Nervous for my FET

Josiecat

Hi ladies....

I'm having a bit of anxiety over my FET this Thursday. I've been pregnant so many times, I'm frightened over this transfer actually working! If it works, it means I have to deal with wiping after using the bathroom... I don't think I can handle seeing blood, even if it's "old blood" and everything is okay. I'm frightened of the transfer NOT working and having only one embryo to use as backup. Ugh. 

So I guess what I need to hear from you ladies.... How did you mentally prepare yourself for the big day? Were you nervous or excited?  Any words of wisdom to pass on?

Thanks in advance, I don't know what I'd do without this group!!!!!! 

 

krdesi

Good luck! Hope everything goes great for you!

RosyGlow

JosieCat you've got this! These are your perfect verified with PGD embryos they can do this. It's possible that they never could before. Nothing about this embryo is the same as those past pregnancies, and your lining is "beautiful", remember! You are ready and your embryo is ready. It's the perfect combination. It's time!

Josiecat

Thanks for making me cry ladies :P

Rosy, I feel like I should read your post to Rocky music!! You're right, I CAN do this! And this pregnancy WILL be different!! I am woman, hear me ROAR!!!! (Right after I get in a good cry though, seriously, I'm really emotional right now) 

Praying4Miracle17

I felt the same way before my first FET!  Good luck!!

RosyGlow

Josiecat:

Thanks for making me cry ladies :PRosy, I feel like I should read your post to Rocky music!! You're right, I CAN do this! And this pregnancy WILL be different!! I am woman, hear me ROAR!!!! Right after I get in a good cry though, seriously, I'm really emotional right nownbsp;

You are so right! Cry it out, then pump yourself up, then repeat! I think posting the anxiety here always helps, so if you see spotting at all, come post here about it and we will put your mind at ease. This is a different pregnancy, so spotting will occur for entirely different reasons! Expect to be normal and I'm sure it will pan out. You are going to rock this. I can feel it!