Since this is my first, I am really unfamiliar with showers, and such.
I know that no one is hosting a shower for me...but I would like to do something. (I would really like to throw a "fluck you party" to my sucky family...just to let them know how crappy they are. My family has had a poor response to the gender of the baby...it's been really hurtful and heartbreaking. We aren't upset though! Over the moon happy!)
But, I have heard of the "baby greet" type parties, I think?
When do couples typically throw those? I would assume a month or two after the birth...I just am curious because I would like to plan something.
EDIT:: This is not to cause MUD or drama...I am not "expecting" anyone to throw us a shower, or expecting gifts, or upset over anything like that, the "fluck you party" was a jab at my family for not being a part of the baby...I just want to celebrate the baby, and would like to do something since we aren't having a shower. If that makes sense.