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Not excited about the odds...

I am excited to have a plan from the RE - which is up to 3 IUIs with Clomid. He said with 3 times (if needed), there'd be a 40 - 50% success rate.

That means there's a 50 - 60% chance none of them will work. These odds are not very exciting. Have you all been told the same?

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Re: Not excited about the odds...

  • Unfortunately we've been given even lower odds due to MFI. Some days I let that really get to me, but lately I've just been trying to push that out of my mind and focus on the positive. It certainly isn't easy though.
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  • Even with our mild MFI, my doc said 80 chance in four IUIs. Technically since we got PG on our fourth we fit in that percent...just not the final outcome we wanted.

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  • When I first heard the chances per cycle with IUI I was like these are terrible.  We are unexplained so it was something like 10% I think but he said higher with multiple IUI cycles.  We are doing 3 Clomid IUIs and if those don't work on to injectible IUIs.  After all this we have to deal with it sucks the odds are so low.  My first IUI should be next week and its already been a crazy ride.  Hang in there.  I figure somethings gotta work eventually.  
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    DX: Unexplained
    6 Failed IUIs (Clomid and Gonal F).  
    IVF #1 began August 2013- BC, 4 days of Estrace, stimmed with Gonal F and Menopur, Ganirelix, 9R 5M 5F, Medrol and Doxycycline, 5 day transfer of 2 early blastocysts- good quality, Progesterone, Estrace, and baby aspirin, BETA on 9/20 BFN,   IVF #2 began September 2013, stimming with Gonal F (higher dose) and Menopur, Ganirelix, 18R 14M 9F with ICSI, 5 day transfer of 2 BBs one was starting to hatch, 2 frosties: 1  BB and 1 AC, BETA on 10/21, BFN BETA was a 5- chemical 
    Getting some more testing and trying to figure out what the issue is before FET in December, started acupuncture on 11/10, RLP and some other BW nothing major to report except slightly high Prolactin. Prolactin was slightly high when I started with my RE and I already had an MRI which was Neg.  Endo biopsy=negative.  WTF is wrong with us???
    12/18/13 FET of 1 BB and 1 AC.  Hoping for a miracle.  Beta 12/26 Low BETA-8 2nd BETA 5- chemical
    After 3 failed transfers IDK where to go from here.  Still no real answers as to why this isn't working.  Getting a second opinion in February and looking into immune testing.  
    2/14- NEW RE- Immune testing showed a partial dq alpha match with DH- On prednisone and did intralipids prior to transfer.  3/14 Lupron, gonal f, menopur, HGH.  ER 15 mature all 15 fertilized!  5dt of an early blast grade 1 and an expanded blast grade 2.  BETA on 4/21.  1 grade 2 embryo frozen
    BETA #1 59 BETA #2 148 BETA #3 283 BETA #4 2,783! US at 6w2d shows 1 bean measuring right on track! HR 121.  US at 8w3d measuring on track HR 177. Released form my RE.  EDD 12/28


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  • I know it seems overwhelming when the odds are against you. I've found that although I have plenty of down moments that to get through them I need to remind myself it isn't a 0% chance. I was given 25% odds of 3 IUIs working- and I need to believe that I will not be in the 75% that don't have success. 
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  • My RE gave me odds of about 15% per IUI cycle which is why we decided to go straight to IVF where she gave me about a 65% shot. Still in 2WW so no idea if it worked but decided to skip IUI and went straight to"Micro IVF" (Although it kind of just turned into regular IVF) long story but anyway-- GOOD luck- the odds are so frustrating especially considering the investment - we were entirely OOP so thats why we decided to get aggressive so fast
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    TTC Again since 8/16/2014- 3rd Clomid Cycle with IUI  starts 8/18
  • This sounds about right.  Depending on your diagnosis, IUI with medication can raise an IF couples odds to about that of a regular fertile couple (roughly 20% per cycle).  That means the odds of getting pregnant within 3 IUIs is around 48%.  

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    DH (32): SA is ok, slightly low morph, normal SCSA  Me (32): Slightly low progesterone, hostile CM, carrier for CF, Moderately high NKC, High TNFa, heterozyogous mutated Factor XIII, and +APA

    October 2012-May 2014: 4 failed IUIs, 3 failed IVFs, and 1 failed FETw/donor embryos

    November 2014: IVF w/ICSI #4 Agonist/Antagonist with EPP and Prednisone, Baby Aspirin, Lovenox, and IVIG for immune issues.  Converted to freeze all due to lining issues.  2 blasts frozen on day 6!

    January 2015: FET #2 Cancelled due to lining issues

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  • imageTwinkie0612:
    This sounds about right.  Depending on your diagnosis, IUI with medication can raise an IF couples odds to about that of a regular fertile couple (roughly 20% per cycle).  That means the odds of getting pregnant within 3 IUIs is around 48%.  

    Thanks for this explanation! It helps me understand.



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