Yep. I'm usually the more friskay one, but ever since I was 8weeks, I've had no drive. I'm either exhaused, sick or feel like a house (just like you). I have found that it helps to just make myself, and I end up enjoying it. Wearing something sexy helps too. I like sheer nighties that accent big boobies so that you feel sexier than you might have just in the nude. Also, I wasn't too thrilled about having to do a different position than my go-to because of my bump, but DH and I have been trying different ones and it's helping the excitment/motivation.
We have both been trying to make more of an effort, and like the PP said, once we got in to it, everything was great. As terrible as it sounds, we basically schedule sex when we get home from work... it is not super romantic, but it has helped keep our sex life at least on life support for now.
Include me in this club. Basically H cuddles with my boob in his hand like it's his teddy bear at night. It's the closest he's gonna get to any action. Poor guy.
I am in the same boat...we have done it a few times since falling pregnant, but I have NO DESIRE!! Poor Hubby!! We have to put "effort" into doing it now.
omg SO happy I am not the only one!! I felt like the worst wife ever... oh well. I still play along and it ends up being ok, but it takes A LOT to get the ball rolling.
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Yup- me too.
We have both been trying to make more of an effort, and like the PP said, once we got in to it, everything was great. As terrible as it sounds, we basically schedule sex when we get home from work... it is not super romantic, but it has helped keep our sex life at least on life support for now.
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Miracle Baby #1 - March 2012
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This is sad, but I got excited because I thought it was about milk.
Shows you what my sex drive is
Sex...what is that? lol...JK
I am in the same boat...we have done it a few times since falling pregnant, but I have NO DESIRE!! Poor Hubby!! We have to put "effort" into doing it now.
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