Miscarried with no answers or help from GYN

kimikoo20

I am 28 years old, healthy, fertile and highly active.

My kids are now 11 and 9. Both born healthy and so beautiful.

Two moths ago, I started having pains in my lower left abdomen. They got so severe that I ended up going to the urgent clinic. I was 16 days late on my period and thought maybe it was an ectopic pregnancy. After a blood and urine test and an internal exam, I was told I'm not pregnant but need to get to a GYN due to lesions that were seen on my cervix.

A week later, I am seen at my GYN, no lesions. Urine preg test- negative. Did a pap that came back abnormal. Tuesday, May 28, 2013, I had a colposcopy done. GYN was testing me for cervical cancer. Called the GYN several times, only to be told it was normal and to get rest.

Wednesday and Thursday, I was cramping, nauseous and extremely fatigue.

Friday morning, I went pee, wiped and saw a specimen on the tissue. It was about a half dollar size, maybe a little bigger. Called GYN in a panic and was told it was nothing to worry about. Flush the specimen or throw it away. There was not a single drop of blood. Told me I did not need to be seen by the GYN and if I wanted to anyway "for peace of mind" I could get an appointment but not for another week or two.

I saved the specimen and went to the E.R. Had a miscarriage at 9 weeks pregnant. GYN still refusing to see me. Found a new GYN. Went for blood work and ultrasound. Was told it's a twin pregnancy and the other embryo is stuck in my fallopian tube. Blood work still pending.

My question is, how could this happen? I am so upset? How can a person have a miscarriage with no blood? Why so many blood and urine test but all negative? How soon can I get pregnant again? The embryo is still in my fallopian tube. It's been over a week. Can I get an infection from this?

I buried the miscarried embryo in a plant rather than trashing or flushing.

By the way- the urgent care facility, lab corp (who I forgot to mention said they have no record of me and lost the ultrasound and blood work initially) and my GYN are all JOHNS HOPKINS.