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JamieWM

Alright, let the lashing begin.

My DH is a stud....we are extremely attracted to eachother which made this process easy. W that being said, I am yet to have sex since we found out. I am not sure what I am terrified of...maybe my mc in November that made me feel breakable? DH is amazing and supportive but enough is enough! Idk but regardless any words of advice besides "just do it" ...perhaps from someone who has had a previous mc

LoisLane007

Have not had a mc, but just go slow until you're comfortable again. Also, check in with the Pregnant After Loss board. They might be more helpful.

JamieWM

Great idea...thank you!

LoisLane007

Good luck!

bexsd

I had an early mc in November as well. This time, we didn't have actual intercourse until I had seen the heartbeat at 9 weeks, I think, but we did other stuff. Still, the intercourse is less often (I think because I am nervous that I will bleed and eve

JamieWM

I think its the blood if there was any that would terrify me. I didn't think of being more in control. ...its a win win I won't be scare sh!tless and he will be thrilled. Thank you

bexsd

JamieWM:

I think its the blood if there was any that would terrify me. I didn't think of being more in control. ...its a win w

magdalina.h

Don't think just jump on him

rab2006

With DD I just was never in the mood. Then in 2011 I had an ectopic and in November had a cp. We have had sex once since finding out about the pg, and I bled, so I feel your pain. DH was more freaked out than I was about the bleeding, but it's still a com

princessvespa1

Try being the one on top - that way you can control the penetration more, so you can be softer on your cervix to help prevent spotting. 

VitaLuna

You're not alone.. we haven't had sex since we conceived (in December! ). I haven't had a loss but I just feel weird about it for some reason, and I really don

scruggsa

I was the same way. Had a mc march 2012 and had tried to conceive since. Since finding out we were expecting DH and both did not feel comfortable having sex until past the 1st trimester. We still held off until this last week at 15wks. I would say just do

kerriw147

yup me too.... I haven't experienced a loss although have a coworker that had a M/C shortly after having sex and I don't know the whole thing just makes me nervous!! I keep telling DH after the first u/s then after we hear the heartbeat. Luckily he's been

ejb23

I had a loss in October and sex still scares me. We have it but much less often then DH would like and I always feel nervous during and after. I've tried to tell him but I don't think he gets it and the midwife said it was safe so I just go for it when i

JamieWM

Thanks for the help ladies

jeb2013

I have not had a mc but I have not had sex since we found out either! I dunno why I'm so scared!! I feel so bad for DH and me too!! Cuz I do want sex just being scared! I kept thinking Its gonna hurt.... Not sure y.., we gotta just do it!

NavyMom77

I've had two losses, and both rounds of spotting started within 24-48 hours intercourse. I know rationally neither time sex had anything to do with it (one was an ectopic so nothing could have changed the outcome) but it still made me nervous after findin