September 2013 Moms

Not Safe

My insane SIL came to my house today and tries to knock my door in. While DD and I were inside. DD obviously freaked out, cops were called... I am so shaken. Since then she has sent 30 plus texts including threatening my life. Over a baby bed. Really. I am ready to put DD in the jogging stroller to run to TX. That part was a joke, but really, I don't feel safe. I know what needs to be done, but we are too short on money to leave on such short notice. My blood pressure is through the roof. Thoughts and mega prayers needed for my family please!
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    is this the sil that wouldn't give back the cosleeper?
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  • Oh my goodness. I am so sorry you have a SIL like that.T&P's with you and your family. That's insane!
  • Also, if she threatened your life via text, show that shiz to the police and ask what can be done to keep you safe
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    Also, if she threatened your life via text, show that shiz to the police and ask what can be done to keep you safe
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  • whoa. this is still going on?

    didn't she give it back eventually?

    keep the texts and get a freaking restraining order against her. she sounds like a nut job. 

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  • 1. Leave your house now and go to a friend or relative's house, or to a public place like the mall.

    2. Call the police, show them the texts, and let them know that you had to call the police earlier in the day and ask about getting a restraining

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  • Oh my! I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. Family drama is never good. 
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  • And I thought my SIL was bad...hang in there and be safe.
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    wow, wtf. I agree with PPs. Get out of there and get a restraining order! What does your husband say?
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  • Wow, what happened?

    I'm so sorry your SIL is nuts. Please go to the police with those texts and find somewhere safe to go. Is DH or another family member able to be with you? T&P for your & DD's safety!

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    image1026pumpkin:

    1. Leave your house now and go to a friend or relative's house, or to a public place like the mall.

    2. Call

  • That went from a simple request to full-on psycho VERY fast.  Sorry you're dealing with all of this. 

    I completel agree with PPs on the restraining order.  If this gets any more out of hand, you'll want everything documented wit

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  • I posted earlier about feeling like a crazy person....

     

    but this is messed up! Your husbands own sister? WTF is wrong with her? I read your PP about the bed....it's YOUR bed...you've been more than lenient with her. She had AMPLE amou

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    The police said they cant do anything because she was not here when they arrived. This is a backwards city. T
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    That went from a simple request to fullon psycho VERY fast.nbsp; Sorry you're dealing with all of this.nbsp;
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  • Awesome that DH came home early. Dont be embarrassed about posting this. You were going through a scary moment and we are her to support you (holy I am shizzing rainbows today). But as PPs said, you need to protect your family. What does DH have to say

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  • Just be safe!!!
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  • Wow. Yikes!
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  • Oh my goodness... this is nuts. I know I'm an internet stranger, but I don't live that far away. If you're ever in this situation again please let me know and I'll meet you somewhere or you can come to my house or something- you shoud not have to be in

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    keep the texts and get a freaking restraining order against her. she sounds like a nut job. 

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  • Kudos for keeping yourself and your family safe.  Keep that text and document everything she does.  Keep talking to the police and do what you have to in order to get a restraining order. 

  • I can't handle crazy people.
    Why is she still terrorizing you?  Didn't your MIL replace the stupid bed for her?
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    Oh my goodness... this is nuts. I know I'm an internet stranger, but I don't live that far away. If you're ever in this sit
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  • This girl sounds completely unstable. She clearly needs help and DH as is family should be addressing what kind of help she needs. Perhaps they can have an intervention with her alone. I would def take a vaca somewhere safe for awhile to let things cool d
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    Eat your food people. You are pregnant, not made of glass. ~PrimRoseMama
    The Benes Boys were born 9/3/13! woooo
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    This girl sounds completely unstable. She clearly needs help and DH as is family should be addressing what kind of help sh
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