One of my facebook friends is throwing her own baby shower with her DH (it's co-ed). The invite is via facebook and everyone and anyone is welcome to come.
They will provide a keg and food, but you can BYOB if you want. You also have to bring diapers to get a glass for the keg "while it lasts".
You need to bring your own lawn chairs so there will be enough seating. Also, "Anyone else who would like to bring a gift is more than welcome, gifts can be wrapped or unwrapped."
The minute I saw this I cringed a bit and I thought of this board. I'm assuming she didn't run this idea by you guys first, ha.