I just recently shared our online photo album of DS with our family members and my former co-workers, and so far SIX people have already made comments about DS having red hair and how neither myself or DH do.
If one more person suggests/jokes/hints at anything having to do with someone other than DH being the father of my child, I swear they will rue the day! (yes, I just used that phrase)
Re: I'm SO sick of these "uh oh...the mailman!" comments!
Eh. I am the only one in my family with red hair, and my dad used to joke with people that it came from the milkman. I was embarassingly old before I realized what he meant and that drinking milk did NOT give you red hair.
I guess my point is that this is just one of those eternal "funny" comments (much like the twins question when you are hugely pg) so just try to let it roll off and not affect you since you can't stop it. I'm sure no one actually believes that your DH is not the father!
I couldn't help but LOL at that last sentence. Only cause I feel your pain.