I'm trying to be fair...

Shopaholic30

So I have a 9 year old son named Zachary. His middle name starts with a "J"  Ever since he was born I swore on my life if I had another baby it would start with the letter "Z" and middle name would start with "J" also.

My boyfriend is not his bio father and agreed with the "Z and J" even though he is not thrilled about it. Since he is giving a little, I thought I would give a little with his choices in the names.

He likes Zoey for a girl. Personally, I think it's too cutesey and over used.

We both like these middle names. Votes please!!!

Zoey Juliette

Zoey Jane

Zoey Jude

526SadieSadie

I'll vote for Zoe Juliet, but I think the matchy initials are kind of ridic.

Shopaholic30

Not ridiculous just something I;ve had my heart set on for personal reasons. Yes, I agree with PP...dropping the Y does make it look better

Helenahhandbasket

I like Jane in the MN spot.

Do you think he'd consider Zara?

Shopaholic30

Helenahhandbasket:

I like Jane in the MN spot.

Do you think he'd consider Zara?

 

That's one of my favs but he isn't crazy about it.

foxymulder

Please spell it Zoe. Love this name.

I like Zoe Juliette. Sounds great!

dreemkin84

I like Zoey Jane. 

rlyttle

I love Zara Juliet

Shopaholic30

I just looked up the meaning for Zoey, Zoe.

It means "Life"

That can't get anymore perfect!!

Shopaholic30

Darbie914:

Shopaholic30:

So I have a 9 year old son named Zachary. His middle name starts with a "J"  Ever since he was born I swore on my life if I had another baby it would start with the letter "Z" and middle name would start with "J" also.

My boyfriend is not his bio father and agreed with the "Z and J" even though he is not thrilled about it. Since he is giving a little, I thought I would give a little with his choices in the names.

He likes Zoey for a girl. Personally, I think it's too cutesey and over used.

We both like these middle names. Votes please!!!

Zoey Juliette

Zoey Jane

Zoey Jude

I know it's not the point of your post but this really bugs me.  You are both having a child together and he shouldn't be forced to follow a name trend that he doesn't like.  If you really want to be fair, as the title of your post says, you should both come up with a name you both love, regardless of the initials.

Zoe Jude is my favorite.  Drop the 'y'. 

He doesn't feel forced and it doesn't bother him. I just said he isn't thrilled about it. He really likes Zoey/Zoe, and is totally happy with that.

Shopaholic30

Ok people, Me and my boyfriend have agreed on ZJ. He is happy with our choices and so am I so far. I am asking on a vote of the 3. Not to be drilled about what yall think of the initials.

fennyann

I like Zoey Jane.

Shopaholic30

Forget it yall. I am getting drilled for no reason. I simply said he isn't THRILLED ABOUT the initials. As in he didn't jump for joy. My god, he is a passive person anyways. I wont even read the rest of the replies. I am not going to stress over a site that is suppose to be for support, not bashing.

Keri Marie

I like Zoe Jane

I knew a girl named Zeandra (zee-ANN-dra).

There is also Zada and Zahara 

RedCardinal

MamaCBear:

Zoe Juliet would be my choice. With those spellings.

This. 

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cinderin

Shopaholic30:

Forget it yall. I am getting drilled for no reason. I simply said he isn't THRILLED ABOUT the initials. As in he didn't jump for joy. My god, he is a passive person anyways. I wont even read the rest of the replies. I am not going to stress over a site that is suppose to be for support, not bashing.

I would be worried that the next boyfriend who knocks you up wont agree to the J/Z thing. What will you do then??!!! 

apc1929

Not really getting the reason behind limiting a name to a sibs initials but.....

Zoe Jane      I like Zoe without the Y

apc1929

Shopaholic30:

Forget it yall. I am getting drilled for no reason. I simply said he isn't THRILLED ABOUT the initials. As in he didn't jump for joy. My god, he is a passive person anyways. I wont even read the rest of the replies. I am not going to stress over a site that is suppose to be for support, not bashing.

Glad I posted before reading this response..  Thanks for wasting my time