...Getting in the mood

lolob45

I'm cleared from pelvic rest which means we can resume having sex after a 11 week hiatus and I have ZERO drive. Poor hubby has been so patient but I just can't get myself there because i'm SO exhausted. Not to mention i'm terrified of irritation causing bleeding and the inevitable panic that will ensue...  Any tips?

He deserves it and quite honestly he's going on a guys trip in 3 weeks and I feel the need to make up for lost time. I trust him 110% but his friends are single (one newly as his fiance called off the engagement) and I have a feeling they'll be involved in activities i'm not even slightly fond of. Sigh ... waiting for the day when his friends are all married and a "guys" trip involves the wives, a resort, golf and spa days... 

yesthisiskim0401

Blow jobs are like flowers for men.

afry2001

Lol. Yes they are.

Mae208

Keep in mind that you most likely will bleed a little during or after sex. It is what it is. Not a big deal so don't freak out.

As far as getting in the mood, try starting out slow. Cuddling naked while watching TV has helped us! Even if I'm

CousinVicki

soooo you are saying you have to have sex even if you aren't in the mood/feeling well/nervous so that he doesn't maybe 'stray' during his guys trip??

Kfudge0714

yesthisiskim0401:

Blow jobs are like flowers for men.

This! Haha

shelley1002

Just get some lube and go at it. You'll get in the mood during.

asilwhite

shelley1002:

Just get some lube and go at it. You'll get in the mood during.

This. Bite the bullet

shelley1002

asilwhite:

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Delight34

yesthisiskim0401:

Blow jobs are like flowers for men.

LoL that's soo true!

coronitaextra

Delight34:

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3222w27thst

I believe its normal my moods are off and on but If you want to please your partner then go ahead but If your reall not ready then dont. One night I wasnt really in the mood and plus my boobs were sore as ever and It ended up hurting and i cried. Sucks so