~Monday B!tchfest!!~

wifeofafarmer

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

huskymomma94

I've had some family drama going on, its been going on for months and I am just so fvvcking sick of it. I just want everything to be normal. 

themrsJRD

Literally all of our programs are down at work. No email or anything. Makes for a very boring day. Haven't heard if they are even working on it to resolve the issues- out IT dept is a joke. Luckily, the interwebs are good so I'm bumping to pass the time and I have a great excuse to get out of here for lunch

[Deleted User]

I feel crabby today.. I'm usually very pleasant, but it's taking all I have in me not to be a total b!tch to stupid people right now.

mcatmay

jefa621:

This is the longest cycle I've ever had since keeping track.  Still none of my normal PMS symptoms and 2 neg tests.  I have no idea if our timing was good (I doubt it since it was only a couple times this month).  And it's all my own damn fault not knowing because I don't temp anymore.  I just want AF to show if she's going to because my mom is comming to visit this weekend and I don't want to feel crappy while she's here.  Blarg.

ETA:  We're also throwing a graduation open house on Saturday for my H since he recently finished his MBA program.  We busted our azzes cleaning up our yard for this.  I'm talking planting entire flower beds, mulching everything, trimming bushes etc.  It looked awesome.  Then we've had at least 2 huge thunderstoms come through, one of which 3 days ago took out our neighbors tree.  The bottom half landed on her garage causing it to collaps into our fence and bend the crap out of it.  The top half landed across our patio and 4 brand new bushes that we just planted the week before.  Now all my beds are full of pinecones and pineneedles after we worked so hard to make them look amazing.

 I would be so stabby, especially after all that works to make it looks awesome. I'm sorry jefa, that really blows.

Family drama here too - just tired of my mom stirring the pot just because she can.  

Drgn30

I'm annoyed with my flakiness in temping this cycle.  It's discouraging because I never sleep more than three hours at a time, I wake up at different times everyday, and FF has never recognized O on my chart.  I need to get back on track...

Also annoyed with everyone at work right now.  Even their voices make me cringe today.

tucker1384

I have to go back to work.tomorrow after four lovely days off

janda426

huskymomma94:

I've had some family drama going on, its been going on for months and I am just so fvvcking sick of it. I just want everything to be normal.nbsp;

This... I'm gonna need for these grown azz women to mind their business. This is why I keep to myself. I'm also mad that my dr appt was 40 minutes ago and I'm still sitting in the waiting room.

themrsJRD

jefa621:

This is the longest cycle I've ever had since keeping track.  Still none of my normal PMS symptoms and 2 neg tests.  I have no idea if our timing was good (I doubt it since it was only a couple times this month).  And it's all my own damn fault not knowing because I don't temp anymore.  I just want AF to show if she's going to because my mom is comming to visit this weekend and I don't want to feel crappy while she's here.  Blarg.

ETA:  We're also throwing a graduation open house on Saturday for my H since he recently finished his MBA program.  We busted our azzes cleaning up our yard for this.  I'm talking planting entire flower beds, mulching everything, trimming bushes etc.  It looked awesome.  Then we've had at least 2 huge thunderstoms come through, one of which 3 days ago took out our neighbors tree.  The bottom half landed on her garage causing it to collaps into our fence and bend the crap out of it.  The top half landed across our patio and 4 brand new bushes that we just planted the week before.  Now all my beds are full of pinecones and pineneedles after we worked so hard to make them look amazing.

Damn, that really sucks. I'm sorry. 

littlesocks

jefa621:

This is the longest cycle I've ever had since keeping track.nbsp; Still none of my normal PMS symptoms andnbsp;2 neg tests.nbsp; I have no idea if our timing was good I doubt it since it was only a couple times this month.nbsp; And it's all my own damn fault not knowing because I don't temp anymore.nbsp; I just want AF to show if she's going to because my mom is comming to visit this weekend and I don't want to feel crappy while she's here.nbsp; Blarg.
ETA:nbsp; We're also throwing a graduation open house on Saturdaynbsp;for my H since he recently finished his MBA program.nbsp; We busted our azzes cleaning up our yard for this.nbsp; I'm talking planting entire flower beds, mulching everything, trimming bushes etc.nbsp; It looked awesome.nbsp; Then we've had at least 2 huge thunderstoms come through, one of which 3 days agonbsp;took out our neighbors tree.nbsp; The bottomnbsp;half landednbsp;on her garage causing it to collaps into our fence and bend the crap out of it.nbsp; The top half landed across our patio and 4 brand new bushes that we just planted the week before.nbsp; Now all my beds are full of pinecones and pineneedles after we worked so hard to make them look amazing.

Wow that's awful. I'm really sorry for you!

Tamma254

wifeofafarmer:

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

The bolded got to me. The pastor that married my husband and I passed away yesterday morning, and everyone was sending their condolences. He was an amazing man, who touched many lives, my own included.

Just because someone is a "druggie or something" doesn't mean they weren't kind or not going to be missed.

littlesocks

jefa621:

janda426:

huskymomma94:

I've had some family drama going on, its been going on for months and I am just so fvvcking sick of it. I just want everything to be normal.nbsp;

This... I'm gonna need for these grown azz women to mind their business. This is why I keep to myself. I'm also mad that my dr appt was 40 minutes ago and I'm still sitting in the waiting room.

Blech.  In those situations I tell myself that maybe the doctor is taking longer with someone because of issues and I would appreciate the same attention if I needed extra time with him/her.

Ugh that's the worst. I always ask for the first morning appointment so ideally I won't have to wait. Last time my doctor came strolling in a half hour after my appointment should have started. Now I know why she's always running behind. Oh and she didn't see me right away. I don't know what the heck she was doing back there!!

CiderWench

I'm f'cking hungry!

Bebuh

My new niece is adorable, but her mother is a whore who cheated on my BIL, but she's pretending to be the perfect little wifey while they are visiting so she can get all the attention. (PS, the rest of the family still doesn't know about her affair and that she wants a divorce.) BIL doesn't want to tell the family yet b/c he's trying to delay the drama until he has more answers.

So I have to keep biting my tongue and playing nice, when really I want to call her out for all her crap. I hate being stuck in this situation. Grr.

[Deleted User]

Tamma254:

wifeofafarmer:

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

The bolded got to me. The pastor that married my husband and I passed away yesterday morning, and everyone was sending their condolences. He was an amazing man, who touched many lives, my own included.

Just because someone is a "druggie or something" doesn't mean they weren't kind or not going to be missed.

I get what you are saying, but I don't think she meant it like that. I'm pretty sure she is saying that she doesn't like it when people are fake, and say nice things about people they clearly didn't like (or know).

 I'm not saying I agree or disagree. I'm just trying to understand what is going on here. lol

von1976

Every time my H gets a cold, or is stuffed up, or has a cough, he immediately says, "I have a sinus infection" or "I have bronchitis". He woke up feeling badly this morning and went the sinus infection route, and I snapped (in a very exasperated fashion) "You DO NOT have a sinus infection! In all likelihood, you have a VIRAL upper respiratory infection."

I then made him promise to not go running to the doctor for antibiotics because they don't work on viruses and his lackadaisical attempts at taking them are likely to cause drug-resistant strains of bacteria. I tried to soften the blow a bit by telling him I didn't want to watch him die horribly of MRSA.

I was in super b!tch mode this morning. Where's CD1?

kramja01

Today is supposed to be CD 1 for me, and I've had light spotting and back cramps all morning. I need to get this show on the road so I don't have horrible AF when I leave for my trip on Wed.

Donniesgrrl

huskymomma94:

I've had some family drama going on, its been going on for months and I am just so fvvcking sick of it. I just want everything to be normal. 

 

This so very very much this! I am so so sick of the Bull Sh!t that freely flows from one side of my family, I am estranged from my mom because in the most literal term she is BSC and now my sister seems to be joining the bandwagon..see 2ww Monday post for the abridged version...I am just so tired of the crazy and I am tired of feeling like I am the crazy one, even though I have plenty of normal people around me that I have no problem maintaining healthy and acceptable relationships with.

candrew05

My bank card wouldn't work at the grocery store today.  It was quite an inconvinience but nothing to b!tch about compared to the last few days. 

I had an awful confrontation with a coworker on Friday.  I have been a tearful wreck ever since.  I seriously dont ever want to step foot in work again. I am so angry that one single person could get me so upset.

I have stopped temping. This cycle was a bit "wacked" and it truly frustrated me. I am drained from the emotions of ttc and I need a break.  I think that has extended to the amount I've been on the bump as well.

wifeofafarmer

Tamma254:

wifeofafarmer:

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

The bolded got to me. The pastor that married my husband and I passed away yesterday morning, and everyone was sending their condolences. He was an amazing man, who touched many lives, my own included.

Just because someone is a "druggie or something" doesn't mean they weren't kind or not going to be missed.

I'm sorry for your loss. I didn't mean that they wouldn't be missed or that they didn't contribute to their community. I just hate when people pass people feel the need to make the person out to more than they were to be. (I have a couple of people in mind when I say the following) I know the person who passed and I also know the people who were posting on FB about the persons passing and if you didn't know the person who passed you would think they were citizen of the year when IRL they were in and out of jail, in and out of jobs, drugs, etc. I mourn for the family that's left behind, especially the kids but I just hate the exaggeration part. I certainly didn't mean to offend anyone.

wifeofafarmer

NotElsie:

Tamma254:

wifeofafarmer:

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

The bolded got to me. The pastor that married my husband and I passed away yesterday morning, and everyone was sending their condolences. He was an amazing man, who touched many lives, my own included.

Just because someone is a "druggie or something" doesn't mean they weren't kind or not going to be missed.

I get what you are saying, but I don't think she meant it like that. I'm pretty sure she is saying that she doesn't like it when people are fake, and say nice things about people they clearly didn't like (or know).

 I'm not saying I agree or disagree. I'm just trying to understand what is going on here. lol

Yes, thank you NotElsie. Sorry for not making myself clear.

kare_bear_12

It has been over a week since I got my wisdom teeth out and I am still in alot of pain. I even left work early crying on Friday because I tried putting on a happy face and working through the pain all last week.

 

Bright side I have not have a cigarette for over a week. 11 Days without Nicotine!

wifeofafarmer

HatchetFace:

Tamma254:

wifeofafarmer:

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

The bolded got to me. The pastor that married my husband and I passed away yesterday morning, and everyone was sending their condolences. He was an amazing man, who touched many lives, my own included.

Just because someone is a "druggie or something" doesn't mean they weren't kind or not going to be missed.

Drug use or addiction doesn't automatically equal bad person. Not everyone who struggles with addiction is a thief or the stereotypical addict. I've met many high functioning addicts that were good people. That's really sad that you feel that way OP.  

I didn't mean that they weren't a good person. I just don't like how everyone and their dog has to say how wonderful they were when they really weren't that good of a person. Yes, they had plenty of good qualities, but they weren't the saint like everyone on FB is making them out to be, you know? Thats the part I hate. The "fake", "false", "embellishment" or whatever you want to call it. I knew the person who passed. Its a tragic event, and I mourn for the family left behind. I mourn for the person who passed too but I'm not on FB saying they were perfect. Its a very sad event and I will be going to the funeral. I didn't mean any disrespect.

NEF12812

kare_bear_12:

Bright side I have not have a cigarette for over a week. 11 Days without Nicotine!

Wow, great job! Keep it up.

 

I have really horrible gas today from all those beans I had for dinner! And there's so many left over I don't think I'm going to be able to resist.  

Shandan24

This is me today.

 

NEF12812

wifeofafarmer:

HatchetFace:

Tamma254:

wifeofafarmer:

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

The bolded got to me. The pastor that married my husband and I passed away yesterday morning, and everyone was sending their condolences. He was an amazing man, who touched many lives, my own included.

Just because someone is a "druggie or something" doesn't mean they weren't kind or not going to be missed.

Drug use or addiction doesn't automatically equal bad person. Not everyone who struggles with addiction is a thief or the stereotypical addict. I've met many high functioning addicts that were good people. That's really sad that you feel that way OP.  

I didn't mean that they weren't a good person. I just don't like how everyone and their dog has to say how wonderful they were when they really weren't that good of a person. Yes, they had plenty of good qualities, but they weren't the saint like everyone on FB is making them out to be, you know? Thats the part I hate. The "fake", "false", "embellishment" or whatever you want to call it. I knew the person who passed. Its a tragic event, and I mourn for the family left behind. I mourn for the person who passed too but I'm not on FB saying they were perfect. Its a very sad event and I will be going to the funeral. I didn't mean any disrespect.

You know, I agree with the OP. It seems like everyone wants to comment and say something nice just so that they can get the attention and credit for it. I think sometimes it makes people feel special to have known somebody who recently died. I believe they people are a minority and most people are probably sincere, but it's still annoying so I totally get it.

wifeofafarmer

lilysylvis:

wifeofafarmer:

HatchetFace:

Tamma254:

wifeofafarmer:

Alright ladies....its that time again!! Monday B!tchfest, so lets hear 'em!!

 

(I am still a newb and don't know how to do GIFs so imagine the most awesome GIF ever in its place!)

 

Here's mine - I hate when someone dies and everyone on FB thinks they have to comment and put RIP and put how he was such an awesome guy, or he was always so kind even if he was a druggie or something. I am all for NOT speaking ill of the dead but if you have to lie, just don't say anything other than its sad or something. I'm tired of fake.

I'm also pissed because I heard a song and immediately thought of my ex. I hate that and I hate it even more because it was involuntary!

The bolded got to me. The pastor that married my husband and I passed away yesterday morning, and everyone was sending their condolences. He was an amazing man, who touched many lives, my own included.

Just because someone is a "druggie or something" doesn't mean they weren't kind or not going to be missed.

Drug use or addiction doesn't automatically equal bad person. Not everyone who struggles with addiction is a thief or the stereotypical addict. I've met many high functioning addicts that were good people. That's really sad that you feel that way OP.  

I didn't mean that they weren't a good person. I just don't like how everyone and their dog has to say how wonderful they were when they really weren't that good of a person. Yes, they had plenty of good qualities, but they weren't the saint like everyone on FB is making them out to be, you know? Thats the part I hate. The "fake", "false", "embellishment" or whatever you want to call it. I knew the person who passed. Its a tragic event, and I mourn for the family left behind. I mourn for the person who passed too but I'm not on FB saying they were perfect. Its a very sad event and I will be going to the funeral. I didn't mean any disrespect.

I do get what you are saying, but I have been on the other side of it. When my brother passed those FB comments about his good qualities were some of the things that helped us get through it. No one could ever say he was "perfect", but he did have very good qualities, even though there were some who didn't feel that way. It makes it easier when you can remember the good times, and I think a lot of people want to make sure they mention the positives for that reason. I understand how you feel though. 

That's a great way to look at it, lily. I am all for remembering the positives, just not the lying.

themrsJRD

kare_bear_12:

Bright side I have not have a cigarette for over a week. 11 Days without Nicotine! 

 

That's awesome! Stick with it!!  

themrsJRD

GhostMonkey:

It sounds like you're referring to some of my coworkers.. lol. Meh, hope they shut their traps soon. =/ 

beckynsean11

After being off FB for 2 months, I finally go back on yesterday. I'm already up to 4 bump pics. 2 of those are pregnant with #2, different baby daddy, & that guy is already out of their lives just like BD#1 is. STOP FVUCKING LOSER AZZHOLES! I don't want to hear how much you hate your baby's daddy! I just don't care! You choose to fvuck him & not be careful, not my problem. 

 

Also, wifeofafarmer, to post gifs:

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EML2011

Who brings twins to an RE's office?! This is a waiting room full of women WHO CAN'T GET PREGNANT? Wtf...

wifeofafarmer

beckynsean11:

After being off FB for 2 months, I finally go back on yesterday. I'm already up to 4 bump pics. 2 of those are pregnant with #2, different baby daddy, & that guy is already out of their lives just like BD#1 is. STOP FVUCKING LOSER AZZHOLES! I don't want to hear how much you hate your baby's daddy! I just don't care! You choose to fvuck him & not be careful, not my problem. 

 

Also, wifeofafarmer, to post gifs:

right click on the gif(once you have the size you want)

copy image

paste image in your message

 

 

Thank you!

michaelad3

This is my husband too! EVERY TIME! He always gets antibiotics, and I try to warn him that they are going to stop working...oh well.

I woke up with a headache this morning, and it's Monday, so that just adds to the fun.  Now, our computer system at work is wacky and won't work for me, and I have no motivation to do anything else, so here I am bumping

ETA:  Oops! This was totally supposed to quote the comment about the DH who always thinks he has a sinus infection or bronchitis.  It's Monday...What can I say?

Sarah52Beth

Wtf body!!!! No signs of AF and I am on CD 39. I never have a cycle that long. Usually a week before AF my boobs are very sore and I have cramps. Nothing....yet I can't turn a damnn test. Whatever. I'm sure I'll start my period in a couple days. My body just feels like messing with me this cycle. I'm not getting my hopes up.

Tamma254

EML2011:

Who brings twins to an RE's office?! This is a waiting room full of women WHO CAN'T GET PREGNANT? Wtf...

Perhaps those twins were the product of the RE's treatments? Sometimes former patients bring in their children so the staff can see them.

EML2011

Tamma254:

EML2011:

Who brings twins to an RE's office?! This is a waiting room full of women WHO CAN'T GET PREGNANT? Wtf...

Perhaps those twins were the product of the RE's treatments? Sometimes former patients bring in their children so the staff can see them.

IMO this is inappropriate... Send a thank you card. Infertility treatments are emotional. There was a woman in the WR who looked like she was about to burst into tears. I think sometimes people forget how hard it was after they bring home their babies.

Not to mention there is a very large sign in the waiting room that says no children...

Tamma254

EML2011:

Tamma254:

EML2011:

Who brings twins to an RE's office?! This is a waiting room full of women WHO CAN'T GET PREGNANT? Wtf...

Perhaps those twins were the product of the RE's treatments? Sometimes former patients bring in their children so the staff can see them.

IMO this is inappropriate... Send a thank you card. Infertility treatments are emotional. There was a woman in the WR who looked like she was about to burst into tears. I think sometimes people forget how hard it was after they bring home their babies.

Not to mention there is a very large sign in the waiting room that says no children...

I agree that it is completely inappropriate that they would bring children into an office where it is posted no children. To my knowledge, not all RE offices are like that though. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that.

tealowl

Bebuh:

My new niece is adorable, but her mother is a whore who cheated on my BIL, but she's pretending to be the perfect little wifey while they are visiting so she can get all the attention. (PS, the rest of the family still doesn't know about her affair and that she wants a divorce.) BIL doesn't want to tell the family yet b/c he's trying to delay the drama until he has more answers.

So I have to keep biting my tongue and playing nice, when really I want to call her out for all her crap. I hate being stuck in this situation. Grr.

Are you upset that your adorable niece has a 'whore' for a mother? Should she be ugly because of that? I don't see the coorelation...

Obviously I don't have a back story, so I'm generalizing, but woman aren't whores or sluts just because they have sex with someone else while they are married. Maybe they have a justified reason. Maybe the husband cheated on them first. Maybe they want a divorce for a reason we don't know about.

FWIW - I cheated on my husband. Our relationship had become so void of any affection or love that I was literally starving for attention. When you're called a cuunt and a piece of shiit wife all the time, among other things, it makes it easier to wander. I don't regret it one bit. I'm a million times happier that we are now apart. It was a male friend of mine, not some rando or anything.

It just upsets me that when women cheat, we are whores and sluts, but when men do it, it's somehow OUR faults too. We're too frigid or boring or not giving it up enough. It's just bizarre and unfair.

themrsJRD

teal owl:

Bebuh:

My new niece is adorable, but her mother is a whore who cheated on my BIL, but she's pretending to be the perfect little wifey while they are visiting so she can get all the attention. (PS, the rest of the family still doesn't know about her affair and that she wants a divorce.) BIL doesn't want to tell the family yet b/c he's trying to delay the drama until he has more answers.

So I have to keep biting my tongue and playing nice, when really I want to call her out for all her crap. I hate being stuck in this situation. Grr.

Are you upset that your adorable niece has a 'whore' for a mother? Should she be ugly because of that? I don't see the coorelation...

Obviously I don't have a back story, so I'm generalizing, but woman aren't whores or sluts just because they have sex with someone else while they are married. Maybe they have a justified reason. Maybe the husband cheated on them first. Maybe they want a divorce for a reason we don't know about.

FWIW - I cheated on my husband. Our relationship had become so void of any affection or love that I was literally starving for attention. When you're called a cuunt and a piece of shiit wife all the time, among other things, it makes it easier to wander. I don't regret it one bit. I'm a million times happier that we are now apart. It was a male friend of mine, not some rando or anything.

It just upsets me that when women cheat, we are whores and sluts, but when men do it, it's somehow OUR faults too. We're too frigid or boring or not giving it up enough. It's just bizarre and unfair.

I think she meant that she loves her niece and is glad to have her but can't stand her mother, not specifically that her niece is cute and it makes her mad since she doesn't like her sister in law and therefore her niece should be ugly.

RE: your last paragraph, it upsets me too. It seems like women get blamed for many things in life while men seem to get a free pass, especially where family/babies/sex are concerned. 

Rocknroll64

teal owl:

Bebuh:

My new niece is adorable, but her mother is a whore who cheated on my BIL, but she's pretending to be the perfect little wifey while they are visiting so she can get all the attention. (PS, the rest of the family still doesn't know about her affair and that she wants a divorce.) BIL doesn't want to tell the family yet b/c he's trying to delay the drama until he has more answers.

So I have to keep biting my tongue and playing nice, when really I want to call her out for all her crap. I hate being stuck in this situation. Grr.

Are you upset that your adorable niece has a 'whore' for a mother? Should she be ugly because of that? I don't see the coorelation...

Obviously I don't have a back story, so I'm generalizing, but woman aren't whores or sluts just because they have sex with someone else while they are married. Maybe they have a justified reason. Maybe the husband cheated on them first. Maybe they want a divorce for a reason we don't know about.

FWIW - I cheated on my husband. Our relationship had become so void of any affection or love that I was literally starving for attention. When you're called a cuunt and a piece of shiit wife all the time, among other things, it makes it easier to wander. I don't regret it one bit. I'm a million times happier that we are now apart. It was a male friend of mine, not some rando or anything.

It just upsets me that when women cheat, we are whores and sluts, but when men do it, it's somehow OUR faults too. We're too frigid or boring or not giving it up enough. It's just bizarre and unfair.

But didn't you just blame your husband for your infidelity?

ETA: For what it's worth, when husbands cheat I don't think it's because their wives are frigid, I think it's because the husbands are selfish azzholes who can't control themselves or are too chicken shiit to get out of a bad relationship first.

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EML2011:

Who brings twins to an RE's office?! This is a waiting room full of women WHO CAN'T GET PREGNANT? Wtf...

Perhaps those twins were the product of the RE's treatments? Sometimes former patients bring in their children so the staff can see them.

IMO this is inappropriate... Send a thank you card. Infertility treatments are emotional. There was a woman in the WR who looked like she was about to burst into tears. I think sometimes people forget how hard it was after they bring home their babies. Not to mention there is a very large sign in the waiting room that says no children...

Women struggling to conceive are not the only ones that see endocrinologists. It's possible one of those children was the patient, and not the result of a treatment cycle.

 

 This was not the case. The woman came in and said " we don't have an appt but just stopped in to say hello to dr. X". The office was extremely backed up so they were in the WR for quite some time.