Well, mostly just his biiitch of a sister. She was always awful to me when we were still married, and its only gotten worse now. She is spoiled rotten, lives off her parents, and thinks she is better than everyone she has ever met. She is usually great with my kids however, and has a degree in early childhood development.
This week is school vacation. DS would normally just go to the Y for the week instad of just aftercare. DH pays 100 precent of daycare per our CO and didn't want to pay for the full week. His sister is an Ed Tech and has the week off from school this week too and offered to provide daycare for free so he wouldnt have to pay for the full week at the Y. He asked if I was okay with it, and I agreed because I know he is struggling financially and I know the kids would have a better time with their aunt this week than at daycare. They love their Aunt.
We've had problems before with her saying mean things about me to the kids, so I made it clear to XH that her badmouthing me wouldn't be tolerated and he better make it clear to her. I hate to not allow them time with her because despite my feelings of her the kids really love her.
Today was day one of her watching them. I picked them up and the first thing DS says is "Auntie said if you don't bath me tonight then she's doing it tomorrow cuz my nails are dirty from you not bathing me." And then "I'm wearing new socks from Auntie because the ones you sent me in were obviously too small."
Ughhhh!!! Why can't she just shut her mouth and be happy I'm giving her time with them?! She just always needs to take digs at me through them. My kids are clean, and their clothing fits perfectly fine. She's just a biitch. If I had anywhere else to send them while I work tomorrow I would.