Yay. I took a test last night and this morning and they were both positive! Congrats to everyone in here as well. How many in here will be having their first second or more?
DH and I are on baby #3 and 4 (twins). We have a 3 y/o and an almost 2 y/o now. 4 kids under 4 and a sahm. This is going to be interesting when the twins get here!
You should definitely ask them if they all experienced implantation bleeding too! It is a good GTKY around these parts.
Yeah@Cole. its so crazy because implantation bleeding is deemed as so technical yet it seems that not everyone's case is exactly the same. clearly. LOL.
You should definitely ask them if they all experienced implantation bleeding too! It is a good GTKY around these parts.
Yeah@Cole. its so crazy because implantation bleeding is deemed as so technical yet it seems that not everyone's case is exactly the same. clearly. LOL.
Oh hai. I think you are some kind of special brand of BSC and mean to rub your BFP in the faces of TTGP. Congrats and all, but that was a really cruddy thing to do.
Oh hai. I think you are some kind of special brand of BSC and mean to rub your BFP in the faces of TTGP. Congrats and all, but that was a really cruddy thing to do.
You should definitely ask them if they all experienced implantation bleeding too! It is a good GTKY around these parts.
Yeah@Cole. its so crazy because implantation bleeding is deemed as so technical yet it seems that not everyone's case is exactly the same. clearly. LOL.
It's not rubbing it in their faces. I was asking them a question regarding something i was not totally familiar with. Some people had really great input, and some were snarky. Its not my problem how people react. I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. So if they have a problem with it then too bad. I didnt go over there to start trouble, I went because I wanted thoughts on a subject. The funny part was i was giving background information and that was assuming I told people they were "wrong" or whatever which was not the case.
So if people wanna get snarky, they should expect some back. So I ended it with I was right, beacuse I was. So if they have problems with it okay. Obviously, I am on a first tri board because it is now relevant to my situation. So it's whatever.
Congrats to everyone in first tri on their little ones!!!
It's not rubbing it in their faces. I was asking them a question regarding something i was not totally familiar with. Some people had really great input, and some were snarky. Its not my problem how people react. I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. So if they have a problem with it then too bad. I didnt go over there to start trouble, I went because I wanted thoughts on a subject. The funny part was i was giving background information and that was assuming I told people they were "wrong" or whatever which was not the case.
So if people wanna get snarky, they should expect some back. So I ended it with I was right, beacuse I was. So if they have problems with it okay. Obviously, I am on a first tri board because it is now relevant to my situation. So it's whatever.
Congrats to everyone in first tri on their little ones!!!
You did rub it in our faces. And the fact that you've since come back to your BFP post makes you an even bigger douche.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38 Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
It's not rubbing it in their faces. I was asking them a question regarding something i was not totally familiar with. Some people had really great input, and some were snarky. Its not my problem how people react. I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. So if they have a problem with it then too bad. I didnt go over there to start trouble, I went because I wanted thoughts on a subject. The funny part was i was giving background information and that was assuming I told people they were "wrong" or whatever which was not the case.
So if people wanna get snarky, they should expect some back. So I ended it with I was right, beacuse I was. So if they have problems with it okay. Obviously, I am on a first tri board because it is now relevant to my situation. So it's whatever.
Congrats to everyone in first tri on their little ones!!!
You did rub it in our faces. And the fact that you've since come back to your BFP post makes you an even bigger douche.
My original post wasnt rubbing it in anyone's face. Y'all chose to be snarky and so you get some snark back. There were some nice posters on there whom I responded to nicely. My original question was an honest one. Now you're mad that you got snark back when you did it to someone else? Oh well.
Say what you will about me being "wrong" but the fact of the matter is the same thing that happened last time happened this time. Someone had said I was not pregnant because I had gotten a period not IB and wasn't pregnant at that time and since I missed last time THAT was when I was pregnant. Sooo i still got the "period" this time and haven't missed one yet, yet I got not just one but two positive tests....Just saying. Anyways, that conversation is over and done with. In the future if you don't want snark back don't be snarky to someone else.
DH and I are on baby #3 and 4 (twins). We have a 3 y/o and an almost 2 y/o now. 4 kids under 4 and a sahm. This is going to be interesting when the twins get here!
Whew! You will have your hands full but I am sure it will be a lot of fun! Would you prefer twin boys or twin girls?
Yeah, see my responses below. You are so much better creating a new screen name and starting over. The Bump never forgets.
TaviaBrad:
It's not rubbing it in their faces. Except that it was. You basically posted to say, "nanny nanny boo boo I was right!!!" . By the way, you don't know if you were right or its just first trimester bleeding that is common. It was more important to you to be right than it was for you to be gracious and move on to first trimester. You didn't participate at ALL on the TTGP board aside from one post where you asked a question and got your panties in a twist about the answers.
Its not my problem how people react. Except that it is. You see, many of us graduated from TTGP and still have friends over there trying. Its rude and mean what you did. Your actions will color how people receive you here. As you can see.
I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. Except you DID post there. So to say you didn't post over there to rub in their faces is a bold faced lie. That makes you not only a mean, spiteful person, but also a lying liar that lies out of their lie hole. Again, why should we welcome you over here if you are being such a nasty person to the TTGP board?
Say what you will about me being "wrong" but the fact of the matter is the same thing that happened last time happened this time. Someone had said I was not pregnant because I had gotten a period not IB and wasn't pregnant at that time and since I missed last time THAT was when I was pregnant. Sooo i still got the "period" this time and haven't missed one yet, yet I got not just one but two positive tests....Just saying. Anyways, that conversation is over and done with. In the future if you don't want snark back don't be snarky to someone else.
No, it didn't. If a doctor confirmed that you were 5.5 weeks pregnant on Dec. 15th (which you said they did), then your baby was conceived around Nov. 21st. About two weeks before that was - surprise - Nov. 10th and the start of your last period! Which is not the same as IB.
You may have had IB bleeding with the baby, but you almost certainly did not have IB last time.
You obviously made a point to post on TTGP to rub in their faces BEFORE you even posted over here. Please don't think we are stupid. Here is the evidence.
Say what you will about me being "wrong" but the fact of the matter is the same thing that happened last time happened this time. Someone had said I was not pregnant because I had gotten a period not IB and wasn't pregnant at that time and since I missed last time THAT was when I was pregnant. Sooo i still got the "period" this time and haven't missed one yet, yet I got not just one but two positive tests....Just saying. Anyways, that conversation is over and done with. In the future if you don't want snark back don't be snarky to someone else.
No, it didn't. If a doctor confirmed that you were 5.5 weeks pregnant on Dec. 15th (which you said they did), then your baby was conceived around Nov. 21st. About two weeks before that was - surprise - Nov. 10th and the start of your last period! Which is not the same as IB.
You may have had IB bleeding with the baby, but you almost certainly did not have IB last time.
OK....btw. I will make sure to check out that book you recommended next time around. It will avoid all this madness. Lol.
My original post wasnt rubbing it in anyone's face. Y'all chose to be snarky and so you get major twatwafflery back. There were some nice posters on there whom I responded to nicely. My original question was an honest one. Now you're mad that I am a total b!tch? Oh well.
In the future if you don't want me to be a douchecanoe don't talk to me.
FTFY
LOL. that is not necessary to manipulate what was said. lol. I didn't know asking a question originally would piss so many people off.
It's not rubbing it in their faces. I was asking them a question regarding something i was not totally familiar with. Some people had really great input, and some were snarky. Its not my problem how people react. I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. So if they have a problem with it then too bad. I didnt go over there to start trouble, I went because I wanted thoughts on a subject. The funny part was i was giving background information and that was assuming I told people they were "wrong" or whatever which was not the case.
So if people wanna get snarky, they should expect some back. So I ended it with I was right, beacuse I was. So if they have problems with it okay. Obviously, I am on a first tri board because it is now relevant to my situation. So it's whatever.
Congrats to everyone in first tri on their little ones!!!
You did rub it in our faces. And the fact that you've since come back to your BFP post makes you an even bigger douche.
My original post wasnt rubbing it in anyone's face. Y'all chose to be snarky and so you get some snark back. There were some nice posters on there whom I responded to nicely. My original question was an honest one. Now you're mad that you got snark back when you did it to someone else? Oh well.
Say what you will about me being "wrong" but the fact of the matter is the same thing that happened last time happened this time. Someone had said I was not pregnant because I had gotten a period not IB and wasn't pregnant at that time and since I missed last time THAT was when I was pregnant. Sooo i still got the "period" this time and haven't missed one yet, yet I got not just one but two positive tests....Just saying. Anyways, that conversation is over and done with. In the future if you don't want snark back don't be snarky to someone else.
I read both your posts on TTGP and you were WRONG about your first pregnancy. It is impossible for you to miss 2 periods due to pregnancy and only be 5.5 weeks. While you did end up being pregnant this time, that doesn't mean it was for sure implantation bleeding. Could it have been? Sure. Was it? Its impossible to say, but honestly what you described does not sound like implantation bleeding.
OK....btw. I will make sure to check out that book you recommended next time around. It will avoid all this madness. Lol.
You do realize that all of the other women are trying to tell you the exact same thing that I am telling you, right? And it's the same information that you will find in TCOYF. However, I will agree you on this part - reading the book and educating yourself on this subject could definitely help you with the madness.
Yeah, see my responses below. You are so much better creating a new screen name and starting over. The Bump never forgets.
TaviaBrad:
It's not rubbing it in their faces. Except that it was. You basically posted to say, "nanny nanny boo boo I was right!!!" . By the way, you don't know if you were right or its just first trimester bleeding that is common. It was more important to you to be right than it was for you to be gracious and move on to first trimester. You didn't participate at ALL on the TTGP board aside from one post where you asked a question and got your panties in a twist about the answers.
Its not my problem how people react. Except that it is. You see, many of us graduated from TTGP and still have friends over there trying. Its rude and mean what you did. Your actions will color how people receive you here. As you can see.
I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. Except you DID post there. So to say you didn't post over there to rub in their faces is a bold faced lie. That makes you not only a mean, spiteful person, but also a lying liar that lies out of their lie hole. Again, why should we welcome you over here if you are being such a nasty person to the TTGP board?
So me asking a question and giving background information dictated how people would react? LMFAO. I was trying to piece everything together in the original post, hence why I asked the question to begin with. People got snarky in the original post. Had people either just ignored it or actually tried to give info as some did they wouldnt have received snark back.
If you read what I said, I said my ORIGINAL post was not rubbing it in people's faces, which it was not and I thought that is what that poster was referring to. Again, in the ORIGINAL post people were snarky, and so they got snark back.
I never told anyone IN THE ORIGINAL POST that they were wrong. I asked questions to make sure I understood. It is mighty interesting that NOBODY can seem to show in the original post where I told anybody that they were wrong or that I was upset. I was not at all, it was just a confusing situation.
Change a screen name? LMFAO. Are you serious? Some people do not know eachother on here. Why would I change a username because of people I DONT KNOW that are snarky. It is whatever. If you dont like what I have to say then dont read it.
So again show me where I lied regarding my original posting. I will wait....
OK....btw. I will make sure to check out that book you recommended next time around. It will avoid all this madness. Lol.
You do realize that all of the other women are trying to tell you the exact same thing that I am telling you, right? And it's the same information that you will find in TCOYF. However, I will agree you on this part - reading the book and educating yourself on this subject could definitely help you with the madness.
Well as you can tell due to your approach, I have listened to what you have said and what you have said now and before makes a lot of sense. They should take a lesson from you. When you approach people nicely and genuinely try to help, you will get the same treatment back. Everything everyone said I took into consideration, it was just difficult because I was trying to give background on what happened last time and parallel it to this and it just ended up confusing everybody and people got all up in arms. So it is what it is. Thanks again for your patience and your help.
So again show me where I lied regarding my original posting. I will wait....
I never said you lied about your original post. You must be dense. I said that you lied about posting your BFP to rub it in people's faces. I don't give a crap about your first post about implantation bleeding and asking about it. That doesn't matter to me. I don't know why you think that anything anyone did you justifies you rubbing your pee stick in their faces. That's rude. If you believe that it justifies being nasty to them then that is pretty messed up.
What you are getting flamed for, by me, is posting your BFP (I provided a screen capture but will do so again here) to rub it in their faces. Keep up. See how you posted your BFP "I was right about my IB b1tches type post" BEFORE (the time stamp in the colored boxes) you introduced yourself here on first trimester? Again, keep up. I'll spell it out for you.
No one is flaming you for your IB question. They are flaming you for being insensitive (and intentionally daft now) and waving your pee stick in TTGP's face. Does that make sense to you.
"Change a screen name? LMFAO. Are you serious? Some people do not know eachother on here. Why would I change a username because of people I DONT KNOW that are snarky. It is whatever. If you dont like what I have to say then dont read it. "
I am absolutely serious about changing your screen name. However, your winning personality will probably alert people that you are you. I don't have to read it, but you don't have to post it either. Why do you feel the need to be an insufferable douche?
Yeah, see my responses below. You are so much better creating a new screen name and starting over. The Bump never forgets.
TaviaBrad:
It's not rubbing it in their faces. Except that it was. You basically posted to say, "nanny nanny boo boo I was right!!!" . By the way, you don't know if you were right or its just first trimester bleeding that is common. It was more important to you to be right than it was for you to be gracious and move on to first trimester. You didn't participate at ALL on the TTGP board aside from one post where you asked a question and got your panties in a twist about the answers.
Its not my problem how people react. Except that it is. You see, many of us graduated from TTGP and still have friends over there trying. Its rude and mean what you did. Your actions will color how people receive you here. As you can see.
I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. Except you DID post there. So to say you didn't post over there to rub in their faces is a bold faced lie. That makes you not only a mean, spiteful person, but also a lying liar that lies out of their lie hole. Again, why should we welcome you over here if you are being such a nasty person to the TTGP board?
So me asking a question and giving background information dictated how people would react? LMFAO. I was trying to piece everything together in the original post, hence why I asked the question to begin with. People got snarky in the original post. Had people either just ignored it or actually tried to give info as some did they wouldnt have received snark back.
If you read what I said, I said my ORIGINAL post was not rubbing it in people's faces, which it was not and I thought that is what that poster was referring to. Again, in the ORIGINAL post people were snarky, and so they got snark back.
I never told anyone IN THE ORIGINAL POST that they were wrong. I asked questions to make sure I understood. It is mighty interesting that NOBODY can seem to show in the original post where I told anybody that they were wrong or that I was upset. I was not at all, it was just a confusing situation.
Change a screen name? LMFAO. Are you serious? Some people do not know eachother on here. Why would I change a username because of people I DONT KNOW that are snarky. It is whatever. If you dont like what I have to say then dont read it.
So again show me where I lied regarding my original posting. I will wait....
No one claims you were rubbing it in their faces in the ORIGINAL post (as in the one 'asking' about IB) you just came off ignorant and argumentative. It was your second post on TTGP where you basically said "Hahaha I got a BFP and you didn't! I'm right and you are wrong! In your face strangers!". A lot of the women here were on TTGP first and know those women, plenty of whom having been trying for a very long time to get pregnant. We do not think it is ok to rub your pregnancy in their faces since you are not a part of the TTGP comminuity, and obviously know nothing about them. Then you came here and claimed that you didn't do that, hence someone calling you a liar.
It's not rubbing it in their faces. I was asking them a question regarding something i was not totally familiar with. Some people had really great input, and some were snarky. Its not my problem how people react. I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. So if they have a problem with it then too bad. I didnt go over there to start trouble, I went because I wanted thoughts on a subject. The funny part was i was giving background information and that was assuming I told people they were "wrong" or whatever which was not the case.
So if people wanna get snarky, they should expect some back. So I ended it with I was right, beacuse I was. So if they have problems with it okay. Obviously, I am on a first tri board because it is now relevant to my situation. So it's whatever.
Congrats to everyone in first tri on their little ones!!!
You did rub it in our faces. And the fact that you've since come back to your BFP post makes you an even bigger douche.
My original post wasnt rubbing it in anyone's face. Y'all chose to be snarky and so you get some snark back. There were some nice posters on there whom I responded to nicely. My original question was an honest one. Now you're mad that you got snark back when you did it to someone else? Oh well.
Say what you will about me being "wrong" but the fact of the matter is the same thing that happened last time happened this time. Someone had said I was not pregnant because I had gotten a period not IB and wasn't pregnant at that time and since I missed last time THAT was when I was pregnant. Sooo i still got the "period" this time and haven't missed one yet, yet I got not just one but two positive tests....Just saying. Anyways, that conversation is over and done with. In the future if you don't want snark back don't be snarky to someone else.
I read both your posts on TTGP and you were WRONG about your first pregnancy. It is impossible for you to miss 2 periods due to pregnancy and only be 5.5 weeks. While you did end up being pregnant this time, that doesn't mean it was for sure implantation bleeding. Could it have been? Sure. Was it? Its impossible to say, but honestly what you described does not sound like implantation bleeding.
Thats fine. The whole point of me asking the question originally was because I had something to compare this one to and as I said, I didn't know the nitty gritty about implantation bleeding. Apparenly me explaining the background of everything and trying to piece everything together got everyone upset. So i wanted to know if someone had IB knowledge that I could take from so that I would no longer be confused.
Apparenly me explaining the background of everything and trying to piece everything together got everyone upset.
NO.
NO.
People are getting upset with you because you took your BFP and rubbed in people's faces on TTGP. That's douchey, mean and unnecessary . That is why. God, are you stupid?!
Your first post was just annoying, but your "I'm so right, look at my BFP" post was awful. I don't know how many times you have to have this spelled out for you.
OK....btw. I will make sure to check out that book you recommended next time around. It will avoid all this madness. Lol.
You do realize that all of the other women are trying to tell you the exact same thing that I am telling you, right? And it's the same information that you will find in TCOYF. However, I will agree you on this part - reading the book and educating yourself on this subject could definitely help you with the madness.
Well as you can tell due to your approach, I have listened to what you have said and what you have said now and before makes a lot of sense. They should take a lesson from you. When you approach people nicely and genuinely try to help, you will get the same treatment back. Everything everyone said I took into consideration, it was just difficult because I was trying to give background on what happened last time and parallel it to this and it just ended up confusing everybody and people got all up in arms. So it is what it is. Thanks again for your patience and your help.
Except you kept trying to convince us you had IB with your first pregnancy even after it had been explained to you that you didn't. Hell, you even came over here and continued to say you had IB with your first pregnancy.
"Except you kept trying to convince us you had IB with your first pregnancy even after it had been explained to you that you didnt" RIGHT. I was telling what had happened the first time to give some background on the situation, because I did not know of anything different.
Since this time around based on what has happened i believe it IS IB, I was explaining the scenario AGAIN because obviously I went through this my first time. The different thing with this time since it is a gray area is that I did not know that it would be able to detect this super early. Had i waited until a missed period like last time and it was positive, it could be said I didn't have implantation bleeding either. Does that make sense? I did not test the first time like I did this time. The first time, I tested when i STARTED bleeding but obviously it was too early. Had I tested a few days AFTER the bleeding like this time, it could have been positive it could have been negative.
So the confusion lied in the fact of the TIME when I tested. That was what I was confused about. As I said had THIS time i tested say 5 weeks later like last time and it would have come up positive, the same thing could be argued that it was not implantation. My conclusion originally that it was attributed to the fact that like last time, my "period" came early. The only difference is WHEN i tested. So that is why I asked the question...and I am sure people are still confused, but I hope you understand what i was trying to say
So again show me where I lied regarding my original posting. I will wait....
I never said you lied about your original post. You must be dense. I said that you lied about posting your BFP to rub it in people's faces. I don't give a crap about your first post about implantation bleeding and asking about it. That doesn't matter to me. I don't know why you think that anything anyone did you justifies you rubbing your pee stick in their faces. That's rude. If you believe that it justifies being nasty to them then that is pretty messed up.
What you are getting flamed for, by me, is posting your BFP (I provided a screen capture but will do so again here) to rub it in their faces. Keep up. See how you posted your BFP "I was right about my IB b1tches type post" BEFORE (the time stamp in the colored boxes) you introduced yourself here on first trimester? Again, keep up. I'll spell it out for you.
No one is flaming you for your IB question. They are flaming you for being insensitive (and intentionally daft now) and waving your pee stick in TTGP's face. Does that make sense to you.
"Change a screen name? LMFAO. Are you serious? Some people do not know eachother on here. Why would I change a username because of people I DONT KNOW that are snarky. It is whatever. If you dont like what I have to say then dont read it. "
I am absolutely serious about changing your screen name. However, your winning personality will probably alert people that you are you. I don't have to read it, but you don't have to post it either. Why do you feel the need to be an insufferable douche?
MY FYI post was because people were being snarky in the original one. Had that not happened, I wouldn't have said anything. When someone said I rubbed it in their face i thought they were referring to my Original post. Obviously it was a misunderstanding that is not what they were talking about.
My post about the BFP and saying "yay im excited..." was posted where? In the FIRST TRIMESTER room. Lets go down the list and see how many others had the same type of post...hmm quite a few. Just saying.
OK....btw. I will make sure to check out that book you recommended next time around. It will avoid all this madness. Lol.
You do realize that all of the other women are trying to tell you the exact same thing that I am telling you, right? And it's the same information that you will find in TCOYF. However, I will agree you on this part - reading the book and educating yourself on this subject could definitely help you with the madness.
Well as you can tell due to your approach, I have listened to what you have said and what you have said now and before makes a lot of sense. They should take a lesson from you. When you approach people nicely and genuinely try to help, you will get the same treatment back. Everything everyone said I took into consideration, it was just difficult because I was trying to give background on what happened last time and parallel it to this and it just ended up confusing everybody and people got all up in arms. So it is what it is. Thanks again for your patience and your help.
Except you kept trying to convince us you had IB with your first pregnancy even after it had been explained to you that you didn't. Hell, you even came over here and continued to say you had IB with your first pregnancy.
"Except you kept trying to convince us you had IB with your first pregnancy even after it had been explained to you that you didnt" RIGHT. I was telling what had happened the first time to give some background on the situation, because I did not know of anything different.
Since this time around based on what has happened i believe it IS IB, I was explaining the scenario AGAIN because obviously I went through this my first time. The different thing with this time since it is a gray area is that I did not know that it would be able to detect this super early. Had i waited until a missed period like last time and it was positive, it could be said I didn't have implantation bleeding either. Does that make sense? I did not test the first time like I did this time. The first time, I tested when i STARTED bleeding but obviously it was too early. Had I tested a few days AFTER the bleeding like this time, it could have been positive it could have been negative.
So the confusion lied in the fact of the TIME when I tested. That was what I was confused about. As I said had THIS time i tested say 5 weeks later like last time and it would have come up positive, the same thing could be argued that it was not implantation. My conclusion originally that it was attributed to the fact that like last time, my "period" came early. The only difference is WHEN i tested. So that is why I asked the question...and I am sure people are still confused, but I hope you understand what i was trying to say
I do not understand what you don't get about this. You did NOT have IB during your last pregnancy, or at least what you are saying was IB could not possible have been because you were not pregnant yet. That is why the test was negative. This time, the test was positive because you are pregnant.
Yeah, see my responses below. You are so much better creating a new screen name and starting over. The Bump never forgets.
TaviaBrad:
It's not rubbing it in their faces. Except that it was. You basically posted to say, "nanny nanny boo boo I was right!!!" . By the way, you don't know if you were right or its just first trimester bleeding that is common. It was more important to you to be right than it was for you to be gracious and move on to first trimester. You didn't participate at ALL on the TTGP board aside from one post where you asked a question and got your panties in a twist about the answers.
Its not my problem how people react. Except that it is. You see, many of us graduated from TTGP and still have friends over there trying. Its rude and mean what you did. Your actions will color how people receive you here. As you can see.
I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. Except you DID post there. So to say you didn't post over there to rub in their faces is a bold faced lie. That makes you not only a mean, spiteful person, but also a lying liar that lies out of their lie hole. Again, why should we welcome you over here if you are being such a nasty person to the TTGP board?
So me asking a question and giving background information dictated how people would react? LMFAO. I was trying to piece everything together in the original post, hence why I asked the question to begin with. People got snarky in the original post. Had people either just ignored it or actually tried to give info as some did they wouldnt have received snark back.
If you read what I said, I said my ORIGINAL post was not rubbing it in people's faces, which it was not and I thought that is what that poster was referring to. Again, in the ORIGINAL post people were snarky, and so they got snark back.
I never told anyone IN THE ORIGINAL POST that they were wrong. I asked questions to make sure I understood. It is mighty interesting that NOBODY can seem to show in the original post where I told anybody that they were wrong or that I was upset. I was not at all, it was just a confusing situation.
Change a screen name? LMFAO. Are you serious? Some people do not know eachother on here. Why would I change a username because of people I DONT KNOW that are snarky. It is whatever. If you dont like what I have to say then dont read it.
So again show me where I lied regarding my original posting. I will wait....
No one claims you were rubbing it in their faces in the ORIGINAL post (as in the one 'asking' about IB) you just came off ignorant and argumentative. It was your second post on TTGP where you basically said "Hahaha I got a BFP and you didn't! I'm right and you are wrong! In your face strangers!". A lot of the women here were on TTGP first and know those women, plenty of whom having been trying for a very long time to get pregnant. We do not think it is ok to rub your pregnancy in their faces since you are not a part of the TTGP comminuity, and obviously know nothing about them. Then you came here and claimed that you didn't do that, hence someone calling you a liar.
"and obviously know nothing about them" Yet they were calling me names and know nothing about me. So based on that they did the same thing right?
How is it right for people who know nothing about me calling me a name? It works both ways and is not cool BOTH WAYS. So if someone is doing the SAME thing, yet getting mad when the other person does it, that is hypocritical. My intent was to not come across as argumentative. I was asking a genuine question trying to give background so that everyone understood but it just turned into confusion.
OK....btw. I will make sure to check out that book you recommended next time around. It will avoid all this madness. Lol.
You do realize that all of the other women are trying to tell you the exact same thing that I am telling you, right? And it's the same information that you will find in TCOYF. However, I will agree you on this part - reading the book and educating yourself on this subject could definitely help you with the madness.
Well as you can tell due to your approach, I have listened to what you have said and what you have said now and before makes a lot of sense. They should take a lesson from you. When you approach people nicely and genuinely try to help, you will get the same treatment back. Everything everyone said I took into consideration, it was just difficult because I was trying to give background on what happened last time and parallel it to this and it just ended up confusing everybody and people got all up in arms. So it is what it is. Thanks again for your patience and your help.
Except you kept trying to convince us you had IB with your first pregnancy even after it had been explained to you that you didn't. Hell, you even came over here and continued to say you had IB with your first pregnancy.
"Except you kept trying to convince us you had IB with your first pregnancy even after it had been explained to you that you didnt" RIGHT. I was telling what had happened the first time to give some background on the situation, because I did not know of anything different.
Since this time around based on what has happened i believe it IS IB, I was explaining the scenario AGAIN because obviously I went through this my first time. The different thing with this time since it is a gray area is that I did not know that it would be able to detect this super early. Had i waited until a missed period like last time and it was positive, it could be said I didn't have implantation bleeding either. Does that make sense? I did not test the first time like I did this time. The first time, I tested when i STARTED bleeding but obviously it was too early. Had I tested a few days AFTER the bleeding like this time, it could have been positive it could have been negative.
So the confusion lied in the fact of the TIME when I tested. That was what I was confused about. As I said had THIS time i tested say 5 weeks later like last time and it would have come up positive, the same thing could be argued that it was not implantation. My conclusion originally that it was attributed to the fact that like last time, my "period" came early. The only difference is WHEN i tested. So that is why I asked the question...and I am sure people are still confused, but I hope you understand what i was trying to say
Wow you still don't get this.
LMFAO! I get it. ONCE AGAIN i am EXPLAINING what i was TRYING TO SAY. but i get it.
MY FYI post was because people were being snarky in the original one. Had that not happened, I wouldn't have said anything. When someone said I rubbed it in their face i thought they were referring to my Original post. Obviously it was a misunderstanding that is not what they were talking about.
My post about the BFP and saying "yay im excited..." was posted where? In the FIRST TRIMESTER room. Lets go down the list and see how many others had the same type of post...hmm quite a few. Just saying.
We don't care how much snark you got on any post. Posting that BFP on TTGP was a douchy thing to do. Period.
I would be very surprised if you could come back from this. Why don't you find the door and just go.
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MY FYI post was because people were being snarky in the original one. Had that not happened, I wouldn't have said anything. When someone said I rubbed it in their face i thought they were referring to my Original post. Obviously it was a misunderstanding that is not what they were talking about.
My post about the BFP and saying "yay im excited..." was posted where? In the FIRST TRIMESTER room. Lets go down the list and see how many others had the same type of post...hmm quite a few. Just saying.
We don't care how much snark you got on any post. Posting that BFP on TTGP was a douchy thing to do. Period.
I would be very surprised if you could come back from this. Why don't you find the door and just go.
LMFAO. Come back from what? It's the internet. We are on the first tri board which is now relevant to my situation.
It is also douchy to call someone names and act like u know all about them when you know nothing. Look in a mirror before you decide to speak.
MY FYI post was because people were being snarky in the original one. Had that not happened, I wouldn't have said anything. When someone said I rubbed it in their face i thought they were referring to my Original post. Obviously it was a misunderstanding that is not what they were talking about.
My post about the BFP and saying "yay im excited..." was posted where? In the FIRST TRIMESTER room. Lets go down the list and see how many others had the same type of post...hmm quite a few. Just saying.
We don't care how much snark you got on any post. Posting that BFP on TTGP was a douchy thing to do. Period.
I would be very surprised if you could come back from this. Why don't you find the door and just go.
LMFAO. Come back from what? It's the internet. We are on the first tri board which is now relevant to my situation.
It is also douchy to call someone names and act like u know all about them when you know nothing. Look in a mirror before you decide to speak.
Come back from all the stupid BS you have caused on 2 boards now. No one is going to welcome you here after what you pulled on TTGP.
No one acted like they know all about you. You gave info and based on how women's bodies work and what you said the ladies on TTGP told you facts. You chose to repeat yourself over and over and not really absorb what they told you.
When someone acts dense they will be called dense. Fact of life hun.
And what does looking in a mirror at my beautiful face have anything to do with this?
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So the confusion lied in the fact of the TIME when I tested.
Wrong. You still don't get it. If you tested a few days after the Nov. 10th bleeding the test would have been negative because you weren't pregnant yet. You don't test positive a few days after your period.
For the record, I thought it was really shitty of you to make that BFP too so I'm going to give up now.
MY FYI post was because people were being snarky in the original one. Had that not happened, I wouldn't have said anything. When someone said I rubbed it in their face i thought they were referring to my Original post. Obviously it was a misunderstanding that is not what they were talking about.
My post about the BFP and saying "yay im excited..." was posted where? In the FIRST TRIMESTER room. Lets go down the list and see how many others had the same type of post...hmm quite a few. Just saying.
We don't care how much snark you got on any post. Posting that BFP on TTGP was a douchy thing to do. Period.
I would be very surprised if you could come back from this. Why don't you find the door and just go.
LMFAO. Come back from what? It's the internet. We are on the first tri board which is now relevant to my situation.
It is also douchy to call someone names and act like u know all about them when you know nothing. Look in a mirror before you decide to speak.
Come back from all the stupid BS you have caused on 2 boards now. No one is going to welcome you here after what you pulled on TTGP.
No one acted like they know all about you. You gave info and based on how women's bodies work and what you said the ladies on TTGP told you facts. You chose to repeat yourself over and over and not really absorb what they told you.
When someone acts dense they will be called dense. Fact of life hun.
And what does looking in a mirror at my beautiful face have anything to do with this?
On TWO boards? again lets look at everyone on the FIRST TRI board that has said they got a BFP. This is no different. The only ones that will have a problem with it are the ones from TTGP that come over here. Which is whatever. You make the choice to come in here. My posting in wherever is for me to converse with people dealing with the SAME THING so its whatever. Obviously, plenty of people already commented saying what they were having and how many babies they had etc. To tell someone OVER THE INTERNET that they cannot come back to something and you take a forum that serious is sad. So it is what it is. The first tri board is RELEVANT TO MY SITUATION. So people can accept or reject it. Doesn't matter to me. Doesn't matter if someone who is from another board is mad at people actually dealing with what they are posting. *shrugs*
Re: Just got a bfp
i am really early on. This will be my second. How old is your first?
Good luck with this one. She has some crazy in her.
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/71978577.aspx
and
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/71986995.aspx
Sorry can't make them clicky.
Yeah@Cole. its so crazy because implantation bleeding is deemed as so technical yet it seems that not everyone's case is exactly the same. clearly. LOL.
Anyone else get implantation bleeding?
OMGGG. so exciting. Congrats!
Whoever the poster was that said shes getting married. Congrats to that too! Its gonna be an insane year for you, but fun!
sarcasm lost...Is this for realz????
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Hahaha Oh God, I so miss TTGP. I love Cole.
It's not rubbing it in their faces. I was asking them a question regarding something i was not totally familiar with. Some people had really great input, and some were snarky. Its not my problem how people react. I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. So if they have a problem with it then too bad. I didnt go over there to start trouble, I went because I wanted thoughts on a subject. The funny part was i was giving background information and that was assuming I told people they were "wrong" or whatever which was not the case.
So if people wanna get snarky, they should expect some back. So I ended it with I was right, beacuse I was. So if they have problems with it okay. Obviously, I am on a first tri board because it is now relevant to my situation. So it's whatever.
Congrats to everyone in first tri on their little ones!!!
You did rub it in our faces. And the fact that you've since come back to your BFP post makes you an even bigger douche.
TTC since August 2011, Me = 40, DH = 38
Unexplained IF. Tried Clomid for 3 cycles. All BFNs. BFP 1/6/13. Chemical pregnancy.
Moving on to IVF#1. ER 11/26/13, 16 eggs retreived, 12 mature and all fertilized. 2 blasts transferred on 12/1. All other embies arrested so nothing left to freeze. Beta 12/10 = BFN. IVF #2 March 2014. BFP!!! TEAM BLUE!!!
My original post wasnt rubbing it in anyone's face. Y'all chose to be snarky and so you get some snark back. There were some nice posters on there whom I responded to nicely. My original question was an honest one. Now you're mad that you got snark back when you did it to someone else? Oh well.
Say what you will about me being "wrong" but the fact of the matter is the same thing that happened last time happened this time. Someone had said I was not pregnant because I had gotten a period not IB and wasn't pregnant at that time and since I missed last time THAT was when I was pregnant. Sooo i still got the "period" this time and haven't missed one yet, yet I got not just one but two positive tests....Just saying. Anyways, that conversation is over and done with. In the future if you don't want snark back don't be snarky to someone else.
Whew! You will have your hands full but I am sure it will be a lot of fun! Would you prefer twin boys or twin girls?
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No, it didn't. If a doctor confirmed that you were 5.5 weeks pregnant on Dec. 15th (which you said they did), then your baby was conceived around Nov. 21st. About two weeks before that was - surprise - Nov. 10th and the start of your last period! Which is not the same as IB.
You may have had IB bleeding with the baby, but you almost certainly did not have IB last time.
"I just found out officially this morning about it, and that is why I am in the first tri board and not there. "
Lying liar who lies:
https://community.thebump.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/71986995.aspx
You obviously made a point to post on TTGP to rub in their faces BEFORE you even posted over here. Please don't think we are stupid. Here is the evidence.

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OK....btw. I will make sure to check out that book you recommended next time around. It will avoid all this madness. Lol.
LOL. that is not necessary to manipulate what was said. lol. I didn't know asking a question originally would piss so many people off.
I read both your posts on TTGP and you were WRONG about your first pregnancy. It is impossible for you to miss 2 periods due to pregnancy and only be 5.5 weeks. While you did end up being pregnant this time, that doesn't mean it was for sure implantation bleeding. Could it have been? Sure. Was it? Its impossible to say, but honestly what you described does not sound like implantation bleeding.
You do realize that all of the other women are trying to tell you the exact same thing that I am telling you, right? And it's the same information that you will find in TCOYF. However, I will agree you on this part - reading the book and educating yourself on this subject could definitely help you with the madness.
So me asking a question and giving background information dictated how people would react? LMFAO. I was trying to piece everything together in the original post, hence why I asked the question to begin with. People got snarky in the original post. Had people either just ignored it or actually tried to give info as some did they wouldnt have received snark back.
If you read what I said, I said my ORIGINAL post was not rubbing it in people's faces, which it was not and I thought that is what that poster was referring to. Again, in the ORIGINAL post people were snarky, and so they got snark back.
I never told anyone IN THE ORIGINAL POST that they were wrong. I asked questions to make sure I understood. It is mighty interesting that NOBODY can seem to show in the original post where I told anybody that they were wrong or that I was upset. I was not at all, it was just a confusing situation.
Change a screen name? LMFAO. Are you serious? Some people do not know eachother on here. Why would I change a username because of people I DONT KNOW that are snarky. It is whatever. If you dont like what I have to say then dont read it.
So again show me where I lied regarding my original posting. I will wait....
Well as you can tell due to your approach, I have listened to what you have said and what you have said now and before makes a lot of sense. They should take a lesson from you. When you approach people nicely and genuinely try to help, you will get the same treatment back.
Everything everyone said I took into consideration, it was just difficult because I was trying to give background on what happened last time and parallel it to this and it just ended up confusing everybody and people got all up in arms. So it is what it is. Thanks again for your patience and your help. 
I never said you lied about your original post. You must be dense. I said that you lied about posting your BFP to rub it in people's faces. I don't give a crap about your first post about implantation bleeding and asking about it. That doesn't matter to me. I don't know why you think that anything anyone did you justifies you rubbing your pee stick in their faces. That's rude. If you believe that it justifies being nasty to them then that is pretty messed up.

What you are getting flamed for, by me, is posting your BFP (I provided a screen capture but will do so again here) to rub it in their faces. Keep up. See how you posted your BFP "I was right about my IB b1tches type post" BEFORE (the time stamp in the colored boxes) you introduced yourself here on first trimester? Again, keep up. I'll spell it out for you.
No one is flaming you for your IB question. They are flaming you for being insensitive (and intentionally daft now) and waving your pee stick in TTGP's face. Does that make sense to you.
"Change a screen name? LMFAO. Are you serious? Some people do not know eachother on here. Why would I change a username because of people I DONT KNOW that are snarky. It is whatever. If you dont like what I have to say then dont read it. "
I am absolutely serious about changing your screen name. However, your winning personality will probably alert people that you are you. I don't have to read it, but you don't have to post it either. Why do you feel the need to be an insufferable douche?
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No one claims you were rubbing it in their faces in the ORIGINAL post (as in the one 'asking' about IB) you just came off ignorant and argumentative.
It was your second post on TTGP where you basically said "Hahaha I got a BFP and you didn't! I'm right and you are wrong! In your face strangers!". A lot of the women here were on TTGP first and know those women, plenty of whom having been trying for a very long time to get pregnant. We do not think it is ok to rub your pregnancy in their faces since you are not a part of the TTGP comminuity, and obviously know nothing about them. Then you came here and claimed that you didn't do that, hence someone calling you a liar.
Thats fine. The whole point of me asking the question originally was because I had something to compare this one to and as I said, I didn't know the nitty gritty about implantation bleeding. Apparenly me explaining the background of everything and trying to piece everything together got everyone upset. So i wanted to know if someone had IB knowledge that I could take from so that I would no longer be confused.
NO.
NO.
People are getting upset with you because you took your BFP and rubbed in people's faces on TTGP. That's douchey, mean and unnecessary . That is why. God, are you stupid?!

Your first post was just annoying, but your "I'm so right, look at my BFP" post was awful. I don't know how many times you have to have this spelled out for you.
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"Except you kept trying to convince us you had IB with your first pregnancy even after it had been explained to you that you didnt" RIGHT. I was telling what had happened the first time to give some background on the situation, because I did not know of anything different.
Since this time around based on what has happened i believe it IS IB, I was explaining the scenario AGAIN because obviously I went through this my first time. The different thing with this time since it is a gray area is that I did not know that it would be able to detect this super early. Had i waited until a missed period like last time and it was positive, it could be said I didn't have implantation bleeding either. Does that make sense? I did not test the first time like I did this time. The first time, I tested when i STARTED bleeding but obviously it was too early. Had I tested a few days AFTER the bleeding like this time, it could have been positive it could have been negative.
So the confusion lied in the fact of the TIME when I tested. That was what I was confused about. As I said had THIS time i tested say 5 weeks later like last time and it would have come up positive, the same thing could be argued that it was not implantation. My conclusion originally that it was attributed to the fact that like last time, my "period" came early. The only difference is WHEN i tested. So that is why I asked the question...and I am sure people are still confused, but I hope you understand what i was trying to say
MY FYI post was because people were being snarky in the original one. Had that not happened, I wouldn't have said anything. When someone said I rubbed it in their face i thought they were referring to my Original post. Obviously it was a misunderstanding that is not what they were talking about.
My post about the BFP and saying "yay im excited..." was posted where? In the FIRST TRIMESTER room. Lets go down the list and see how many others had the same type of post...hmm quite a few. Just saying.
I do not understand what you don't get about this. You did NOT have IB during your last pregnancy, or at least what you are saying was IB could not possible have been because you were not pregnant yet. That is why the test was negative. This time, the test was positive because you are pregnant.
"and obviously know nothing about them" Yet they were calling me names and know nothing about me. So based on that they did the same thing right?
How is it right for people who know nothing about me calling me a name? It works both ways and is not cool BOTH WAYS. So if someone is doing the SAME thing, yet getting mad when the other person does it, that is hypocritical. My intent was to not come across as argumentative. I was asking a genuine question trying to give background so that everyone understood but it just turned into confusion.
LMFAO! I get it. ONCE AGAIN i am EXPLAINING what i was TRYING TO SAY. but i get it.
background, background, background.
or are you gonna accuse me this time of not understanding sarcasm? do you get mine? LOL
We don't care how much snark you got on any post. Posting that BFP on TTGP was a douchy thing to do. Period.
I would be very surprised if you could come back from this. Why don't you find the door and just go.
LMFAO. Come back from what? It's the internet. We are on the first tri board which is now relevant to my situation.
It is also douchy to call someone names and act like u know all about them when you know nothing. Look in a mirror before you decide to speak.
FYI i can say what I want. If you dont like it, ignore it. LOL.
Come back from all the stupid BS you have caused on 2 boards now. No one is going to welcome you here after what you pulled on TTGP.
No one acted like they know all about you. You gave info and based on how women's bodies work and what you said the ladies on TTGP told you facts. You chose to repeat yourself over and over and not really absorb what they told you.
When someone acts dense they will be called dense. Fact of life hun.
And what does looking in a mirror at my beautiful face have anything to do with this?
Wrong. You still don't get it. If you tested a few days after the Nov. 10th bleeding the test would have been negative because you weren't pregnant yet. You don't test positive a few days after your period.
For the record, I thought it was really shitty of you to make that BFP too so I'm going to give up now.
On TWO boards? again lets look at everyone on the FIRST TRI board that has said they got a BFP. This is no different. The only ones that will have a problem with it are the ones from TTGP that come over here. Which is whatever. You make the choice to come in here. My posting in wherever is for me to converse with people dealing with the SAME THING so its whatever. Obviously, plenty of people already commented saying what they were having and how many babies they had etc. To tell someone OVER THE INTERNET that they cannot come back to something and you take a forum that serious is sad. So it is what it is. The first tri board is RELEVANT TO MY SITUATION. So people can accept or reject it. Doesn't matter to me. Doesn't matter if someone who is from another board is mad at people actually dealing with what they are posting. *shrugs*