Sex with kids in bed

jarebearsmom

I just came across this article and thought I would share it here. WDYT? 

https://www.babble.com/relationships/would-you-have-sex-if-your-baby-was-in-the-bed/?cmp=SMC%7Cbbl%7Csoc%7CFB%7CBabblePregnancy%7CInHouse%7C062113%7CSexBed%7CLink%7CfamM%7CSocial&utm_source=facebook.com&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=SMC%7Cbbl%7Csoc%7CFB%7CBabblePregnancy%7CInHouse%7C062113%7CSexBed%7CLink%7CfamM%7CSocial 

ThePolishHammer

Ew.

jarebearsmom

ThePolishHammer:

Ew.

Yep. That's what I thought. There is no way I could do that with DS right beside us. I can't even do it if he's sleeping in a PNP in the same room.  

missmuffin87

Whoooooaaaaaa! Hellz no! 

pitterpatter129

I'm not a "call CPS" person, but that will do it.  Isn't that a form of child abuse?Showing a child porn is illegal, so the live version is a million times worse!  I don't care what age they are.  An infant asleep in a crib in the same room might not be so bad, but NOT in the bed with you!

 

 

--halo--

Whaaaat? Wide awake and in bed with you? No.

Baby sleeping in the PnP in the same room, pitch black, being very quiet, yes. And only up to a certain point, there's no way I'd have sex in the same room as J while he was sleeping if he could wake up and say something, or even point! lol aaaaaah.

TripMomma

No way. Makes me wonder what other poor choices are being made.

Blondangel

TripMomma:

No way. Makes me wonder what other poor choices are being made.

This.

That's actually pretty disturbing. 

bosha711

Uh yeah, no.

There was a girl on my other BMB who admitted to DTD with her NB in bed with them & she got flamed to high heaven. I'm pretty sure she GBCBed from it.

utlawgirl

No. Just, no. On so many different levels, no.

SugarSnap83

Creepy!

Rink08

No. No no. No!

Serendipity117

No. Nope. No way.

lrn327

No way, what a horrid thought!  Why would anyone want to do that???

jillybean800

No. Ew, no.

 Anyone remember that bump thread where the girl was like, yeah I was nursing my son and my husband just came over and whipped it out, so I gave him a blow job. And everyone was horrified. And rightly so.

jarebearsmom

jillybean800:

No. Ew, no.nbsp;Anyone remember that bump thread where the girl was like, yeah I was nursing my son and my husband just came over and whipped it out, so I gave him a blow job. And everyone was horrified. And rightly so.

what?! Ewwww!!!!

danigirl7181

Oh my gosh no, just gross!!!! 

We co-slept til Lily was two, never ever ever DTD while she was in bed with us ever. We DTD once while she was in the room, when she was like 2 months old, sleeping in the bouncer, and facing the opposite direction. That was still weird and we moved to another room. 

pitterpatter129

jillybean800:

No. Ew, no.

 Anyone remember that bump thread where the girl was like, yeah I was nursing my son and my husband just came over and whipped it out, so I gave him a blow job. And everyone was horrified. And rightly so.

I do remember that!!  I kind of remembering it ending with people offering her abuse hotline numbers though...  DH tried to kiss me the other day while I was nursing and I was, like, "get away".

 

lindseybell3

I don't think it's THAT big of a deal.  It's kind of icky but I definitely don't think it's abuse (assuming the baby is young enough to not know what's going on).  BJ while nursing sounds really gross to me, but whatever works for the couple.  You've gotta carve out time somewhere!

mommyfied

Big fat NO! I think it is gross.

I do not feel comfortable doing the deed while he is sleeping in his crib, in the same room. 

(On the other side - cannot wait to fix up J's new room in a month or two, so we can doink in peace - and not so much quiet -