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Girl On Top?

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The waiting to O thread got me thinking...most of us stated that being on top is your favorite sex position.

I have NEVER been able to get that to work for me. I'm sure a combo of body issues and thinking I'm doing it wrong is the problem.

Most of my friends say its their favorite too and they think I'm crazy that I dislike it so much.

What is wrong with me?!

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  • SpooksterSpookster member

    imageteal owl:
    The waiting to O thread got me thinking...most of us stated that being on top is your favorite sex position. I have NEVER been able to get that to work for me. I'm sure a combo of body issues and thinking I'm doing it wrong is the problem. Most of my friends say its their favorite too and they think I'm crazy that I dislike it so much. What is wrong with me?!

    Not my fav either.  

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  • nicole mackenzienicole mackenzie member
    Meh, DH likes it. I don't mind it as part of the whole session but I've only ever been able to climax once up there. Mix of some self esteem issues and that the position is just wrong for me. I like it better with my bra on.

    Nothing wrong with you for not being that into it!
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  • shannonhubz28shannonhubz28 member
    I totally agree, OP. It's not my favorite either. I've found that on my side with him behind is the best for me. I can reach where I need to and it just feels great all around.
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  • SpooksterSpookster member
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    LOL. I did not look at the OP name before I clicked and I swore this was going to be a question about if you could get pregnant on top.

    Moar beers please.

     

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    Sorry thats all I gots.  

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  • argonneargonne member
    My favorite position. I'm in control and DH loves watching.
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  • britneyfayebritneyfaye member
    I don't mind it, but let's be honest...I'm lazy or apparently have no endurance to keep going. Lol.
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  • MsQuezadaMsQuezada
    imageDaisyCat11:
    I'm a lazy arse and I get tired out doing girl on top. I'd much rather have him do all the work. That being said, I do tend to get off better with girl on top since his hands are free to roam.nbsp;


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    This is exactly me. Too lazy.
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  • tealowltealowl member
    imageSpookster:
    imageGhostMonkey:

    LOL. I did not look at the OP name before I clicked and I swore this was going to be a question about if you could get pregnant on top.

    Moar beers please.

    &nbsp;

    ::Passes an MGD::

    Sorry thats all I gots. &nbsp;



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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    I can't do it either. It's definitely body issues for us. Every time we try that, I get a horrible cramp in my hip. It worked very rarely when H & I were thinner. 

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  • CarolinaGirl6CarolinaGirl6 member
    imageDaisyCat11:

    I'm a lazy arse and I get tired out doing girl on top. I'd much rather have him do all the work.

    That being said, I do tend to get off better with girl on top since his hands are free to roam. 

     Ditto.

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  • Milagros315Milagros315 member
    imageDaisyCat11:

    I'm a lazy arse and I get tired out doing girl on top. I'd much rather have him do all the work. 

    Partly this, but also it just doesn't do it for me. H loves it so I do it, but it's definitely not in my top 3.

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  • LaurenAsh23LaurenAsh23 member
    I like being on top, but dh still does most the work. Then we he needs a little break, I can take over for a bit. 
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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    imagelilysylvis:
    I LOVE girl on top. I get the best stimulation and I can go multiple rounds. I'm not that great with doggy style though. I don't know if we just haven't figured out the height difference with that or what, I'm a fair amount shorter than my DH. But GOT is my favorite. I know some people who only like Missionary though, so I get that it's not for everyone.

    I'm a foot shorter than MH, we make doggie style work pretty ok.

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    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    imagelilysylvis:

    imagebeckynsean11:
    imagelilysylvis:
    I LOVE girl on top. I get the best stimulation and I can go multiple rounds. I'm not that great with doggy style though. I don't know if we just haven't figured out the height difference with that or what, I'm a fair amount shorter than my DH. But GOT is my favorite. I know some people who only like Missionary though, so I get that it's not for everyone.

    I'm a foot shorter than MH, we make doggie style work pretty ok.

    I'm about that much as well. Maybe we're just bad at it. Haha. I don't know. I wish I could figure out how to make it work better.&nbsp; Our sex live can be boring.


    Lol! It took some time for us to get the height figured out. We're pretty vanilla too, as long as you're both happy.

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
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  • mmb248mmb248 member
    imagelilysylvis:

    imagebeckynsean11:
    imagelilysylvis:
    I LOVE girl on top. I get the best stimulation and I can go multiple rounds. I'm not that great with doggy style though. I don't know if we just haven't figured out the height difference with that or what, I'm a fair amount shorter than my DH. But GOT is my favorite. I know some people who only like Missionary though, so I get that it's not for everyone.

    I'm a foot shorter than MH, we make doggie style work pretty ok.

    I'm about that much as well. Maybe we're just bad at it. Haha. I don't know. I wish I could figure out how to make it work better.&nbsp; Our sex live can be boring.


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  • Luckie519Luckie519 member
    I generally can't O on bottom.  Sometimes if I O on top and we switch, I can O again.  I have to be in the mood to be on top, though.  DH likes it also.  I am self conscious and that is the reason I am not a fan, also I am lazy sometimes too.

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  • ArmyWife0623ArmyWife0623 member

    :blushing: im not a fan of starting in the GOT posistion, but it really gets to dh, so we do that for a bit before going into another position! we like to switch it up!!

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  • bumpuser1282882bumpuser1282882 member

    imagebeckynsean11:
    imagelilysylvis:
    I LOVE girl on top. I get the best stimulation and I can go multiple rounds. I'm not that great with doggy style though. I don't know if we just haven't figured out the height difference with that or what, I'm a fair amount shorter than my DH. But GOT is my favorite. I know some people who only like Missionary though, so I get that it's not for everyone.
    I'm a foot shorter than MH, we make doggie style work pretty ok.

    Word. 

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  • catmagickcatmagick member
    I love GOT.  It is the easiest way for me to O and I have more control over positioning and stuff.  I also love GOT sitting down on the couch--if I'm ever having trouble getting there, I get up and lead H into the other room with the couch.  Gets me there in seconds flat ;-)  I also HATE doggy style.  I feel like it hurts and is just generally uncomfortable.  Sometimes I will do it for a few minutes that way because H loves it, but if I let it go for too long I get raw and always regret it later.
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  • thatmissamandathatmissamanda member
    GOT - my FAV postion.  Bu I'm lazy too!  That's why DH does all the work, even when I am on top!  :P  Not for lack of trying on my part but as I can't go as fast as he likes when I am on top, so I just sort of hover and he goes at it. 

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