Sister watching DD overnight, need some suggestions

soon2bmrs.s!

My sister is doing us a huge favor and watching our 2 yr old for 2 days/1 night so DH and I can get away.

The first part I need help with is a list of info I should have for her. Obviously doctor's phone #'s, DD's health facts, and her insurance card in case of emergency. What else?

Also, should I leave her money to get dinner? I don't want her to have to hassle making something (she is staying at our house). Leave a gift card for a take out place? She will have DD's carseat in her car and I know she will want to go out at some point.

Third, what would be a good thank you gift? She is married, has a house, no kids. She doesn't really like lotions/candles stuff like that. She likes more practical gifts. But, a gift card to home depot just seems like an odd gift, know what I mean?

Thanks for any ideas!

SLPgirl

I would type out a schedule of a typical day and include DD's favorite activites and special tricks (like mine love to be sung to). I would leave her some money to get dinner but also stock your pantry with things that would be easy for her to make if she doesn't make it out. I think a gift card to her favorite store would be great- that's always my favorite gift!

JOEBunny

I would leave some money for dinner and/or to do something with your DD, like go to the zoo or whatever she might like.  Leave a note allowing her to seek medical treatment until you can be reached, along with the insurance card if you are going to be more than a few minutes away.

I would get her something that would be a treat, that she would not buy herself, like maybe a pretty Christmas Wreath for her door or a Starbucks giftcard or even just a new sweater.  I once gave my mom all new spices for keeping DD.  

Have a great time!

MrsMandaK

Maybe go over where you keep basic first aid supplies and medications (like Tylenol & Motrin) in the house and how you use them.

Definitely leave money for dinner or something easy to fix - like a premade casserole.

 For a gift...what about a gift certificate for a massage or a mani/pedi?

snickerdoodle27

I'd make sure the pantry is stocked with snacks, beverages and food. Leave a $20 or something for pizza. Leave a list of specifics: nap time, bedtime, bedtime routine, favorite books/toys/games, let her know good places to go if she wants to venture out. don't forget to leave the stroller and have a diaper bag packed for her. A giftcard to a grocery store is a gift I would love right now!

annak23

Yes, give her a typical day schedule & things she likes to eat, etc.  Also instructions on discipline.  I might also have poison control's # on there!

I would give her maybe $20 for dinner or else make a premade casserole she can just pop in the oven, it might be difficult for her to leave the house with a 2yr old depending on the situation! 

I would give her a GC so that she can have a date night with her DH! Return the favor, even though she doesn't have kids yet!

soon2bmrs.s!

Thanks for all the great ideas! We are going to be about 2 hours away so I want to make sure she has everything she would need in case of a medical emergency.

I didn't even think about leaving money for her to take DD somewhere. There is a kids fun factory nearby that would ge a great afternoon break for her and DD.

For the thank you gift I was thinking about sending her flowers at work on Monday - from DD thanking her. I might see if I can order a fresh wreath from a florist to be delivered. That way she can use it and get the fun of a surprise.

Thank you for the help!

amiamish

You need to leave a signed release saying she can make medical decision for your DC in your absence.