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mtendere
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it's over
mtendere
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I knew it was coming, but i started bleeding after lunch today. I ended up coming home early, not because of any physical pain, but I was an emotional wreck after a contentious conference...I know the emotions had nothing to do with the conference.
I ended up telling my principal the whole story and she was very understanding. It took her 2 years to get pregnant with her daughter (naturally) and she had 2 miscarriages along the way. Then she had a surprise baby #2 not long after. She told me to go home and she'd find someone to cover my last 2 classes.
Anyway, I know some would disagree, but I'm actually really glad I know that something happened here, even if it didn't end the way I'd hoped.
Thank you so much for your encouragement and kind words. Much baby dust to you all.
I may take a little GP vacation. Please don't take it personally. 
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Our beautiful daughter was born in October 2009. Turns out she was quite the miracle. After two years of TTC, diagnosed with DOR. A couple of failed treatment cycles later, we decided to let go of our hope for more biological children and explore adoption.
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Re: it's over
I'm so sorry : (
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Thanks. That sounds like a lovely idea. Dh and I are supposed to have band practice tonight. I've been trying to decide whether it would be a good distraction or I should just stay home. It's kinda yucky, miserable weather, so I'm thinking staying in might win since there's an hour drive each way.
I am so sorry.
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I'm so sorry...sending hugs your way. hang in there!
Thank you ladies so much...
I actually just got a call from my doctor (who I love). He just wanted to make sure everything was okay, said that he was sorry for the loss, and that, if we were ready psychologically, there was no reason to stop trying. He was also clear that I definitely had been pregnant and wanted to encourage us in that respect (keep doing what you're doing!).
He also wanted to know my blood type because if I was Rh negative, he was going to recommend the RhoGam shot as a precaution. (I'm A+ so it wasn't an issue).
Proud mama to a boys- 6/17/09 - a girl 2/23/11- and a boy 8/20/12
I am so sorry for your loss. ?Take care of yourself. ?Cycle 9 was a very early m/c for me and I felt the same way. ?I checked out of ttc for cycle 10 and just gave my body a chance to heal. ?One bit of consolation for us was knowing that we can get PG at all, which was in doubt after so many cycles. ?Try not to rush yourself. . . and remember that whatever you feel is normal.
Prayers and hugs.?
Thank you golfbride, that's very comforting. Last night, DH was "better stock up on the OPK's since your cycle will be off." I was more "maybe we should just let things be this cycle and take a break with all the scientific stuff."
I'll give myself a week and then decide what to do on that front.
I am so sorry, mtender
I would like to think that if I'm ever in the same position I would also be somewhat relieved that I could get pregnant, I'm glad to hear you say the same thing.
((hugs)) and take as much time as you need, that's very understandable! more then likely most of us will still be here for you when you're ready to come back!