We have a set holiday schedule, but BM hasn't called us about holidays like memorial day, vets day, MLK day, 4th of July, and so on in years. Actually I don't think she's ever called... She hasn't had her license, so she never bothered because she knew DH wouldn't drop her off. This year, SD's older sister (not by DH) has her license, so BM gives her money to grab SD.
The holiday schedule does outline those holidays. And it says pick up time for those holidays is at 10:30am until 7pm. We didn't bother looking to see who's year it is because, like i said, she never even bothers trying to get SD. Well today at 1pm, DH's phone rings and its BM asking if its her holiday or not. DH told her he didn't know and she said she would look into it. Sure enough it was! She called him back and asked if she could pick her up at 3:30. DH told her we had a bbq at 2 and that she could either pick her up before then or pick her up at the bbq. Then she had the nerve to ask him to drop her off on the way. Ummm, if you wanted her, you should have been her at 10:30!! I'm so proud of DH because he told her no, and told her she could have her tomorrow for a bit instead.
Just when I thought BM was becoming normal...
vent over! thanks for listening!