when I first found out i was pregnant in late december, my baby daddy was pretty weird about it. at first he was so excited, then he flipped a week later and wanted to be uninvolved, then later that day he wanted to be semi involved(still not sure what that even means) then a couple days later wanted to be totally involved, then he dropped off the face of the earth.
I found out later that he was back with his ex wife. But now I get text messages from him once every couple weeks. The most recent ones were yesterday. they started out normal enough, asking how i was, what was new in my life. And when I asked how things were with him, he didnt respond. I'm not surprised by this, this isn't new behavior on his part.
I guess I'm just starting to worry that he's going to be a loser dad to our little one. I feel that way because of how he treats me. I'd like to believe in him, but I feel like the only way not to be disappointed in him is to not put any faith in him.
How do you ladies deal with dad's like this? I'm actually really worried about this in and out mentality of his will affect our child in later years.