January 2014 Moms

Totally NBR .... In disbelief.

Ok, so this is mostly just a venting post.  I just need somewhere to sound off these strange feelings I'm having.

My husband has an uncle (by marriage) who is somewhat developmentally delayed.  He was very welcoming of me into the family and just an all around great guy.  We are heading to Cannon Beach, OR on Tuesday and we were taking his uncle with him (he doesn't drive and we're meeting up with the rest of the family there).  We planned on staying until Saturday or Sunday.

Not more than a half hour ago, my husband got a call from his mom that his uncle passed away 3 hours prior of a heart attack at work.  Holy crap, I feel so blind sided and I'm in such disbelief.  The world lost a truly good soul.  My husband left for his parent's house.  I feel bad not going with him, because he even though he doesn't show emotion, I know he's got to be hurting. 

So at this point I have no clue if we're still going to the beach (which I totally understand completely if they cancel the trip) or what is really going to happen.  I'm just shocked.  That's the best way to describe it.  I called my friend who manages the apartments he was living in to tell her ... and she said he'd just been in this morning to show her his new hair cut and seemed to be really happy.  That makes me a little sad.  

Anyway, like I said, just needed a vent outlet, I think.  Crying

_______________________________________________________________________________________

Jacob & Audra - married since 05.28.11
Emma Kate - born 10.16.03 @ 29 weeks, weighed 1lb 13oz and 13.5" long.
Ozzy Joseph - born 11.01.13 @ 31 weeks, weighed 3lbs 7oz and 16" long.
TTC #3
_______________________________________________________________________________________

Re: Totally NBR .... In disbelief.

  • imagePNWGirl98118:
    Your whole family must be in such shock! I am so, so sorry for your loss. T&Ps for you in this difficult time. (((Hugs)))

    Thanks :)  It's just crazy how precious and unexpected life is. 

    _______________________________________________________________________________________

    Jacob & Audra - married since 05.28.11
    Emma Kate - born 10.16.03 @ 29 weeks, weighed 1lb 13oz and 13.5" long.
    Ozzy Joseph - born 11.01.13 @ 31 weeks, weighed 3lbs 7oz and 16" long.
    TTC #3
    _______________________________________________________________________________________

  • Loading the player...
  • Oh no! I'm so sorry. Keeping you, your DH, and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

    **********************************************************************************************************************

    Diagnosed with PCOS June 2010, TTC#1 since May 2012
    Cycle#1-3 Clomid 50mg + TI= No response
    Cycle#4-5 Clomid 150mg + Metformin 1000mg + TI= BFN, but finally ovulation!!!
    Cycle #6 Clomid 150mg + Metformin 1500mg + IUI(4/15)= BFP!!! EDD 01/06/2014 <br>

    Stella Margaret arrived on December 21, 2013!

    imageimage image



  • Wow, how shocking.  I'm sorry for your family's loss.  
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Pregnancy Ticker

  • I am very sorry.  Sending thoughts to you and your family.
  • aessary, I am so, so sorry for your family's loss. How heartbreaking. Hugs to you.
  • I am so sorry for your loss
    _____________________________________________________________
                           
                                          image         

    Lilypie Maternity tickersLilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was a very good man. 
    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers


     image 

    imageimage

  • aessary this is so sad - my heart goes out to you and your DH and the family... It sounds like he had lots of people around him who loved him, and that he passed excited about the weekend and happy about little things too. I'm really sorry to hear this, T&P.


  • i'm sorry for your family's loss, TPs

    _________________________________________________________________
    image
       Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker 
     "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." Philippians 4:6-7
    PgAL

    _________________________________________________________________



  • So sorry for your loss, thinking of you and your family.


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    PCOS diagnosed secondary infertility

    BFP #1 (letrozole 2.5mg + ovidrel) February 2016, MMC April 2016 @ 7 weeks

    BFP #2 (letrozole 5mg + ovidrel) July 2016, Beta #1 359, Beta #2 745, Beta #3 11484

    EDD April 9th, 2017

  • Oh no!  I'm sorry sorry!  Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.  (((hugs)))
    pregnancy due date Image and video hosting by TinyPic image
  • Oh wow, I'm so sorry!!! I'll be keeping you all in my t and ps.

    image

    Missing Our July Sparkler
    BFP#1-11/12/12, MMC 1/16/13-baby stopped growing @ 9wks, found out at 13wks, D&E 1/25/13
    BFP#2-4/23/13 EDD-01/02/14 baby BOY born 12/31/13 Michael Cameron <3

  • So sorry for your family's loss. Sudden losses are always such a shock. T&P's with your family. 
    -----------------------------------------------------------------

    mutt_zps2fb5f039-1_zps7220f27c
    BFP 11.8.12 * EDD 7.17.13 * MC 12.20.12
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
     photo bump_zpsf1e8435c.jpgRIP Post Count
     
  • I'm really sorry for your loss.  My T&Ps go out to you and your DH.
  • I'm so so sorry. That must have been a huge shock. What an awful morning. You and your family will me in my thoughts.
             *********************************************************************************
                      

    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Married October 2009. Me 29 H 28.
    After 1 year of infertility, our little miracle was conceived via our 3rd IUI on May 5, 2013.
    Holland Sophia was born Jan 24, 2014.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Just read this!  I'm so sorry for you, DH and all the family.  Losing a loved one is such a difficult experience.  I hope you can celebrate an amazing life lived, albeit too short.
  • I'm so sorry for you family's loss. 
    __________________________________________________________________________________________ 

    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers  
  • ccip82ccip82 member

    Big hugs aessary, I am so very sorry for your loss. Sending many thoughts and prayers to your family.

    ________________________________________________________________________________________________

    image

    sibling love  

This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"