September 2013 Moms

Mother in law.

Since before I knew I was pregnant I've been having dreams of a little baby girl. I have not had one dream of a boy and they syptoms within my family line up. I actually want a boy but a girl would be fantastic.

Anyways the other day I said to my MIL, "I have a feeling it's a girl". And she screams at me, " I would have sworn to god that your husband was a girl an he's a boy, your not going to know!"

I just can't believe she ha to ruin everything I bring up. She would have killed to have a little girl so of coarse she believed Andrew was a girl...

Sometimes I don't know how to handle this women.

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  • Smile and nod your head then avoid talking to her as much as possible...
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  • imagekatiebenes:
    Smile and nod your head then avoid talking to her as much as possible...

    THIS. I am half

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  • Weird that she screamed at you.  But, like PP said, you really won't know until you have an ultrasound or have the baby.
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  • Yeah, it's annoying, but she is right. I only had boy dreams about dd2, and she's a prissy prissy little girl! Lol. Just smile and say "I guess we'll find out in a few weeks or months"
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  • imageLoppy19:
    Well, she's not wrong. You aren't going to know until you have an ultrasound (or the baby is born). I don't know why
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  • Thanks ladies! I know that I won't know for sure she it just so nasty because she believed my hubby was a girl. She thinks that if she was wrong about something that everyone else is wrong as well.

  • Do we have the same MIL?? LOL   She insists that because she was wrong with DH,  my instincts will also be wrong.  Which really makes no sense because I've thought girl from very early on and now she keeps talking about
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  • Well e threw a fit because I wouldn't let her be at the vaginal ultrasound. I don't want to even try telling her she can't come to the gender ultrasound!
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  • The content of what she said is 100% reasonable. But what doesn't make sense is that she yelled it at you. ??? 

    This reminds me of a conversation we had with the NT ultrasound tech we had last week. Background - we are team green and were la


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  • imageBrianne Shenefield:
    Well e threw a fit because I wouldn't let her be at the vaginal ultrasound. I don't want to even try telling he
    BFP #1 - Mango - 6/11/12, EDD 2/22/12 Natural MC 7/15/12
    BFP #2 - Nacho - 10/14/12, EDD 6/20/13, MMC 8 weeks, D&C 11/16/12
    All testing shows both H and I are perfectly normal. Baby Nacho had triploidy. 
    Back to normal business December 2012
    BFP #3 - Froggy - 1/15/13, EDD 9/27/13 TEAM GREEN
    It's a girl! Alice - Born 9/20/13, 8lbs 2oz

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  • I get what you mean.  I think all women are well aware that you won't actually know for sure until it is verified with ultrasound or birth.  I didn't get from you post that were confused about that.  It's just fun to speculate and dream

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