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Emotional..

ananshelbyananshelby
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First of all, Congrats to all of the ladies who has gotten their BFP's. ?It's an amazing and beautiful thing and I hope that these are all sticky babies. ?

Although I'm happy for them, I can't help but feel miserable for myself. ?AF is here. ?My angel's EDD is fast approaching 2/17/09. I want my baby back. ?I should be preparing to have my baby soon. ?Today is a step backwards for me, but I'm going to be ok. ?I have this board for support and although I'm new, I hope to gain wonderful friendships like all the other ladies here. ?I need it. ?

Thanks for listening to my random thought.?

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  • Leah&ColeLeah&Cole member
    I am sorry that you're having a hard day.  Hang in there though.... you'll get through this.
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  • mrsfarmer0711mrsfarmer0711
    **Sending lots of hugs and sticky baby dust your way!**
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  • JenyMJenyM member
    (((HUGS))) i know how you feel. try not to let these emotions get to you. go do something nice for yourself today!
    BFP#1 missed m/c-d&c 10/27/08, BFP#2 BO-natural m/c 5/15/09, BFP#3 8/12/09-DS born 4/2010, BFP#4=TWINS-missed m/c&d/c 6/15/11, BFP#4 11/22/11- please stay with me
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  • gallerygirlgallerygirl member
    We know how you feel. Sometimes I can have a good hour and then a bad one... I hope you have more good days than bad.
    bfp #1 - 8/17/2008, natural m/c 8/25/2008, EDD 4/21/2009 bfp #2 - 10/6/2008, hb stopped at 7 w 3 d, d&e on 11/7/2008, EDD 6/19/2009 bfp #3- 3/14/2009.... stick, baby, stick!!!! (14 dpo - hcg 188, 16 dpo - hcg 421, 24 dpo - hcg 14,760!, 4/2 healthy HB of 130 bpm, 4/16 HB of 178 bpm!) bfp #4- 2/2/2011, EDD 10/17/2011 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    BabyFruit Ticker a bfing, cding, wah momma Congrats to my buddies Tiffanylaw06, Jeny M & burghbaby!
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  • HunOlichaHunOlicha

    It's okay to have your miserable days. I had a miserable day yesterday. I was down in the dumps for no reason... it wasn't really baby related... just a general "I feel horrible today" feeling. I'm hoping mine has something to do with PMS as I'm anxiously awaiting AF!

    Hang in there and do something nice for yourself this weekend! I plan to go to Old Navy tomorrow and buy myself something new.

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  • ananshelbyananshelby

    Thanks girls, it feels so nice to talk to people who understand and are going through it right along with me.?image??I'm going to get ready to head out and do a little shopping. ?Retail therapy always works.

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  • alwyzbsyalwyzbsy
    (((hugs))) I'm so sorry.  I know how you feel, my EDD is 8 days away.  The miscarriage has been weighing on my mind more lately too.
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  • Lucky428Lucky428

    Awww honey I am so sorry you're down today... It's not a step back -- you're just grieving.  The other day I sat in my therapist's office sobbing and repeating "I just want my baby back!"

    I'm sending you hugs and prayers...

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  • KK2004KK2004 member
    I'm sorry for your loss and that you're feeling this way.  I think it's only natural for you to be emotional at this time.  It will get better with time and of course you have a lot of caring people here to help you through it.  ((HUGS))
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker M/C #1 - BFP 12/28/2008. Confirmed m/c at 6wks - blighted ovum on 1/9/2009. M/C #2 - BFP 6/16/2009. Confirmed m/c at 7wks - blighted ovum on 7/1/2009.
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  • waitingforbaby#2waitingforbaby#2
    I'm so very sorry :(  I just got AF too and with all the BFP yesterday I just wasn't able to stay on the bump very long because of that (don't get me wrong either, I'm very happy for them). I'll be thinking of you on your due date, it's so hard. And yes, retail therapy does helps :)  I keep thinking that with the huge wave of BFN and CD1 we had this passed week, we are bound to be included in the huge wave of BFP next month! (hugs)
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