We just got to camp lejeune and the FRO contacted me last week. She was friendly and told me that if I had any questions or anything that I could email or call her any time. So I got the impression of a causal relationship and someone who I can confide in with military problems. This was nice to find since Im in a new place with no friends and a rocky marriage. Guess I was wrong. I had a couple of questions about when we would be reimbursed for all of our travel expenses and some back BAH totaling about 1000 which would REALLY help us out right now. Instead of giving me an answer, she forwarded my email straight to my husbands new 1st sergeant! Wtf... So I get a text from him ranting about how they think he's irresponsible now... Awesome, that's what I need, for us to argue some more. I feel so isolated and completely alone. I thought that this FRO was going to be a gateway to the other wives and fun family activities that would take place in the next two years. Now I feel like I can't trust anyone and that ill be alone for the next two years while we are here. The last base we were at was very small and it was very easy to talk to everyone, now we're here and we are just lost in the crowd.
So my question is, what is the relationship between the FRO and the wives? Maybe I was out of line but I don't do it on purpose and the last thing I needed was more problems between my husband and I.
I thought that I would get use to the big city, but I just feel so alone.