Just need to vent

rwkimmons

Sorry in advacne for me venting...I have no one to talk too.

So here is goes...I'm 13 weeks today and so far it's been a good pregnancy. While I haven't been able to enjoy it as much as I'd like but it could be a lot worse. Yesterday I had to leave my SO to come back "home" for my summer classes. I hate having to leave him because when we aren't together it feels like we are so distant and not connected. It doesn't help either that we don't talk on the phone much when we are apart due to his work and my school. Ugh!!! And it really doesn't help that my family doesn't know yet another story for another time and when I'm home I have no support. Needless to say I'm ready to be back with my SO and have his help around the house and to take some of the stress off of me.

Okay...my venting is over for the night. I hope all of you ladies have had a great day!!

ashleywiz

Ugh, distance is the worst! Hang in there! And we're always here for a vent sesh!!

KatelynEA90

When I was pregnant with my daughter, DH and I lived in different states. He was going to school out of state and I was living in our hometown. I couldn't move with him after I got pregnant due to medical things. It sucked but we worked through it. It's going to be hard but it will all work out. 

peanutmuse

I'm trying to picture this situation in my head. Do you live by yourself when you are "home," or with family? It kind of sounds like you are a college student going home for summer break, albeit later than normal, but I can't really tell by your post.

I'm also trying to imagine why you wouldn't tell your family that you are pregnant. I mean, you're not going to be able to hide it much longer. It sounds like you are delaying the inevitable. I want to be supportive, but without more details, it's hard for me to be anything but curious.

rwkimmons

peanutmuse:

I'm trying to picture this situation in my head. Do you live by yourself when you are "home," or with family? It kind of sounds like you are a college student going home for summer break, albeit later than normal, but I can't really tell by your post. I'm also trying to imagine why you wouldn't tell your family that you are pregnant. I mean, you're not going to be able to hide it much longer. It sounds like you are delaying the inevitable. I want to be supportive, but without more details, it's hard for me to be anything but curious.

During the summer I stay with my grandparents so that I can take summer courses and then in the fall go back to the main college campus where I stay in my apartment. We haven't told them yet because SO and I want to tell them together and we haven't had a chance to do that yet. Everytime I'm with him, he's working and on his days off is when he has "guy time". So far I've done good in hiding it but its getting close to where I can't for obvious reasons. We also know how they will react and that's another reason we are putting it off for a little bit longer.