goodbye 1st tri :( I will be back

jlj6978 · January 2009

Its official, I had a miscarriage. It started yesterday. I am very sad but I will get better and i WILL be back here. Unfortunately I am not a good secret holder so my entire immediate family knows and now I have to tell them all the bad news.

Next time I will keep the secret closely guarded until I know officially and I see that little heart beating on the screen. It is very sad and crushing when you go in there and see a blank screen on the U/S.

Good luck to everyone it was great "talking" to you.

BlairWaldorf · January 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.

I hope that when you tell your family, you receive amazing support.

I look forward to seeing you on here again.

jenerally · January 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss.

GL!

mrsmel · January 2009

so, so sorry hon. gl in the future!

jenniferb96 · January 2009

I am so sorry for your loss!!!!

JenniferMae · January 2009

I'm very sorry for your loss! I hope you are back very soon!

Kflie83 · January 2009

I'm sure you'll be back soon. So sorry for your loss, I know how hard it can be. You're in my prayers!

Link41208 · January 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.

HeyyRed · January 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss. I too am not a secret keeper but I like to think that you will have an even bigger support network had you kept it a secret. Like so many others I M/C my first and am pregnant again and couldn't keep it a secret this second time either. Take care of yourself and let others take care of you too and we'll see you back here again soon!

jillianjigs7 · January 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I told my whole family about our pregnancy and then we lost the baby. I had to tell my family the bad news too, but to my surprise, they were all so very supportive and I am glad that I had and still have that.

Many hugs and prayers for you and your family.

I hope you and I are both back on the 1st tri board soon.

Finn829 · January 2009

I'm very sorry for your loss.

MrsPreK · January 2009

I am sorry for your loss =/

kaustin · January 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.

Temp308688937504427 · January 2009

I am so sorry for you loss

Michelle&Mark · January 2009

I'm so sorry for your loss.

johnsoar · January 2009

I'm sorry for your loss.

t.bird · January 2009

i'm sorry

guilliatt05 · January 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope to see you back here soon. Good Luck.

xnbride · January 2009

I am so sorry. I am right here with you.

Yes the "untelling" is very sad. I just sent out an email to those I told and that helped alot. Yeah its impersonal but there was no other way to do it so effectively.

Sept2009Baby · January 2009

I am so very sorry for your loss. Im sure you will be back on here before you know it. I hope your family and friends are supporting you and know that you have all of us on here too!

ChrisNBobby · January 2009

I am so sorry for your loss.

~*BREN*~ · January 2009

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, but I think it's a good thing that you told your family because now they can all support you. Best of luck and health to you. Take care.