like to accuse people of being jealous, but I think it was more our lives were going in totally different directions. Also, I realize now they were nuts!!!

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  • SouthernBellelovesaYankeeSouthernBellelovesaYankee
    imageThe New Mrs.:
    imageSouthernBellelovesaYankee:

    imageThe New Mrs.:
    Do you think it has to do with jealousy?? Or her "losing" you - since you're pg and getting married maybe she feels like you're leaving her behind...? That was my ex-BFF's problem when I got engaged and she never got over it. Sucks but at least now I know what kind of friend she really was.

    I never really thought about that. You do have a point.

    ::high fives::

    My ex-BFF and I planned to stay single and travel the world together. Then I met DH and he was my new priority and she hated that. Felt like I dumped our dreams for a boy. And she really didn't care to see where I was coming from... I've heard too many other people say the same thing happened to them for the same basic reasons. Sorry for all the BFF drama - even though she's annoying you, it's still very hard to lose a friendship like that, esp if you've been BFF's forever  = /

    We've been close for about 4 years. And it really sucks, but she's always been needy and melodramatic. She's quirky and I think our friendship survived this long because we could go to each other no matter what, but lately she's put the icing on the cake. She flat out told me she did not like the name Dillon and then suggested McCoy. She never congratulated me on our new house, she instead replied with how much she missed her boyfriend's penis. No joke...there is a post somewhere about that.

    Like I said...long time coming.

    I'm sorry you went through the same thing.

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  • The New Mrs.The New Mrs.
    imageTinkermeg:
    imageSouthernBellelovesaYankee:

    imageThe New Mrs.:
    Do you think it has to do with jealousy?? Or her "losing" you - since you're pg and getting married maybe she feels like you're leaving her behind...? That was my ex-BFF's problem when I got engaged and she never got over it. Sucks but at least now I know what kind of friend she really was.

    I never really thought about that. You do have a point.

    ::high fives::

    I lost 2 friends when I got married, and one when I got pregnant. I don't like to accuse people of being jealous, but I think it was more our lives were going in totally different directions. Also, I realize now they were nuts!!!

    I mean jealousy more in a way of your life is going in the direction they've always wanted but don't have yet...but not in an "I hate you for what you have" way but like "aw, I wish I had that...." way or a way where it's very frustrating because it's coming so easy for one when the other has tried so hard to make herself a picture perfect life, ya know?

    PS - your bump is getting cuter and cuter!

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  • bmcquienbmcquien
    imageMidwestTexan:

    imageSteffsjet:
    You are better off without her drama.  She is such a winner!

    I could not have said it any better, Steffsjet!

     

    I could not agree more!

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  • SouthernBellelovesaYankeeSouthernBellelovesaYankee

    I'd like to add that, I think she resents me a little bit because I'm getting married and having a baby and it's what she wanted and she's upset b/c her bf hasn't proposed. And when he moved to Texas, he didn't ask her to go with him.

    While it's a great thing and I am so excited about our little family, this wasn't how I envisioned my life. She doesn't get that this isn't all puppies and rainbows.

    ETA: And she's lost her designated driver, she made that comment when I got BFP. I should add that.

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  • SouthernBellelovesaYankeeSouthernBellelovesaYankee
    imageThe New Mrs.:
    imageTinkermeg:
    imageSouthernBellelovesaYankee:

    imageThe New Mrs.:
    Do you think it has to do with jealousy?? Or her "losing" you - since you're pg and getting married maybe she feels like you're leaving her behind...? That was my ex-BFF's problem when I got engaged and she never got over it. Sucks but at least now I know what kind of friend she really was.

    I never really thought about that. You do have a point.

    ::high fives::

    I lost 2 friends when I got married, and one when I got pregnant. I don't like to accuse people of being jealous, but I think it was more our lives were going in totally different directions. Also, I realize now they were nuts!!!

    I mean jealousy more in a way of your life is going in the direction they've always wanted but don't have yet...but not in an "I hate you for what you have" way but like "aw, I wish I had that...." way or a way where it's very frustrating because it's coming so easy for one when the other has tried so hard to make herself a picture perfect life, ya know?

    PS - your bump is getting cuter and cuter!

    Thanks!

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  • gretchenmhgretchenmh
    She does realize that you are the one who's supposed to be all hormonal, right? ?She sounds like she's got the raging PG hormones!
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  • The New Mrs.The New Mrs.
    imageSouthernBellelovesaYankee:

    I'd like to add that, I think she resents me a little bit because I'm getting married and having a baby and it's what she wanted and she's upset b/c her bf hasn't proposed. And when he moved to Texas, he didn't ask her to go with him.

    While it's a great thing and I am so excited about our little family, this wasn't how I envisioned my life. She doesn't get that this isn't all puppies and rainbows.

    ETA: And she's lost her designated driver, she made that comment when I got BFP. I should add that.

    That all is probably fueling her frustration and she's taking it out on you. Sorry  : (

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  • oohlalagirloohlalagirl
    Sorry you gotta go through all that. She sounds JUST like one of my friends.
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