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Hi and more

Hi! I've just turned 38 and we want to have another baby. I have it on my mind all the time bc I know my age is a factor and I'm over weight which is a factor. But how do you not think about conceiving ? I'm concerned that my thinking about it is stressing me out and the stress is keeping me from getting pregnant. I've been off birth control since November. We moved in November , then the holidays and we have a 10 month old so there's a lot going on. Just looking for some thoughts.
I'm 38, happily married , and I'm a SAHM. Live in New Orleans. Hope that everyone is doing well. Let me know what I can do for y'all

Re: Hi and more

  • Hi and welcome.

    I know what you mean about worrying about how worrying about it might be affecting you. I mean, we've all heard the, "and then after 5 years we stopped trying and bam we got pregnant," stories.

    I console myself with the beli

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  • Thank you! Appreciate the support
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  • Welcome! Stress is a big part of things in my life. 

    I am trying to work on it as well, but it is so hard. I feel like it ruins my chances every time. I try to look at my dd and see the good in the world. 

    I wish you a big  g

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  • Welcome and Good Luck to You!
    My Ovulation Chart Me-35, DH-39. TTC#1
  • Welcome to the group and hope that you will find the support you need to help you be able to relax some. Just knowing that we are all in this together.... I think we all have our struggles in finding that place of pea

    Lilypie Trying to Conceive 15 to 80 day cycle tickers
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    Welcome to the group and hope that you will find the support you need to help you be able to rela

    ME:46 MH:44 DE IVF 2014
    Met with RE 4/11. 2 IUI's BFN. DE best option. Switched clinics to do "shared" program. Had to retake all tests and a mamm that put me behind and then on a DE waiting list for 12 months. Picked a donor!! (10/13/13) Got matched. Estimated transfer in December. After 2.5 years of patiently waiting I will finally cycle....can hardly believe it. DE cycle got cancelled. One of her tests came back positive.  Waiting for another donor. Donor picked!! (1/18/14)

    DE IVF #1 (4/26) BFN  DE FET #1 (6/4) BFP! Beta 1=339 Beta 2=852 Beta 3=9957 EDD 2/22/15!!


     

     

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  • Welcome! I do like NO! I have been there 2x and I hope to go back again, the latest was just a few years ago for New Years Eve, it was such a lovely night  - I enjoyed NO NYE over NYC NYE :)

    best of luck!

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    Me: 41 DH: 46. We are TTC our 1st, started July '11,
    3 cycles clomid with Ob,
    1 cycle Tamoxifen with Ob,
    Diagnosed PCOS 11/5/12
    clomid, trigger & timed bd 12/12 BFN
    1st clomid IUI 1/4/13 BFN.
    2nd clomid IUI 2/13 cancelled didn't respond to clomid.
    3/15/13 scheduled laparoscopy & on bcp.

    May 10 IUI from injectibles - BFN 

    May 22 done with interventions it will either happen or it won't. 

    February 2014 No longer actively trying, but not preventing. 

    SURPISE BFP 4/2/2015!!!!!!!!!!

    Miscarriage 4/23/15

     

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