Hi y'all,
Unfortunately, I'm here from the Nov. '13 board. After two ultrasounds a week apart, DH and I were told our baby was definitely a blighted ovum. I had my D&C yesterday. We had no miscarriage signs, was in my 8th week and my HCG was rising normally so we were [and are still] shocked.
DH and I have been married 4 years this spring and are in our late 20's. We live in the south and recently bought an old home we have been renovating. I am an attorney and DH is self employed, but he travels often for his job.
We are clearly still in the grieving process, but plan to TTC once AF arrives. We had started trying at my first regular cycle, and were shocked to see a BFP that month as I have endo and PCOS. I do not ovulate regularly [and hadnt in a couple months prior] and my OB/RE thinks this led to a bad quality egg. She recommends Clomid and a double dose of folic acid. Anyone here have any experience with Clomid? I've read mixed reviews. Also, any advice during this post D&C wait?
We are trying to keep it as a positive as possible and see it as a blessing to show we can get pregnant, but it's hard. Also, MIL just shared that DH was conceived 3 months after a m/c and D&C, so I keep trying to remind myself there can be a light at the end of this.
ETA: spelling -- stupid autocorrect
Re: Intro and Clomid Questions
BFP #1 5.26.08 DD born 1.4.09
BFP #2 3.11.12 m/c 3.26.12
BFP #3 10.7.12 m/c 10.27.12
BFP #4 2.24.13 ectopic MTX 3.13.13 Right tube removed 3.29.13
BFP #5 5.27.13 DS born 1.22.14
BFP #6 4.14.16
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BFP#1 3/16/12 EDD 11/21/12 Delivered 6/1/12 at 15 weeks 2 days
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Thank you. I realized this week how much nicer it is to connect to other people who have been through this. Most of my friends are pregnant or have LOs and have never had a loss, so they don't understand. One kept saying, "Well at least there was no ba
BFP on Mar. 4, 2013, DX with MMC (blighted ovum) at 8 weeks, D&C
TTC again as of May 2013
BFP on June 24, 2013, EED March 12, 2014
Diagnosed with endometriosis, PCOS, heterozygous MTHFR and positive for ANA
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I'm so sorry for your loss. As for dealing with PCOS and using clomid - it's very common on the Trouble TTC board and IF board so if you want to hear a large sample of PCOS gals opinion you could XP over on those boards.
I do not have PCOS
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IUI#5 BFN (April 2013)
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BFP #1 2/16/13, EDD 10/13/13, CP 2/21/13
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