I have a couple of girlfriends (we're all in the same circle pretty much) who've offered to throw a "bomb-ass" baby shower. Well, I was there when the leader of the pack made a call to reserve a room at a local restaurant/pub for the shower. When asked who's going to be the person to bill, she kind of stuttered, so I spoke up and said "Oh I can get it." Well...since, we did some more research on the place, and decided to cancel there. So in the meantime it doesn't really matter.
Anyway, was it wrong/bad/whatever for me to say I'd pay? I mean, is she supposed to pay for all expenses? When am I allowed to step in?
Also, just any general advice or rules I might not know. I try to lurk as much as I can, and some things you ladies say make sense, while others, not as much (I never knew how involved, or uninvolved, baby showers can be). So I need as much help as possible!
By the way, I'm already aware of most "tacky" things often mentioned. Definitely not requesting books instead of cards! haha