Sex ? (yes, sex - not gender)

jertie · March 2013

I'm listening to a podcast from a local radio station and basically this lady is upset b/c her husband admitted to fantasizing about other women while he's having sex with her. The guys on the radio think the man is an idiot for telling his wife in the first place - but they also think that women are more likely to fantasize during sex than a man.

I'm highly sceptical about this theory - because I have never fantasized about anyone during sex. I don't think I'm built like that - I can appreciate an attractive man - but I've never met someone (or seen anyone on TV or whatever) and thought to myself, "I wonder what sex would be like with him?" or "I wonder what he looks like naked?" - am I alone?

jertie · March 2013

shell041783:
I've never fantasized about anyone else during sex, but have had sex dreams about other people (like Jax from Sons of Anarchy!!). I miss those from pregnancy....sigh...

Oh yeah - the sex dreams are a whole different deal! Man, you're right I haven't had one of those in a long time. DH probably misses those too - I would jump on him the second I woke up Big Smile

hopefulmom81 · March 2013

jertie:
shell041783:
I've never fantasized about anyone else during sex, but have had sex dreams about other people (like Jax from Sons of Anarchy!!). I miss those from pregnancy....sigh...

Oh yeah - the sex dreams are a whole different deal! Man, you're right I haven't had one of those in a long time. DH probably misses those too - I would jump on him the second I woke up

Same here!!! Jax is so hot.

I don't fantasize about anyone else either, but my mind does wander a bit to unrelated activities until I get super into it hahaha.

mork · March 2013

I have sex dreams about DH and about other guys. I also occasionally fantasize about DH or others when awake. It was mostly during vaginal rest times though. I just needed sex, even if it was just in my brain. I've never fantasized during sex though.