Family drama vent

jkkg317

Before we moved to IL, we were living in MO where most of my family and DHs family live including my 13 weeks pregnant SIL. Her boyfriend and her have been together for about a year, both in and out of jobs. They decided they were stable enough to try for a baby. None of my business and what's done is done. Since then she has had 3 jobs because the first were being jerks about her morning sickness and the other was a hotel something or other that was working her to hard and idk about the other. Regardless she is out of work now. 

Anyway, last week she found messages to another girl in her boyfriends email and he deleted them before she could really read them. She asked me to come get her but I didn't really have the gas and it would be a day or two.  They ended up talking it out, he apologized said she was more important yadda yadda. I was rooting for them because I don't want her to be stuck being a single mom and having to deal with all of the custody issues if they can work it out. It's hard, especially in her position where she is out of work. Well she has noticed him spending a lot of time with one of their room mates, mostly alone, she told him to knock it off and he called her controlling, long story short she is leaving him again and Saturday when we go  down to MO we are picking her up and bringing her back. 

I am happy to have her with us, mostly it's hard her and H living together because they argue, but I feel bad for her and I am sort of afraid that she is going to work things out with him and want to go back. I warned her that we will pick her up but we can't afford to take her back if she comes up. 

Maria1990

Sounds exactly like my sister. Its hard