Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

My lovely mother...

She's a drunk. I didn't want to be alone. So I risked going over there. I called her as soon as I found out I lost the baby. So she knew. Anyway. Last February, my SIL went into labor at 25 weeks with my nephew. He made it four weeks. My mom, in trying to make me feel better said, "you were lucky. At least you didn't have to hold the baby." And at that point I lost it. All I could say was "I would give anything and everything just to have had one minute." She meant well, but she doesn't get it. I thought a girl at work telling me I never felt the baby kick was bad.

Re: My lovely mother...

  • Oh I'm so sorry....people don't think. I posted a while back open mouth insert foot....I just don't get people...they don't think...."hugs"
  • Oh no, that was really insensitive. I am sorry ::hugs::

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    Started TTC Feb 2013, BFP #1 3/4/13 EDD 11/10/13. MMC 4/9/13 D&C 4/22/13.
    BFP #2 7/17/13, EDD 3/29/14 ended in a CP on 7/22/13.
    BFP#3 8/19/13 EDD 5/3/14 Nerdling was born 4/29/14, welcome little one!
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  • Oh no, I am so sorry girl.  Some people just don't know what to say and what they end up saying is very inappropriate or insensitive.  HUGS
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