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I can tell my husband hates pregnancy sex

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in March 2013 Moms

I'll get right down to it. My husband and I have had sex maybe 5-6 times since becoming pregnant. I just can tell he hates it. The whole "sliding his penis past babies head" thing has not been exactly going over too well...

Anyone else feeling or experiencing the same thing? I've tried to be romantic and all but I'm tiny and once the clothes are off and he sees the baby kicking in my belly forget it! I'd love to bring that element back before our daughter arrives (and to help her arrive) so any advice would be fabulous 

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  • emriley84emriley84 member

    This is my 2nd child, and DH is the same way. With DS#1 once I was showing, I think we had sex once. He just couldn't get in the mood. I tried to be understanding.

    This time around we have more often, but nothing like when I'm not pregnant.I th

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  • rm2013rm2013 member
    Go with positions that don't involve him staring at or bumping against your belly! This lessened the freak out factor for my DH. Things like spooning or doggy style.

    Oh, and please tell him his penis is not touching the babies head! Lol. They
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  • amb04006amb04006 member
    I don't have any advice for you. I just wanted you to know you're not alone. My husband has had zero interest in sex since I started showing at about 15 weeks. It's been a looooong wait. He's just completely creeped out by it and feels like he's invading

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  • BikiniMomBikiniMom member
    Well I sure feel like the odd one out. I'm the one who doesn't feel up to sex during my pregnancy. My back and hips are in so much pain, and to be honest I feel like a whale... He is a sweetheart and tells me I am beautiful everyday, but I can tell he'd b
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  • ClandestineXClandestineX member

    I do not have this problem with my husband, although I am very sorry it is happening to you ladies. My guy has expressed -some- weirdness in the beginning and I asked if his thing had grown about a foot (maybe I said "half a foot bigger"), he said no a

     
     
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    Well I sure feel like the odd one out. I'm the one who doesn't feel up to sex during my pregnancy. My back and hips
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    We haven't DTD in two months due to the SPD pain I've been in. However, the nurse we saw at my OB's office last week suggested we try it to get things going. I honestly don't care how much pain I could be in when having it (although I'm thinking it's u

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  • CrequitoCrequito member

    DH and I haven't done it since sometime in the 2nd tri (yes, it's been that long that I can't remember).  I have not felt attractive or comfortable doing the deed and he's been very supportive and understanding.  Once we found out around 33w

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