Bitchfest Monday

amarissa85

Let em go!

MinnesotaMomma91

Im exhausted. Ive been awake since 1:15 with intense contractions.

BlueJewelM

A few weeks ago a girl I "talk" to only on FB asked me for my address. This week I get a "save the date" for her upcoming wedding. Now for the stats...

I was friends with this girl from the ages of 9 and 16...and honestly from years 14 on...we didn't hang at all. I moved to another state at age 16 and haven't talked to her since. Ummmm. I'm 31 now. And there are even more states between us now as adults because I moved even farther away.

I'm just ignoring it, but seriously? Why send a girl an invitation to your wedding that you haven't exchanged anything more than a simple fb message with 15 years? God I hate Facebook. It gives people this false sense of friendship. Just because I add you on there doesn't mean we are REALLY friends. It means I remember you and just like to look at your pics and judge you. That's why I only have 10 photos on my page since joining in 2011 and maybe 15 posts.

Anyway...annoyed.

Edited: wording. Got caught up in the moment of complaining.

AACaHa13

I can't get comfortable at night and It makes me want to cry. My belly feels so sore no matter what side I'm on.

Cosmic+Love

This is kind of a lame b!tch, but I feel like the baby is going to fall out of my bum at any second. Haha! Seriously, he/she is placing so much pressure on my behind. I don't think I've "dropped" yet, but the head is definitely down there.

lkobriant

Let me preface this by saying, I'm completely aware that every pregnancy is different, that LO is better off staying in until 40 weeks, and that a lack of activity means nothing....

I'm  so frustrated!  I'm  38 weeks, and besides one evening of contractions which were incredibly mild and not regular I haven't felt anything!  It's not so much that I need LO to come early (although I wouldn't be upset if that happened), I just want to feel like we're making progress.  The longer this LO stays in the less time I have with him/her before going bake to school, so I'm being a little selfish about getting him/her here!

ETA: *back, not bake*. Stupid iPad won't let me edit it.  

JHarris8166

DH was out with his friends all weekend and I didn't say much. This morning he woke up not feeling good and we have a ton of stuff to get done this week. He didnt feel good Friday but it went away for the weekend convenient?! He also started complaining his work pants aren't clean because I forgot to do laundry since I worked all weekend. Don't wake me up at 5 am to ask me about laundry!!!

LiylaRae

I'm a exhausted, uncomfortable, hormonal mess. These contractions keep messing with my head and are driving me insane. If they aren't the real thing they need to go away!! Ughhh!

WildRumpus

I'll ditto that I KNOW 40 weeks is best, but...I'm just done. I'm sick of going to the doctor twice a week, I hurt and have stretch marks in places I never thought possible, and...just ugh. It doesn't help that my entire family, meaning my mom and sisters, have all gone early, or on their due date at the latest. Which means he's fully planning to go the full 42.

MitsB707

My house is a mess, and it gives me anxiety. Lo's room and stuff is still not put away and ready. I feel like a bowling ball will be falling out of my vagina at any moment. I can't sleep from my hips and everything hurting. I'm tired of being pregnant, but still relaxing as much as possible because I don't want lo to come early and just feel as though he's not baked to perfection yet.

Apkmom23

Two times yesterday I got asked if I'm having TWINS! No I'm not! I just flipping huge and miserable but thank you for making me feel more miserable about my image! Dumb people!

lydsyjane

I was up late last night trying to sleep because I was having intense BH for many hours yesterday evening and into the night that were about 5 minutes apart. Finally managed to got some sleep! Pretty sure baby dropped or spun (hopefully not, she WAS head down..) because it feels different today. Still getting some BH this morning, but not so annoying as last evening. On the plus side, it doesn't feel like baby's shoving her feet into my ribs!

Okay, this was a lame b1tchfest addition. Haha, guess I'm not very b1tchy today!

Ktbug613

I am so sick of my mom and mil fighting and trying to get a one up on the other over this baby. I am dangerously close to banning everyone from the hospital because I just don't want to deal with their crap. And quite frankly Im starting to feel less bad about being selfish. I grew up in a split family there was constant fighting and competing over time with me and who was the better parent blah blah. No one was every happy. Every single important life event (graduations, school events, prom, our wedding ect) was overshadowed by fighting over who got to do what and I ended up in tears before or after every event and now the same thing is happening only between my family and my inlaws. I just can't live like that anymore. Is it really so much to ask, for everyone else to put their crap aside just once?

 

P.S big hugs to all you mommas stuck in a pattern of painful yet ineffective contractions. It sounds miserable!

MommyAmes2

I have such constant pressure, it's so painful. My hips are killing me. My thighs/groin hurt awful. Can't sleep. Contractions started a few days ago. I want them to go away until it's time for her to come. I don't wanna deal with this for 4 more weeks. Ughhhhhhhhh

Misery.

WheeLinTheSky3

My ILs came over yesterday along with my parents to celebrate DS and DH's birthdays. They drove me insane all day long and my BIL and his girlfriend never showed up so this made MIL grouchy and I think it hurt DH's feelings.

I left my computer at work on Friday so now I have to drive 50 miles round trip, go into a secure building and check in a 2 year old to get him a badge, grab my computer, return the badge and then turn around and go home. All to pick up my stupid computer.

I couldn't sleep all night because of extreme back pain which then led me to start listing things in my head that I needed to do in case this was labor.

V&G101808

#1: Why the hell do I have to get sick NOW?! With baby's arrival just around the corner my body decides it's a fabulous time to come down with a gross cold.  I have so much congestion, it's disgusting!

To top things off I'm supposed to be working from home but since one of my coworkers was going to be out I was asked to come in. Ugh.

#2: I'm over SPD and having to pee every 3.5 seconds.  I don't feel like I look like I've dropped however my body is telling me different by the amount of times I now have to pee a day... and all for about 5 drops of pee.  Really?!

My SPD has gotten WAY worse these last 2 or 3 weeks and getting in and out of bed is just painful.  Add in my 5 nightly trips to the bathroom plus see #1 above, I am one cranky momma.

Leahks77

Grrrrrr. On the way to work last night I stopped to get coffee. Yup, still drinking my coffee. I am a nurse and I work nights and I know my daily allowances and I even, usually, follow them. So I order, and the girl at Dunkin Donuts looks at my stomach and says "Decaf?" No. Regular. Are you the caffeine police?!? And I swear, SHE GAVE ME DECAF. So I had a long shift taking care of my very sick patients waddling around on my swollen Hobbit feet at 38 weeks without my caffeine!!! I am so tired right now I could cry. I hate her. Ugh.

P.s. I'm also sorry for everyone who is having painful useless contractions!! I hope they get you somewhere soon!

lkobriant

Why does the bump have to be such a pain when updating siggy and avatar?!  All I want is to AW my maternity pics and when I can get them to change they are HUGE!  So, sorry ladies, I'm working on it!

BlondieBia21

1. My hip is numb for the 3rd day in a row. Not only does it go numb, it also sends this lovely burning sensation throughout my groin. Thank you sciatica.
2. I love my hair and shampoo and conditioner are about the one thing I will spend a good amount of money on. We stayed at ILs this weekend while we were in town and on sat when I went to shower, I realized my shampoo was missing. We stay in the basement where no one goes so we keep our toiletries here. I asked fi if he moved it, he said no. I went ahead and used just my conditioner, and told mil that I must be going crazy because my shampoo is gone, and my conditioner was low. Keep in mind that I have extremely dry hair and use shampoo and conditioner that is around 25 or more a bottle. She tells me that she RAN OUT and always liked the way my hair smelled so she used it and forgot to replace it!! I told her oh okay well it is expensive stuff and you really only need a little because it is good so she must've used a crap ton. She told me she would replace it and thanked me and walked away. Yesterday she comes home with Head and Shoulders shampoo and the store brand conditioner and tells me she got my replacements.... No no no. I know it's stupid, but it is just annoying. My hair has been a bigger hot mess this pregnancy than before and all I want is my good shampoo and conditioner but now I will have to go buy and replace myself. Grrr.

afrochick09

Don't really have much to complain about. I just want to eat. Not just anything though, fast food. Not just one little thing though, full out pig out session. 

 

 

 

RK125

I tired of having to pee all the time and its only like 5 drops! Ugh!

I'm done with my mother's jealous behavior. I understand you want to be more involved. I understand that neither one of us has a reliable car to drive the distance. I understand that my mil lives in town and you think I see her every day (I don't.). I swear I'm going to blow up the serenity prayer and mail it to her! 

lkobriant

BlondieBia21:

2. I love my hair and shampoo and conditioner are about the one thing I will spend a good amount of money on. We stayed at ILs this weekend while we were in town and on sat when I went to shower, I realized my shampoo was missing. We stay in the basement where no one goes so we keep our toiletries here. I asked fi if he moved it, he said no. I went ahead and used just my conditioner, and told mil that I must be going crazy because my shampoo is gone, and my conditioner was low. Keep in mind that I have extremely dry hair and use shampoo and conditioner that is around 25 or more a bottle. She tells me that she RAN OUT and always liked the way my hair smelled so she used it and forgot to replace it!! I told her oh okay well it is expensive stuff and you really only need a little because it is good so she must've used a crap ton. She told me she would replace it and thanked me and walked away. Yesterday she comes home with Head and Shoulders shampoo and the store brand conditioner and tells me she got my replacements.... No no no. I know it's stupid, but it is just annoying. My hair has been a bigger hot mess this pregnancy than before and all I want is my good shampoo and conditioner but now I will have to go buy and replace myself. Grrr.

No, no, no!!  I agree!  I'm the same way, crazy dry hair that's just gotten worse with pregnancy, I finally broke down and started getting the good shampoo.  I would go crazy on her if she used it all and then spent all of $5 on store brand to replace it...ummm, I think not!  I'd have DH all over that because I doubt I'd be able to control myself, of course MIL thinks all I do is spend DH's money so I'm sure there would be some ulterior motive behind it!

NiksMama

Apkmom23:

Two times yesterday I got asked if I'm having TWINS! No I'm not! I just flipping huge and miserable but thank you for making me feel more miserable about my image! Dumb people!

You are not alone. I get this question all the time.

Texasmomma13

My sweet little Savannah has apparently learned a few new tricks recently. She has discovered how much fun it is to push my ribs with her little foot. The second, and incredibly painful one, I'm not sure what she's doing. But it feels like she is trying to claw her way out of my gut. Did I mention it hurts?
I'm kinda hoping she does it today at the growth scan. I would like to know wth is going on in there.

NiksMama

I want my bladder control back.

The end.

BlondieBia21

lkobriant:

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No, no, no!!  I agree!  I'm the same way, crazy dry hair that's just gotten worse with pregnancy, I finally broke down and started getting the good shampoo.  I would go crazy on her if she used it all and then spent all of $5 on store brand to replace it...ummm, I think not!  I'd have DH all over that because I doubt I'd be able to control myself, of course MIL thinks all I do is spend DH's money so I'm sure there would be some ulterior motive behind it!

That's how I feel! I haven't been able to work since 24 wks per OBs orders. My fi does have a great job and there is no issue with one income. I will even be a sahm once baby is here because we can make it work. I felt like it was her sneaky way of telling me I don't need to be spending that on my hair, funny thing is, FI goes to the salon and buys it for me because he knows it makes me feel better haha. He said he's going to talk to her today to make sure she knows it was expensive and not only did she take it from me, since HE bought it, she took from him as well ha. Now if we were staying here and eating all their food, that'd be a different story. All we do is sleep here and we go out and do stuff during the day so we aren't around to be in the way. Grrr.

Ktbug613

NiksMama:

I want my bladder control back. The end.

 

I think we can all ditto this!

 

bendicott7

Ktbug613:

NiksMama:

I want my bladder control back. The end.

 

I think we can all ditto this!

 

Definitely! Every time I stand up or move I feel the urge.

ktbear9512

I'm working until I go into labor basically, which makes it hard to wind things down because I don't know exactly when I'll go out. I had a really big project due today that I busted my butt getting done on Friday because I didn't want it hanging over my head.  Meanwhile, my project mgr keeps asking me if I will have it done by Monday. (Well maybe I would if I didn't have to keep answering your dumb emails!)

So I finish and send it out Friday afternoon. This morning, I have an email from PM thanking me for getting it done early and saying that baby must be helping me. Yes, he's doing a great job in there getting my work done for me... SMH 

Soleil3

V&G101808:

#1: Why the hell do I have to get sick NOW?! With baby's arrival just around the corner my body decides it's a fabulous time to come down with a gross cold.  I have so much congestion, it's disgusting!

To top things off I'm supposed to be working from home but since one of my coworkers was going to be out I was asked to come in. Ugh.

#2: I'm over SPD and having to pee every 3.5 seconds.  I don't feel like I look like I've dropped however my body is telling me different by the amount of times I now have to pee a day... and all for about 5 drops of pee.  Really?!

My SPD has gotten WAY worse these last 2 or 3 weeks and getting in and out of bed is just painful.  Add in my 5 nightly trips to the bathroom plus see #1 above, I am one cranky momma.

 I've heard cold symptoms are a sign of oncoming labor  

lkobriant

BlondieBia21:

That's how I feel! I haven't been able to work since 24 wks per OBs orders. My fi does have a great job and there is no issue with one income. I will even be a sahm once baby is here because we can make it work. I felt like it was her sneaky way of telling me I don't need to be spending that on my hair, funny thing is, FI goes to the salon and buys it for me because he knows it makes me feel better haha. He said he's going to talk to her today to make sure she knows it was expensive and not only did she take it from me, since HE bought it, she took from him as well ha. Now if we were staying here and eating all their food, that'd be a different story. All we do is sleep here and we go out and do stuff during the day so we aren't around to be in the way. Grrr.

Damn MILs and their passive aggressiveness!  I just pray that if this LO is a boy I will have learned enough of what NOT to do from my MIL to not be such a pain!

Melanieian

I have been having painful contractions all weekend, so painful I haven't really slept and I'm sore all over just from trying to move around to get comfortable. I am so ready to be normal again and not be in constant pain!

tarapike86

Soleil3:

V&G101808:

#1: Why the hell do I have to get sick NOW?! With baby's arrival just around the corner my body decides it's a fabulous time to come down with a gross cold.  I have so much congestion, it's disgusting!

To top things off I'm supposed to be working from home but since one of my coworkers was going to be out I was asked to come in. Ugh.

#2: I'm over SPD and having to pee every 3.5 seconds.  I don't feel like I look like I've dropped however my body is telling me different by the amount of times I now have to pee a day... and all for about 5 drops of pee.  Really?!

My SPD has gotten WAY worse these last 2 or 3 weeks and getting in and out of bed is just painful.  Add in my 5 nightly trips to the bathroom plus see #1 above, I am one cranky momma.

 I've heard cold symptoms are a sign of oncoming labor  

Ditto! I had a "cold" everytime I went into labor

tarapike86

My girls were up from one am until 4 am They are asleep again but I am awake. Ugg! Going to be a long day

janneann1127

BlondieBia21:

1. My hip is numb for the 3rd day in a row. Not only does it go numb, it also sends this lovely burning sensation throughout my groin. Thank you sciatica. 2. I love my hair and shampoo and conditioner are about the one thing I will spend a good amount of money on. We stayed at ILs this weekend while we were in town and on sat when I went to shower, I realized my shampoo was missing. We stay in the basement where no one goes so we keep our toiletries here. I asked fi if he moved it, he said no. I went ahead and used just my conditioner, and told mil that I must be going crazy because my shampoo is gone, and my conditioner was low. Keep in mind that I have extremely dry hair and use shampoo and conditioner that is around 25 or more a bottle. She tells me that she RAN OUT and always liked the way my hair smelled so she used it and forgot to replace it!! I told her oh okay well it is expensive stuff and you really only need a little because it is good so she must've used a crap ton. She told me she would replace it and thanked me and walked away. Yesterday she comes home with Head and Shoulders shampoo and the store brand conditioner and tells me she got my replacements.... No no no. I know it's stupid, but it is just annoying. My hair has been a bigger hot mess this pregnancy than before and all I want is my good shampoo and conditioner but now I will have to go buy and replace myself. Grrr.

This would piss me off too. I spend way too much money on beauty products, and I don't like the cheap stuff. 

I know it's too early to go into labor quite yet, but my body totally had me fooled yesterday. I started having contractions all afternoon. With my last pregnancy, the day the contractions started, I went into labor. I've never had this false labor crap before & I don't like it! I had to sound the alarm and let my sitter know, then of course it turns out to be nothing. My first baby was early, so I guess I figured this could be it. I do want baby to cook longer, but I'm kind of annoyed that I got all excited and nothing...

amarissa85

Ugh, just ugh is all I can say today.

WaterWorth0102

VG101808:

1: Why the hell do I have to get sick NOW?! With baby's arrival just around the corner my body decides it's a fabulous time to come down with a gross cold.nbsp; I have so much congestion, it's disgusting!
To top things off I'm supposed to be working from home but since one of my coworkers was going to be out I was asked to come in. Ugh.
2: I'm over SPD and having to pee every 3.5 seconds.nbsp; I don't feel like I look like I've dropped however my body is telling me different by the amount of times I now have to pee a day... and all for about 5 drops of pee.nbsp; Really?!
My SPD has gotten WAY worse these last 2 or 3 weeks and getting in and out of bed is just painful.nbsp; Add in my 5 nightly trips to the bathroom plus see 1 above, I am one cranky momma.

I'd buy some Depends!!!

MissyCee

I want to sleep, even just for a few hours straight! My hips and back hurt so I toss and turn all night trying to get comfortable. I get so frustrated I feel like I could just break down and cry.

theatrelily

I can't get cool. It doesn't matter if I sit right in front of the air conditioner, with an extra fan blowing, I still burn up. 

I've gotten the bedroom so cool the last few nights that I wake to find my DH under TWO blankets, huddled and shivering, while I am still breaking a sweat without so much as a sheet.

It's supposed to hit 100 degrees by the end of the week, with lots of humidity, and I am pretty sure I am going to melt.  

I hate the summer. 

WaterWorth0102

1. Went to bed with, and woke up with a migraine, ugh!!

2. So tired of DH asking me if I could hurry up and have LO so he can take time off, I swear I'm gonna punch him!!!!!

3. I'm just tired...

nnikki10

DH was a bit of an A-Hole yesterday which caused me to get a headache. Things are better ( with us) but didn't sleep well bc of headache and of course it  is still here this morning.