October 2013 Moms

Nervous to come out?

Hi all anyone else nervous to finally come out? I'm 13 weeks tomorrow, all my appts have been great, had my 12 wk and NT scan this week and all is well. We've started telling people and Friday I may come out at work, over the weeken to more family, am next week to FB but I'm still nervous. You never know what can happen and it feels so weird as a FTM to be sharing something so personal with everyone. I'm excited and happy of course just nervous. : anyone else??

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  • I'm 11 weeks and we told our parents, a few of our siblings, and some local friends but I'm extremely nervous to tell others. For me I don't have my first drs appt until April 16th so really anything can happen. Being a FTM is so scary. I know some people
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  • We've only told our close family and friends in person when we've seen them. I have no intentions of doing a FB announcement or making any other grand announcements. I'll do it on an as-needed basis. We terminated our first pregnancy a couple years ago du
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  • This is our 4th pregnancy in about 18 months.  We made it to 16 weeks last time and had just shared the news when we lost the baby.  This time we told our parents and siblings and will just be telling people when we see them and I am showing.&nb
  • Yeah, I get it.  Trust me.  I'm 14 weeks and haven't told my bosses.  I really don't want to either.  It's uncomfortable too, because it's my 3rd child and I'm definitely showing.  Most of our friends don't know either.  It's
  • I am reluctantly telling people only on an as-needed basis. Im telling my boss tomorrow. I think I just had so much bleeding in the first tri that I never really let myself get excited, thinking I was going to loose the baby any minute. So, now that we ar
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  • I get nervous at coming out.  People know I am pretty private so they aren't surprised when they find out I am 16 weeks (or more) pregnant and they are just finding out.

    Come out when you want to.  It is your baby and your body.  I

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  • Following our miscarriage last year, I am pretty sure DH would rather have never spoke to anyone we know every again than tell anyone. I mean you can't really show up to family Christmas with a two month old and be like, "Oh, I guess we didn't tell you

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