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My first WTF moment as a mom

I went to an appt at my hospital's Breast Center today.  I've been getting recurrent clogged ducts and milk blebs, and my LC suggested me to go see a specialist.  They fit me in to see the nurse at a moment's notice, and the nurse said I could bring M with me (otherwise DH would have to take time off from work).

It turns out the nurse can't really help me, so she asked another LC to come.  In the meantime, the nurse was entertaining M while I talked to the LC.  The nurse is having MAJOR baby fever - her son/DIL are expecting.  I didn't mind that, as the nurse was keeping M busy, and M was laughing and giggling the whole time.

As my visit was drawing to a close, all of a sudden, I saw the nurse taking M out of his carseat and picking him up.  I was simply stunned and speechless!  She never asked for my permission - she just had to hold him!  TBH, I didn't really mind, cuz M was having such a good time, but gee lady, shouldn't you have asked me first if it was okay to hold him?

And as I was changing back to my regular clothes, the nurse actually took M out of my room and paraded him in front of the other staff.  

Anyway, I wasn't mad or upset; but I was truly shocked by her actions!  

TTC since 10/2008  RE consult 6/2010 Dx:Unexplaied IF

Failed multiple cycles of Clomid+TI and Clomid+IUI

3/2011 inj+IUI #1 BFP. 4/2011 missed m/c. 

Fall 2011 inj+IUI #2&3 BFN

Jan/Feb 2012 IVF#1 BFP 2/23  EDD 10/31/2012 ~~~ Halloween ~~~

Our IVF miracle, Baby Boy M, arrived on 11/8/2012!
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    Um I would be pissed if some nurse took C out of the room without asking me first.  I probably would have run after her bare a** naked to get C back.  You are better than me pb!
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    Dx: PCOS and MFI
    IUI#1-4 all BFN
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    imageDucky719:
    Did you get any help for your clogged ducts?

    Well, not really. The LC says what I'm experie

    TTC since 10/2008  RE consult 6/2010 Dx:Unexplaied IF

    Failed multiple cycles of Clomid+TI and Clomid+IUI

    3/2011 inj+IUI #1 BFP. 4/2011 missed m/c. 

    Fall 2011 inj+IUI #2&3 BFN

    Jan/Feb 2012 IVF#1 BFP 2/23  EDD 10/31/2012 ~~~ Halloween ~~~

    Our IVF miracle, Baby Boy M, arrived on 11/8/2012!
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    Ha.  Something similar happened to me when we went to the the RE to have our first ultrasound with baby no. 2.  We had to bring our daughter along and my husband and I took two separate cars so he could leave for work right from the

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    Similar thing happened to me at my 6 week PP visit. I had worn E there and she asked how I was going to get dressed without a stroller to put her in. The nurse offered to hold her, but I didn't realize she meant outside if the room! WTF indeed.
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    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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    And as I was changing back to my regular clothes, the nurse actually took M out of my room and paraded him in front

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    imageTJ1979:
    I forget, are you already taking lecithin? Do you have insurance? A lot of insurances can get you an electric pump at
    TTC since 10/2008  RE consult 6/2010 Dx:Unexplaied IF

    Failed multiple cycles of Clomid+TI and Clomid+IUI

    3/2011 inj+IUI #1 BFP. 4/2011 missed m/c. 

    Fall 2011 inj+IUI #2&3 BFN

    Jan/Feb 2012 IVF#1 BFP 2/23  EDD 10/31/2012 ~~~ Halloween ~~~

    Our IVF miracle, Baby Boy M, arrived on 11/8/2012!
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    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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    I would have been a bit shocked too. I asked a nurse at my pedi to hold G once because I really had to pee and I didn't bring a stroller that time. She did walk around and show him to the other staff, but I expected that. The only thing I can think is

    Dx: Unexplained Infertility

    TTC #1 
    IUI's #1 - #3 Clomid = BFN's, IUI #4 Follistim = BFP
    Grayson arrived via emergency c-section on 7/28/12!

    TTC #2 
    IUI's #1 - #4 Follistim = BFN's
    IVF #1 w/ ICSI + PGS: Lupron/Follistim/Menopur
    ER 4/13 - 19R, 13F, 4 PGS tested embryos, 1 normal
    5/14 FET: BFP. Beta #1: 123, Beta #2: 327, Beta #3: 854
    Cora arrived 1/23/15 via RCS!
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