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32, PCOS & TTC- Stressed & Depressed

beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
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Hi, new to the group. HD & I have been TTC since Nov '12. I know that's not a very long time, but I have not had a positive ovulation test since early Dec. I'm on day 15 of my 3rd cycle since that date, still nothing for this cycle. I'm worried that my stress about this is just making things worse. I'm not sure what to do. I'm starting to worry that I'm depressed, I can't look at a baby with out breaking down. Everyone I know seems to be getting pregnant & they're not even trying. Planning on talking to my Dr in April at my next visit about this & possibly starting meds. Does anyone have any tips for dealing with the stress of it all?


   Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
"We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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Re: 32, PCOS & TTC- Stressed & Depressed

  • YouMe&BaxYouMe&Bax member

    If you are feeling that depressed after 4 months of TTC I would highly recommend finding somebody to talk to.

     

    Also, this is most likely not the board for you as most women here have been TTC for 12+ months.  I am sure there will be a lot of great support (and others feeling the same way) for you on the TTC board.

     

    Good luck! 

    Me: 30, DH: 40 
    TTC since January 2012HSG & Bloodwork: Normal, SA: NormalDx: Unexplained Infertility 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN (three cycles)
    50mg Clomid + trigger + IUI = BFP (one cycle)
    Beta #1 (12dpo) = 49  Beta #2 (14dpo)= 149

    Expecting g/g twins Oct '13


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    imageYouMe&Bax:

    If you are feeling that depressed after 4 months of TTC I would highly recommend finding somebody to talk to.

     

    Also, this is most likely not the board for you as most women here have been TTC for 12+ months.  I am sure there will be a lot of great support (and others feeling the same way) for you on the TTC board.

     

    Good luck! 

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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    Thank you. I wasn't sure & the board description seemed like maybe this was where I should start since I have a known problem.

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
    "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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  • StarbinksStarbinks member

    imagebeckynsean11:
    Thank you. I wasn't sure & the board description seemed like maybe this was where I should start since I have a known problem.

    Many women with PCOS still get pregnant unassisted.  It sounds like you are having regular cycles which is good.  You may have missed your LH surge with your OPKs.  Try testing twice a day if you aren't already.  I know it's tough to see people getting pregnant after 2 or 3 months but many healthy people take much longer to get pregant.  Fertility meds are nasty and potentially dangerous drugs and you don't want to be on them if you don't have to be.  Post on the TTC board and you will find many other women in your same position and hopefully they will help you feel better.  GL!

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  • beckynsean11beckynsean11 member
    Thank you. I'm over on the TTC board now. Best of luck to everyone here!

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
    "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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