Out of pure curiosity. How many other SOs have you lived with prior to your current Husband, Spouse, Partner, BF, etc. And how old are you so we can gauge this.
I'm 31. H is the 1st dude I have actually lived with. My High School BF (we dated from 17-22yrs old) moved into my moms house for a brief moment but I wouldn't count that. His parents lived around the block so it wasn't like he moved all his shiznit over.
I met my husband in 2002 basically moved in within the first year. We got married in 2010.
Edit: I was 26, he was 22. So yea, almost 38 here so I'm more like freakin Sophia.
Only MH, but I started dating him shortly before turning 21, moved in together at 24, and married at 30. He's 3 years older, but never lived with anyone else either.
Only lived with my H. We moved in together after dating for 3 months, and got engaged at 6 months. Been together nearly 6 years now, married for 4. I'm 32, he's 29.
I lived with my college boyfriend (I was 20) -- we were together for about a year and a half (I think) before we decided to share an apartment, then lived together for another year and a half or so. By the end, it was an unhealthy relationship and it took a long time for us to realize that and end things. I chalk that up to insecurity and immaturity on my part, possibly on his as well. (FTR, I don't think that 20-22 is too young for ALL couples to develop a healthy long-term relationship, but it was for me personally.)
I dated DH for about a year before we moved in together (although he practically lived at my place already), and we were married about two years later. I was 24 when we met, so I think that makes me 25 when we moved in together.
I've only ever 'officially' lived with DH although with several previous boyfriends I routinely stayed at their place 3 to 5 nights a week. I'm 38. Me DH when I was 32, he was 40 gulp, we've been married 2.5 years.
Met my husband when I was 13 and we were an item from 14-on. Went to college and pretty much spent every night together in eachother's dorm rooms. Summer after freshman year we got our first apartment together. Engaged at 19, married at 21, first kid at 25. We're 29 now. It's only been him.
Only lived with my husband, after we were married. Starting dating when I was 19, married at almost 21 and am now 25.
I felt so ready to get married when I did, but seeing other kids getting engaged and what not at 19...I'm like "WHA?!? You're a baby!" haha It has worked out great for DH and I though!
We met when I was 19 (he was 30) and I basically moved in with him about 6 months later. He lived with another professor within walking distance of my college so I ended up saving a buttload on room&board by staying with them. MH and I got an apartment together when I was 22, got married when I was 24, and bought our house 3 months later. (PS- I am now 25 for anyone counting...to figure out MH's ages, just add 11 to mine)
I've lived with three ex's, but I don't count two of them.
The first had just gotten an apartment with his father who he had just reconnected with after ten years of separation when his dad died and he lost the apartment, so it was only as a favor and temporary.
The other was really more of a roomate, because we lived together three years after we dated.
I've only lived with DH. We met when I was 18, he was 20. Moved in together within about 8 months, married at 22/24, and now we are 24/26 and expecting our first LO. Yay!!
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only my husband-- met my husband when i was 25, moved in together around 27, married at 28. i am now 37 yikes
though i practically lived with boyfriends in college, just not 'officially' ha
Only DH. Meet when we were 25, bought our house when we were 26-27, married when we were 30.
Holy crap, this is spot on!
omggg, iam not THAT old. and she creeps me out with her sexing all over town lol
Edit: I was 26, he was 22. So yea, almost 38 here so I'm more like freakin Sophia.
I lived with a bf for about 3 months when I was 18.
I'm now 37 and have been living with dh since 1999. Married since 2005.
Never lived with anyone before DH. I'd stay with BFs or they'd stay with me, but not actual living together.
Met DH at 26, engaged at 27, moved in together shortly after that. Got married at 28. I'm now 33.
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No no! CV is so not Blanche. She's a hussy and CV is not. If she HAD to be a golden girl she's Dorothy all the way.
I lived with my college boyfriend (I was 20) -- we were together for about a year and a half (I think) before we decided to share an apartment, then lived together for another year and a half or so. By the end, it was an unhealthy relationship and it took a long time for us to realize that and end things. I chalk that up to insecurity and immaturity on my part, possibly on his as well. (FTR, I don't think that 20-22 is too young for ALL couples to develop a healthy long-term relationship, but it was for me personally.)
I dated DH for about a year before we moved in together (although he practically lived at my place already), and we were married about two years later. I was 24 when we met, so I think that makes me 25 when we moved in together.
Only lived with my husband, after we were married. Starting dating when I was 19, married at almost 21 and am now 25.
I felt so ready to get married when I did, but seeing other kids getting engaged and what not at 19...I'm like "WHA?!? You're a baby!" haha It has worked out great for DH and I though!
Uh, yes, this. I need more information please.
I guess that makes me Dorothy b/c I'm not much younger than you
I have only lived with MH.
We met when I was 19 (he was 30) and I basically moved in with him about 6 months later. He lived with another professor within walking distance of my college so I ended up saving a buttload on room&board by staying with them. MH and I got an apartment together when I was 22, got married when I was 24, and bought our house 3 months later. (PS- I am now 25 for anyone counting...to figure out MH's ages, just add 11 to mine)
Yeeaahhhh... some of us need further explanation on this.
HAHA i prefer this!
I even had a 6 year relationship with HS and college boyfriend and didn't even play house with him.
That was a big deal to me to only live with my husband.
Knew you would! She's a class act.
I've only lived with DH and not until after we got married. I am 28 now, we met when I was 20 and got married when I was 23.
I've lived with three ex's, but I don't count two of them.
The first had just gotten an apartment with his father who he had just reconnected with after ten years of separation when his dad died and he lost the apartment, so it was only as a favor and temporary.
The other was really more of a roomate, because we lived together three years after we dated.
I'm 28
I am kind of surprised by the resounding only DH responses.
I, too, have only lived with DH. He moved in with me when I was 23, he was 25. Married later that same year. I am 26 now.
I've only lived with MH. I'm 28 and we got married 4 years ago. I didn't move into our new house until after we were married.
If we would have been older I definitely would have lived with him before we got married.