With my DS I was right around 21 weeks. But I think he was just in the right position. I already don't I will be able to feel DD from the outside for a while just b/c she seems to be in a position where its harder to feel her movements so far and they're really low. Not like DS at all.
Hubs and I both felt her from the outside around 21-22 weeks and just started seeing her from the outside in the past week (DH actually saw it for the first time this morning).
Re: feeling baby
It varies person to person.
With my DS I was right around 21 weeks. But I think he was just in the right position. I already don't I will be able to feel DD from the outside for a while just b/c she seems to be in a position where its harder to feel her movements so far and they're really low. Not like DS at all.
Totally varies from person to person - how the baby is positioned, how much abdominal fat you have, how your uterus is positioned, etc.
I could feel her from the outside around 17-18 weeks.