I try to talk to DH's mom's side as little as possible due to several reasons. Recently they have all started asking when DH's contract is up so that we can move back to the area. DH has decided to extend and his family is blaming him, saying how horrible of a son and brother he is for being in the military. It's something that makes him question his future in the military and us wanting to move away. What is the best way I can show him that what is doing isn't wrong? It's not fair that none of them have done anything with their lives and are mad that DH did. And I mean nothing I mean none except DH have graduated high school or held jobs for more than 6months.