I don't even know what to do

lily_721

Someone has been rifling through my underwear drawer.  I have been pretty sure it was happening over the last two weeks.  A few days, I arranged everything just so and everytime I opened the drawer, I checked.  Yesterday when I left for work, all arranged, when I got home, it was changed. 

I feel so violated.  We are pretty sure that SS2 did this.  He was home longer alone yesterday.  He isn't careful about covering his tracks about things.  He also gets very biligerant when he is caught in a lie and then hides in his bedroom.  DH had a very strong conversation with both of them.  I told both of them how disappointed I was that this happened and it was a violation of my privacy. 

Neither of them are allowed to be in our bedroom -- this has been a standing rule.  DH is putting a key lock on our door this weekend. 

Last summer, while I was in the shower, SS2 opened my bedroom door and walked into my bathroom.  I screamed and he ran away.  It was very disturbing.  DH was away for the month and very difficult to get in touch with.  He stayed in his room for a few hours until I could talk to him.  DH had a long conversation with him at the time.  I'm pretty sure I had my dad or DH's stepdad also speak with him as well -- there was a timelapse between ocurrence and DH. 

I now keep all bedroom/bathroom doors locked (they were always shut -- just not locked).

I hate having teenagers.  I am so creeped out.  I never walk around in revealing clothes, bathrobe, etc.  When I fold my clothes, I leave the underwear in the basket and put them on the side of the folded clothes.  My wet bras are hung in my closet.  I seriously do everything I can to avoid something like this.

I am going to call his therapist today about this.  And I am washing everything today.

2chatter

That is an invasion.  Skids here go through our room if we leave them here alone and help themselves to things they want (for example, a tshirt of DH's, my Bath and Body Work products).  DH laid down the law and I put notes in the places that I had my things that they were rifling though so they knew I knew too.  I have no advice, really, can only commisserate with you.

Ginlyn0

I can only say that  when I was a young teen that I snooped around in my parent's bedroom all the time when they were gone, not sure why, just because I could maybe? We installed a key lock on our door when my nephew moved in and we lock it when we leave.

Sunday924

My SS was going though all our stuff too. He even found our sex toys that are in a very hidden place. He is no longer allowed to be at home alone.

I went though my parents stuff too. They never said anything to me but they did get a lock so I'm sure they new. 

SimpleJane

gin9874:

I can only say thatnbsp; when I was a young teen that I snooped around in my parent's bedroom all the time when they were gone, not sure why, just because I could maybe? We installed a key lock on our door when my nephew moved in and we lock it when we leave.

Yeah, my brother and I both snooped. I'm sure they are probably looking other places too. My parents put a lock on their door.
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