I'm 27wks with g/g twins. So far no complications *knock on wood*.
I work for a printing company - my job is mostly based at my desk - but does require me to get up and walk around a lot throughout the day. I know its good for me to get up and move instead of sitting all day long, but at the same time I'm finding it harder and harder to do so.
I'm really uncomfortable and have a lot of back/hip pain. By the time I go home every night I just lay in bed or on the couch and veg out. The other night I had to convince myself for over an hour just to get up and take a shower. Some days are easier than others, but most days at work I just want to curl up and cry because I'm so uncomfortable.
I know the most important thing is to relax and rest and let the girls grow in a non-stressed environment, but I also can't afford to just quit work without receiving any financial assistance (disability pay) and trimming back my hours is not possible either due to the position I have with my company.
Have any of you had to ask your doctor to put you on disability? If so - how did it go? I'm due to see my dr again next week and was hoping to discuss this with her then. I'm thinking I can struggle through working for a few more weeks... maybe until 30 or 31 weeks... but much more than that and I think I'd just be too much a hot mess. Any advice or support is more than welcome as always!!
Re: 27wks - too early to stop working?
6 year old daughter
Fraternal boys born on May 11, 2013 at 36 weeks 4 days
My company doesn't restrict the time off for pregnancy - and I've been assured that my job would be waiting for me when I got back. My original plan was to take 4 weeks prior to due date, 8 weeks after (both paid for by disability) and then
I am only 19 weeks and have been miserable for weeks now in terms of the back ache, side aches, round ligament pain, pressure when walking etc. I am huge too. I move so slow in the hallways, people go around me. But I sit at a desk all day
I was teaching fourth grade while pregnant with my b/g twins. I was 24 weeks at Christmas break, and I went back for three days after the break, and I knew I was DONE - I was miserable and knew it wasn't worth the risk. Thank goodness
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I added to my original because I didn't feel I had explained everything clearly enough. Last time I checked this is a place to get support and help....not be torn down by others. I find your assumptions about me and my situation to be