TTC After a Loss

Intro and Clomid Questions

Hi y'all,

Unfortunately, I'm here from the Nov. '13 board.  After two ultrasounds a week apart, DH and I were told our baby was definitely a blighted ovum. I had my D&C yesterday. We had no miscarriage signs, was in my 8th week and my HCG was rising normally so we were [and are still] shocked. 

 DH and I have been married 4 years this spring and are in our late 20's.  We live in the south and recently bought an old home we have been renovating. I am an attorney and DH is self employed, but he travels often for his job. 

We are clearly still in the grieving process, but plan to TTC once AF arrives.  We had started trying at my first regular cycle, and were shocked to see a BFP that month as I have endo and PCOS.  I do not ovulate regularly [and hadnt in a couple months prior] and my OB/RE thinks this led to a bad quality egg.  She recommends Clomid and a double dose of folic acid. Anyone here have any experience with Clomid? I've read mixed reviews. Also, any advice during this post D&C wait?  

We are trying to keep it as a positive as possible and see it as a blessing to show we can get pregnant, but it's hard.  Also, MIL just shared that DH was conceived 3 months after a m/c and D&C, so I keep trying to remind myself there can be a light at the end of this. 

ETA: spelling -- stupid autocorrect  

TTC #1 as of Feb. 2013
BFP on Mar. 4, 2013, DX with MMC (blighted ovum) at 8 weeks, D&C
TTC again as of May 2013
BFP on June 24, 2013, EED March 12, 2014
Diagnosed with endometriosis, PCOS, heterozygous MTHFR and positive for ANA

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Re: Intro and Clomid Questions

  • I don't have any advice on the clomid but I wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss from a fellow Nov. 13'er. This is a wonderful place for support and I hope your stay here is short and sweet. Many hugs to you.

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  • I don't have any experience with Clomid but I wanted to say sorry for your loss and welcome to the board. 


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  • Thank you. I realized this week how much nicer it is to connect to other people who have been through this. Most of my friends are pregnant or have LOs and have never had a loss, so they don't understand. One kept saying, "Well at least there was no ba

    TTC #1 as of Feb. 2013
    BFP on Mar. 4, 2013, DX with MMC (blighted ovum) at 8 weeks, D&C
    TTC again as of May 2013
    BFP on June 24, 2013, EED March 12, 2014
    Diagnosed with endometriosis, PCOS, heterozygous MTHFR and positive for ANA

    GROW BABY, GROW!
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  • I haven't had any experience with Clomid, but as a fellow Nov. '13er, I wanted to say I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  As for dealing with PCOS and using clomid - it's very common on the Trouble TTC board and IF board so if you want to hear a large sample of PCOS gals opinion you could XP over on those boards.

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I don't have any experience with Clomid, but i know the ladies here will have wonderful advice for you.

    I've had some issues with irregular cycles, included ruptured ovarian cysts and some concerns about possible
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