My first WTF moment as a mom

pb_bride

I went to an appt at my hospital's Breast Center today.  I've been getting recurrent clogged ducts and milk blebs, and my LC suggested me to go see a specialist.  They fit me in to see the nurse at a moment's notice, and the nurse said I could bring M with me (otherwise DH would have to take time off from work).

It turns out the nurse can't really help me, so she asked another LC to come.  In the meantime, the nurse was entertaining M while I talked to the LC.  The nurse is having MAJOR baby fever - her son/DIL are expecting.  I didn't mind that, as the nurse was keeping M busy, and M was laughing and giggling the whole time.

As my visit was drawing to a close, all of a sudden, I saw the nurse taking M out of his carseat and picking him up.  I was simply stunned and speechless!  She never asked for my permission - she just had to hold him!  TBH, I didn't really mind, cuz M was having such a good time, but gee lady, shouldn't you have asked me first if it was okay to hold him?

And as I was changing back to my regular clothes, the nurse actually took M out of my room and paraded him in front of the other staff.  

Anyway, I wasn't mad or upset; but I was truly shocked by her actions!  

hunterjumper102

Um I would be pissed if some nurse took C out of the room without asking me first.  I probably would have run after her bare a** naked to get C back.  You are better than me pb!

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Ducky719:

Did you get any help for your clogged ducts?

Well, not really. The LC says what I'm experie

Saraevh

Ha.  Something similar happened to me when we went to the the RE to have our first ultrasound with baby no. 2.  We had to bring our daughter along and my husband and I took two separate cars so he could leave for work right from the

TJ1979

Similar thing happened to me at my 6 week PP visit. I had worn E there and she asked how I was going to get dressed without a stroller to put her in. The nurse offered to hold her, but I didn't realize she meant outside if the room! WTF indeed.
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Dragonfly1226

pb_bride:

And as I was changing back to my regular clothes, the nurse actually took M out of my room and paraded him in front

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TJ1979:

I forget, are you already taking lecithin? Do you have insurance? A lot of insurances can get you an electric pump at

TJ1979

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mdiblasi10

I would have been a bit shocked too. I asked a nurse at my pedi to hold G once because I really had to pee and I didn't bring a stroller that time. She did walk around and show him to the other staff, but I expected that. The only thing I can think is