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BM for the clueless/entitled win!!!

IlumineIlumine member
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So DH just called me. He just got an email from BM regarding DSD's Masters Program Graduation.

She is DEMANDING that we make hotel arrangements, so she can stay with SD because SHE is being affected by sequestration......

Mind you.

  1. we are still fully supporting her son with no financial support from her. 
  2. she did not pay a single cent towards SD's undergraduate or graduate programs. 
  3. she has never provided a single cent, outside christmas and birthdays, towards her daughter's upkeep. LIKE NOTHING.
  4. she stole..ahem...lost SD's $16,000 inheiretance that was supposed to go towards SD's college. 

She shouldn't even be GOING to see SD graduate, since she has done nothing to get SD there. 

DH called SD to see what's up.  SD told him that BM called to try to weasel the invitation and SD flat out told BM that we had already planned this out MONTHS ago.  And that SHE (SD) wanted us to stay there. 

This is an amazing thing, because even though SD knows all of the above, she always puts BM first, because she is still trying to gain her mother's love and all that.

DH, being the smartass who no longer needs to protect his kids, sent BM an email saying that he would be more than happy to stay in a hotel, if BM would pay back 1/4 of her child support arrears. 

I am dying to see how that goes over.

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Re: BM for the clueless/entitled win!!!

  • cole2144cole2144 member
    Good for your husband and your SD for standing up to BM!
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  • +just+j++just+j+ member
    She has to be certifiably crazy. Seriously. 
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  • lily_721lily_721 member

    Good for YH and SD!  Now you have another reason to be proud of your SD!

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  • HopeforthebestHopeforthebest member
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    She has to be certifiably crazy. Seriously. 

    I agree.  How incredibly selfish.  She only wants to go so she can show off, even though she did nothing to help get her there.

    +1 agreed
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  • jenjen930jenjen930 member
    imageHopeforthebest:
    imagewendilea:

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    She has to be certifiably crazy. Seriously. 

    I agree.  How incredibly selfish.  She only wants to go so she can show off, even though she did nothing to help get her there.

    +1 agreed

     

    Make that another +1 here.  Screw that.

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  • KTdiditKTdidit member

    woohoo Yes to SD and DH foe not bowing to BM's will.

    And agreed, BM is crazy and just wants to show off. Its funny how she DEMANDED it, like that was gonna work!

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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member

    She must have lossed her mind. Wow. Kudos to your husband with that response!

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