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update on my nephew with downs. Infant loss mentioned

I thought Id give an update to those of you who have prayed/sent good juju for my nephew with downs syndrome.

For a while he was progressing very well, breathing better, ect...We were still having unexplained swelling and problems with his liver. On wednesday we recieved the results from his liver biopsy, and discovered that the disease found there had never been seen before by doctors. By wednesday afternoon, he began having severe breathing troubles, and the doctors had exhausted every game plan/ treatment possible. My sister and BIL made the heart wrenching desicion to turn off the machines keeping him alive. His closest family gathered with them, and we held him for 2 1/2 hours until he passed. Only now do we realize just how sick that poor baby was.


At 4 months old, he never saw his nursery, he was only held about 10 times, but he touched so many lives in his short stay. He was such a fighter, and the only reason he made it as long as he did was because of the fight inside him.

Thank you so much for all the prayers he got from you ladies here! It was much appriciated! We know the right chioce was made, and hes in a much better place.
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. ::hugs:: sending lots of thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
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  • So sorry for your family's loss. Many thoughts and prayers go out to you. 
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  • I'm sorry you and your family went through that. It's completely unfair for a baby to be in poor health.

    Children with Down syndrome have a special place in my heart, and I'm not at all surprised he's made such an impact after 4 months. Your nephew and your family will be in my prayers today.

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  • I am so, so sorry for the loss of your nephew.
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  • I'm so sorry for your devastating loss.  Lots of hugs and prayers headed your way.

     



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  • I am so so sorry for your families loss. T and Ps for you.
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  • So sorry for your loss! What a touching story! Prayers for you and your family! I can't imagine how hard all of this is!
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  • I am so sorry to hear this. I can't imagine trying to make the decision they did, but it sounds like the little guy was suffering so much! I hope you and your family can find some peace. Hugs!

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  • This is heartbreaking. I am so very sorry for your loss.
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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
  • I can't even imagine what you and your family are going through. Hoping for peace and healing in these difficult times. 
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  • I am so so sorry for your loss. Thank you for the update.
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    So sorry for your family's loss.

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  • I'm sorry your family had to say goodbye to your nephew after only having him such a short time. Thoughts and prayers for you.
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  • I cannot express how very sorry I am for your loss and cannot imagine what you all went through. Thoughts and prayers for you all.
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    I'm so sorry for your family's loss.  I cannot imagine having to make such a hard decision and I'm glad your family has been able to find peace in this difficult time.  Prayers for continued peace and healing.
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  • I'm very sorry for your family's loss.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of thoughts and prayers to your family during this very difficult time.
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  • How heartbreaking for his parents and family. That would be a hard decision. Many thoughts and prayers coming your way.
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  • Oh my goodness, Rachel I am so so immensely sorry to hear this.  I extend my deepest condolences to you and your family and hope that you are able to find peace during this difficult time.  It sounds like you guys know you did the right thing, but I would imagine it is still quite painful.  You are in my thoughts.
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    So sorry for your family.  My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all today.


  • I'm so sorry for your family's loss. What a difficult thing to go through.

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  • I am so sorry for the loss of your nephew.
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  • I'm so so very sorry for the loss of your nephew. My T&Ps are with your family during this difficult time.
  • I am so sorry for your familys loss, you all will be in my thoughts.
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  • I could not even imagine. I am so sorry for your loss. 
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    I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your loved ones.
  • I am so sorry for your loss. Many thoughts and prayers for you and your family

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  • So sorry to hear about your family's loss :( Big hugs! 
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  • I am so sorry for you and your family. I haven't been online much but was following this story. It brought tears to my eyes and cannot imagine having to make such a decision, though I am sure it was the right one for him. Much love to your family during the very difficult time. You have one beautiful angel watching over you now <3
  • I am extremely sorry for the loss you and your family are experiencing. My T&P's will continue to be with your family especially your sister and BIL.  (((hugs)))
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  • Oh my, what a terrible misfortune. I am soo sorry and am sending my thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences for you and your family. I can only image how strong you all are to not only keep fighting for him, but to have made this final decision that was anything but easy. :::hugs:::

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