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unsure if pregnant... any advice would be GREAT!! :)

sadly "ex" boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two weeks ago. I had the immediate discharge, the next day I had brown tinged blood, then started my period the day after that, so I didn't think it would have done anything. here I am two weeks later, and took 3 tests, all negative, but three days before and to the day of testing, I am nauseous, almost threw my food up and my medicine up in the same day, and so far the last two days I'm peeing more than usual, and I'm very tired, and the discharge is back off and on, again. I've also been cramping a lot, off and on. should I wait a little longer and test again, or just believe the three tests I already took? any advice right now would be very helpful! :)

Re: unsure if pregnant... any advice would be GREAT!! :)

  • You had your period 2 days after your had unprotected sex and have still taken 3 tests, which were negative, but still think you could be pregnant?

     

    I think it is highly unlikely. Negative test=not pregnant right now.

    You should read the newbie blog at the top of the board to learn how your cycle works. Good luck to you. 

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  • imageBigxMomma:
    I had the immediate discharge

    Please explain to me this phenomenon. Apparently I'm missing out on this...

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  • I'm going with not pregnant. Your period two days after having sex was your first clue.
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  • The best thing about hpts is that they are readily available and not that expensive.  If you want to pee on something pee.  And please read the instructions before peeing.  It will help a lot.

    More Advice: Have protected sex if you are attempting to avoid pregnancy. ;)

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  • Is this for real?!

    imagelilysylvis:
    You had your period two weeks ago? You are not pregnant.


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  • imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    I had the immediate discharge

    Please explain to me this phenomenon. Apparently I'm missing out on this...

    I bet not.  It is your man's juices leaking out.

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  • imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    I had the immediate discharge

    Please explain to me this phenomenon. Apparently I'm missing out on this...

     That's exactly what I am curious about too. What is THE Immediate Discharge that you speak of?



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  • imageBanker&BSN:
    imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    I had the immediate discharge

    Please explain to me this phenomenon. Apparently I'm missing out on this...

    I bet not.  It is your man's juices leaking out.

    Oh, that's what I bet she's talking about!

    Yes, man juice leaking out is a definite sign of....um...something?

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  • Immediate discharge is probably the sperm dripping out of her vag after sex. (She just hasn't figured out what it is yet ~ not surprising.)

     

    ETA - Dammit, Banker beat me to it! I have stupid, slow, mobile sausage fingers... 

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  • imageBigxMomma:
    sadly "ex" boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two weeks ago.

    Why are you sad about this? Was he not good in bed? Also, what's up with the quotations? Is he or isn't he? IM DYING TO KNOW.

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  • Ummm.....

    Your period 2 days after unprotected sex & 3 negative hpts = not pregnant. I'm confused why you tested at all. It sounds like you had a stomach bug & might be ovulating now-ish.

    Also(like everyone else), what is "the immediate discharge"???

    My advice is: If you don't want to get pregnant, stop having unprotected sex. 


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  • imagelilysylvis:
    imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    sadly "ex" boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two weeks ago.

    Why are you sad about this? Was he not good in bed? Also, what's up with the quotations? Is he or isn't he? IM DYING TO KNOW.

    Maybe he's "ex" boyfriend because he was bad in bed and she had the immediate discharge. 

    He probably got grossed out because it was just SO immediate.

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  • The only way you could be pregnant from sex two days before your period is if you Od RIGHT after your period started, like on CD3 which is highly unlikely.

    Add in your three negative tests; you're not pregnant.  You've likely just got a bug or something and you're noticing the other stuff more because you think you're pregnant.  Test once a week if you want, but I highly doubt you are.  And whatever you do, please don't go to the doctor for a blood test.

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  • This post is so ridiculous, I'm wondering how long before there's a DD!
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  • imageAmyfromMI:
    This post is so ridiculous, I'm wondering how long before there's a DD!


    Haha that's what I'm wondering too!
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  • imageGhostMonkey:

    And here I was just thinking that Parenting had a hold on all of the stupid for today.

    Nope.

     

    Parenting is so generous for sharing the stupid with the rest of TB.  I should go over there and make a clicky poll about it.

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  • imageBanker&BSN:
    imageGhostMonkey:

    And here I was just thinking that Parenting had a hold on all of the stupid for today.

    Nope.

     

    Parenting is so generous for sharing the stupid with the rest of TB.  I should go over there and make a clicky poll about it.

    Or you could just make a clicky poll here!!



    Me: 32 DH: 31.
    B/W: good. SA: good.
    November 2012: Paratubal cyst found during U/S.
    January 10, 2013: Lap removed paratubal cyst and Stage 2 Endometriosis. 
    3 cycles of Femara + TI = BFNs

    June 2013: Femara 2.5 mg, Gonal F Injects 37.5 IU, Menopur, trigger + IUI = BFN

    July 2013: Femara 2.5 mg, Gonal F Injects 75 IU, Menopur, trigger + IUI = BFP!!!!

    Beta 1 @ 11 DPIUI = 76. Progesterone = 27.3

    BFP 8/16/2013 // EDD 4/28/2014

    Jordan Samuel born April 19, 2014. 6 lb, 12 oz and 18 inches long.

     

     CLICK ME!!!11!!1111!!

     

  • imagesueann911:
    imageBanker&BSN:

    Parenting is so generous for sharing the stupid with the rest of TB.  I should go over there and make a clicky poll about it.

    Or you could just make a clicky poll here!!

    This. I like to click things.

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  • imageMrsM507:
    imagesueann911:
    imageBanker&BSN:

    Parenting is so generous for sharing the stupid with the rest of TB.  I should go over there and make a clicky poll about it.

    Or you could just make a clicky poll here!!

    This. I like to click things.

    All of this. It has been far too long since we have had one of Banker's clicky polls. 

  • imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    I had the immediate discharge

    Please explain to me this phenomenon. Apparently I'm missing out on this...

    Ha ha, I was thinking the exact same thing! What is this "immediate discharge" no one has told me about and that I'm supposed to be getting?? ;) 

  • imageteal owl:
    imagelilysylvis:
    imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    sadly "ex" boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two weeks ago.

    Why are you sad about this? Was he not good in bed? Also, what's up with the quotations? Is he or isn't he? IM DYING TO KNOW.

    Maybe he's "ex" boyfriend because he was bad in bed and she had the immediate discharge. 

    He probably got grossed out because it was just SO immediate.

    This. is. hilarious. Thank you ladies for the morning laugh!

    I think we should all start describing our immediate discharge as a symptom from here on out...and chart it on FF! 

  • imageelizabethb3:
    imageteal owl:
    imagelilysylvis:
    imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    sadly "ex" boyfriend and I had unprotected sex two weeks ago.

    Why are you sad about this? Was he not good in bed? Also, what's up with the quotations? Is he or isn't he? IM DYING TO KNOW.

    Maybe he's "ex" boyfriend because he was bad in bed and she had the immediate discharge. 

    He probably got grossed out because it was just SO immediate.

    This. is. hilarious. Thank you ladies for the morning laugh!

    I think we should all start describing our immediate discharge as a symptom from here on out...and chart it on FF! 

    I never knew immediate discharge was an early implantation symptom!

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  • "Immediate discharge" can also happen if you orgasm. Just thought I'd throw that out there. Anyone who's TTC sometimes thinks they could be pregnant. Symptoms like cramping and fatigue often happen before you get your period again or if your about to ovulate. They just seem like a bigger deal because pregnancy's on your mind. I know your not TTC, but maybe read some pregnancy books to get "re-educated."

     

  • "The Immediate Discharge" sounds like a great name for a band.

     

     

  • imageherecomesthesun:

    "The Immediate Discharge" sounds like a great name for a band.

    Featuring their smash hits, "I Can See Thru Your Clear Period (I Can See Your Heart)" and "Blast Off In Me, Show Me Your Love".

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  • YESSS!!!

    Can I please use this (gif) for my sig?  

  • imageherecomesthesun:

    "The Immediate Discharge" sounds like a great name for a band.

    I bet they'll be classified as c*ck rock. GET IT? GET IT?

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  • imagelilysylvis:
    You had your period two weeks ago? You are not pregnant.

    But what if it was her clear period?
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  • imageteal owl:
    imageherecomesthesun:

    "The Immediate Discharge" sounds like a great name for a band.

    I bet they'll be classified as c*ck rock. GET IT? GET IT?

    I'm giggling. 

    Led Zeppelin, The Who, Motley Crue, Immediate Discharge.

     

  • imageteal owl:
    imageBanker&BSN:
    imageteal owl:

    imageBigxMomma:
    I had the immediate discharge

    Please explain to me this phenomenon. Apparently I'm missing out on this...

    I bet not.  It is your man's juices leaking out.

    Oh, that's what I bet she's talking about!

    Yes, man juice leaking out is a definite sign of....um...something?

    I knew this board would be entertaining just from the title and it did not disappoint...this response literally made me lol Yes

  • Nope. Nope. Nope. I'm with pp's, I wanna know more this immediate discharge. I sure hope its man juices, because if not then I don't have it, and I'm totes jelly!!!!11!!!111
    ETA: I obviously don't know the difference in then and than
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    imageTattooedLoisLane:
    Nope. Nope. Nope. I'm with pp's, I wanna know more this immediate discharge. I sure hope its man juices, because if not than I don't have it, and I'm totes jelly!!!!11!!!111

    Indifferent



    What? You don't want extra juices?
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  • If you've taken 3 tests and they're all negative, I'm going to say they're accurate and you're not pregnant, especially if you've had a period.  Also, nauseous and other pregnancy symptoms don't usually start until about 6 weeks.
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