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I just wanted to let you know that I totally understand what you are going through. You are definitely not alone in your quest for doing everything "right" for your child. I SAH with my son and I am his primary caregiver as MH works shift work and is hardly ever home. I literally give him ALL I can possibly offer him. It is definitely not easy but I always want him to know that he is the most important thing and is immensely loved. Please do whatever you think is right for you and your family but dont let yourself be miserable.

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Please do whatever you think is right for you and your family but dont let yourself be miserable.

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Hi Candace, thank you for your post! It means a lot to hear someone say that, as sad as that may sound. Sometimes it feels like the whole world is against me. I know my views are rather controversial and though I never mean to offend anyone, I'm also n

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Never apologize for having an opinion! After all, this IS the the interent haha. Please do not go into lurkerdom, its no fun there, andplusalso we have cookies here. Mwahaha. No but really, if you are doing what you think is best then NEVER back down.

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He is! Tehe :P I keep trying to post a pic in my sigy but never works and I run out of time lol

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I just got around to reading the WTF post and I admit I didn't read everything you wrote, but I do think that it would

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I just got around to reading the WTF post and I admit I didn't read everything you wrote, but I do think that it would

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Expressing concern is fine. Saying I can't be a good mom is not. Nor is giving advice when one does not

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btw the pic in your avatar is adorable twofish

thank you! He was only two months there..is only o

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you don't have to respond to anything you don't want to. sorry you felt attacked but honestly i don't see it. but the

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and honestly i don't mean to perpetuate drama (although i probably am indirectly by asking) but i still don't see where

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Since I'm the one being accused of "attacking" you and calling you a "bad mom" figured I'd pipe in...

a. I never ever said you were a bad mom nor would I say that, so what you infer from my words is sort of out of my hands

b. I was offering

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Can I get a link?

ETA: Found it. This is my response to Twofishes:

Honey, this is not the pain olympics, and you are not a better mother than the res

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okay i thought your post is what she was referring to but i honestly didn't see an attack anywhere from that, so that

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Since I'm the one being accused of "attacking" you and calling you a "bad mom" figured I'd pipe in...

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Can I get a link?

ETA: Found it. This is my response to Twofishes: <img src="https://community.thebump.c

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This is getting ridiculous. I didnt even start this post! Candace, are you even here still? How did a post to me end up like this? I thought it was finished by my last comment to you..instead it has become a snow storm and everyone who just now tuned in h

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So you're going to completely disregard what I said? Because I'm right.

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I guess we found our resident Sanctimommy!

FYI I don't have to excuse myself from the conversation. This is a public message board. If you don't like what I have to say, you're welcome to block me and/or go ahead and do us all a favor and hit t

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K. Lo is awake. I will try to respond at some point tonight or tomorrow. 

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I'm just gonna assume she just likes the attention now.

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I'm just gonna assume she just likes the attention now.

with ya there. Geez Betty, why ar

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Wow....this thread turned into a whole thing. 

Don't let the drama distract you from the fact that people were just trying to help. It's as simple as that. Sorry you misunderstood.  

I could see how your original comment on the ot

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i just wrote a bunch and it got deleted from my screen because of my darn computer. ug. lemme try to rewrite. If you are curious, there is an apology in here too, for those that just wanna get to the good stuff

 So... I was trying to resp