TTC After a Loss

Bumper sticker

We are on the road. Vacation time. I happen to see a SUV and read her bumper sticker. It said I'm and Angel's Mom. Love it. Have to admit I got ready eyed.

Nice to see someone showing their love to their Angel.
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Me (40) DH (42).......Married 7/1/11......TTC 12/2013.......BFP #1 12/30/12........EDD 9/8/13
Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
BFP # 2 10.10.13...........EDD 6.19.14



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Re: Bumper sticker

  • Ooo, I want one

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    Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

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  • That's very sweet... I admire their ability to be public about their loss.  I struggle with that.

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  • image HelloSweetie1:
    That's very sweet... I admire their ability to be public about their loss. nbsp;I struggle with that.


    Yes that is what I was so impressed by. I am very open with my MC but I know it is hard for some.
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    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
    BFP # 2 10.10.13...........EDD 6.19.14



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  • If you check out "Baby Boards" on FB, she makes window decals, rearview mirror decorations and other cool stuff to remember angel babies. Smile She even has onsies for rainbow babies! I'm totally going to buy one of those.

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    If you check out "Baby Boards" on FB, she makes window decals, rearview mirror decorations and other cool stuff to remember angel babies. Smile She even has onsies for rainbow babies! I'm totally going to buy one of those.

     Great site, thanks for sharing! 

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  • Although the sentiment is nice I personally wouldn't want one.

     I'd hate to put it on my car and have the whole world know in such a public way. It's strange because I'm generally okay telling my story on my terms though. Strange right?


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    image shandorfml2:
    If you check out "Baby Boards" on FB, she makes window decals, rearview mirror decorations and other cool stuff to remember angel babies. Smile She even has onsies for rainbow babies! I'm totally going to buy one of those.

     Great site, thanks for sharing! 



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  • image Pink Camino:

    Although the sentiment is nice I personally wouldn't want one.

     I'd hate to put it on my car and have the whole world know in such a public way. It's strange because I'm generally okay telling my story on my terms though. Strange right?

    No, I don't think that's strange. Sometimes it's easier to not talk about it. It's ok to not be in 'loss mode' all the time. Whatever makes you feel best! No rules in grief.

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  • image Pink Camino:
    Although the sentiment is nice I personally wouldn't want one. nbsp;I'd hate to put it on my car and have the whole world know in such a public way. It's strange because I'm generally okay telling my story on my terms though. Strange right?

    No not strange at all. I am very open with my MC but I do not like putting bumper stickers on my car. I just thought it was awesome someone would share like she did. I have never seen a bumper sticker for A loss so that was a first for me.
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    Me (40) DH (42).......Married 7/1/11......TTC 12/2013.......BFP #1 12/30/12........EDD 9/8/13
    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
    BFP # 2 10.10.13...........EDD 6.19.14



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  • image shandorfml2:
    image Pink Camino:

    Although the sentiment is nice I personally wouldn't want one.

     I'd hate to put it on my car and have the whole world know in such a public way. It's strange because I'm generally okay telling my story on my terms though. Strange right?

    No, I don't think that's strange. Sometimes it's easier to not talk about it. It's ok to not be in 'loss mode' all the time. Whatever makes you feel best! No rules in grief.


    So true. I like how you said no rules in grief. You are so right on.
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    Me (40) DH (42).......Married 7/1/11......TTC 12/2013.......BFP #1 12/30/12........EDD 9/8/13
    Spotting,clot 2/15/13 all ok......2/21/13 no heartbeat 11 w 4 d missed miscarriage........2/22/13 DnC :(
    BFP # 2 10.10.13...........EDD 6.19.14



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    image shandorfml2:
    image Pink Camino:

    Although the sentiment is nice I personally wouldn't want one.

     I'd hate to put it on my car and have the whole world know in such a public way. It's strange because I'm generally okay telling my story on my terms though. Strange right?

    No, I don't think that's strange. Sometimes it's easier to not talk about it. It's ok to not be in 'loss mode' all the time. Whatever makes you feel best! No rules in grief.

    So true. I like how you said no rules in grief. You are so right on.

    Yeah. I can't remember where I heard it..maybe one of the loss books they gave me at the hospital. Makes a lot of sense. We are allowed to feel however we feel and grieve in our own time. It's freeing to think of it that way..

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    image Pink Camino:

    Although the sentiment is nice I personally wouldn't want one.

     I'd hate to put it on my car and have the whole world know in such a public way. It's strange because I'm generally okay telling my story on my terms though. Strange right?

    No, I don't think that's strange. Sometimes it's easier to not talk about it. It's ok to not be in 'loss mode' all the time. Whatever makes you feel best! No rules in grief.

    Yes  All of this. There is nothing strange about keeping it more personal. Everyone grieves and explains differently.



     







     
              
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    image shandorfml2:
    image Pink Camino:

    Although the sentiment is nice I personally wouldn't want one.

     I'd hate to put it on my car and have the whole world know in such a public way. It's strange because I'm generally okay telling my story on my terms though. Strange right?

    No, I don't think that's strange. Sometimes it's easier to not talk about it. It's ok to not be in 'loss mode' all the time. Whatever makes you feel best! No rules in grief.

    Yes  All of this. There is nothing strange about keeping it more personal. Everyone grieves and explains differently.

    Thumbs up 




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