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POAS 5dp5dt

jeannaqueenajeannaqueena member
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BFN....I shouldn't have tested I am totally bummed. I know it's still early and I said I wouldn't do this to myself again. I had to sneak to pee bc DH is worried about me and the low depression I got into last time.  

I did test the trigger out a couple of days ago and this was a firm negative. I feel like I am going to be one of those women who just has one child.  I really believe it in my heart.  

TTC#1: 14 months on our own (did HSG, b/w, SA);
BFP on Cycle 14--TWINS! Identical twin boys stillborn at 19wks(1/9/10)
3 break cycles; took clomid 50mg, BFP #2 Beta #1 35, Beta #2 338!!! Owen was born 2/11/11! 
TTC#2: 4 cycles on clomid: BFNs
BFP #3: Cycle #5 100mg clomid; beta #1 21; beta #2 6=CP 
Cycle #6 break cycle TTC no meds=BFN
Cycle #7: 150 clomid+ovidril+IUI=BFN (switched to RE)
Cycle #8: follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
Cycle #9 Forced break due to cyst
Cycle #10 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
Cycle #11 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
Cycle#12 Forced break due to cyst, went on BCP; did repeat HSG, Saline U/S
Cycle #13 IVF: Follistim/Menapur ER 11-30 11 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized and 3dt on 12-3; BFN
Cycle #14: IVF#2 lupron/follistim/menopur ER 1-22, 19 eggs, 14 fertilized, 5dt on 1-27, BFP!! beta 1: 63, beta 2: 119; EDD 10-15-13; 1 frozen embie
Miracle Surprise BFP, EDD 10-1-15; saw HB great Betas, 11weeks lost baby MC at home
Moved forward with FET transfered solo frostie on 6-4-15, beta 1: 315, beta 2: 738, u/s showed one baby on track EDD 2-21-16
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  • 74dragonfly74dragonfly member
    Five days is way way way too early. I am praying for you. Now back away from the sticks! I think the earliest BFP is 7days.




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  • nawlinsgrlnawlinsgrl member

    Oh, sweetie, I'm so sorry.  I take full responsibility for sending "POAS today" vibes your way, because I wanted to know. 

    I totally wouldn't stress out too badly just yet.  I didn't see mine that early, and plenty of people take another couple days.  I am not willing to believe this cycle didn't work, I'm just not.  

    I know it's easier said than done, but please don't let this get you down today.  At least you can be certain that two lines is a BFP at this point.  You're definitely not out until the beta sings, but most definitely not out yet, in my mind.

    Since my vibes clearly work (got you to test, didn't I), I'm sending hugs and happy, cheerful vibes for the rest of the day.

    Well, at least I made you smile just now, didn't I?  That's a start!  Stick out tongue

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    IVF #1: 9/11: ER: 12R, 11M, 10F, No Frosties; 5dt: 2 blasts, 1 morula; DD born 6/3/12
    IVF #2: 11/12-12/12: ER: 20R, 20M, 16F, 4 Frosties; 5dt: 3 blasts, DS born 8/9/13
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  • laurid75laurid75 member

    I also would think it's too early and that all hope is not lost yet but I also know the roller coaster of emotions.  Try and hang in there until you know for sure.  MUCH easier said than done, I know.  Thinking of you!

     

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  • KaselleckKaselleck member
    Don't give up just yet- I think it's way too early for an accurate result. Try to keep positive. I'm rooting for you!
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  • egsquaredegsquared member
    Oh Jeanna! I'm so sorry! But I agree, it's too early. Don't give up hope yet! I'm crossing everything for you that this is your cycle!
    TTC #1 since 6/08. Cycle #6 - BFP 12/22/08, EDD 9/3/09, DD 8/14/09 at 37w1d
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    BFP #2 - 8/31/11, EDD 5/10/12, M/C 9/23/11
    BFP #3 - 3/4/12, EDD 11/14/12, CP 3/11/12
    BFP #4 - 5/9/12, EDD 1/19/13, CP 5/11/12
    BFP #5 - 8/22/12, EDD 5/5/13, CP 8/24/12
    IVF#1 - January 2013 - EPP/Antagonist - 7R, 3M, 2F, 3dt of 2 8-cell embies
    BFP #6 - 2/3/13, EDD 10/15/13, DS 9/18/13 at 36w1d
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  • ceebeeteeceebeetee member
    Ditto to what everyone else is saying - it's still so early, don't let it make you lose hope! I was always so mad at myself when I poas early, I just stopped doing it.  It can mess you up mentally!  Hugs to you me I am hoping for a different result for you in a few days :)
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    BFP 1/21/13, blighted ovum m/c 2/12/13
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  • ceebeeteeceebeetee member
    Ditto to what everyone else is saying - it's still so early, don't let it make you lose hope! I was always so mad at myself when I poas early, I just stopped doing it.  It can mess you up mentally!  Hugs to you and I am hoping for a different result for you in a few days :)
    TTC baby #2 since July 2011, DX: low AMH
    BFP 1/21/13, blighted ovum m/c 2/12/13
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  • kimberm0511kimberm0511 member
    Don't be discouraged. It's still early! I know it sucks, but hang in there.
    TTC #3 (#1 for DH) since September 2011. DX: Unexplained infertility with possible cervical factor. May 2012 did clomid with IUI - BFN August 2012 IUI #2 w/ follistim/letrozole - BFN September 2012 IUI #3 w/ follistim/letrozole - BFN October 2012 IUI #4 w/ follistim/letrozole - BFN November/December 2012 IVF/ICSI #1 Retrieved 12 eggs, 8 fertilized. Transferred 1 beautiful embryo and 5 made it to freeze. Got my BFP! January 2013 u/s showed empty gestational sac. FET cycle April 2013.  Transferred 2 5 day embryos.  BFP!!!!!  2 heartbeats!!!!  EDD:  12/27/13
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  • cislebride07cislebride07
    Please dont lose hope.  Its your great responses that keep us all going.  Now we are here for you.  Hang in there because it is early.  Hoping for that BFP soon.
    Dx PCOS Three cycle of Clomid- BFN HSG- clear 6/09-Follistim and HCG IUI on 7/7/09 BFN 7/09- Follistim and Ovidrel IUI on 8/11/09 BFP! beta #1-342 beta #2-717 Joey was born on 5/5/10 Trying for #2 since 6/12 6/12- Gonal F and Ovidel IUI on 7/10. BFN 8/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel. IUI on 8/10. BFN 9/12- Gonal F and Ovidrel IUI BFN 10/22 Gonal F, Menopur, Ganirelex 11/4 trigger 11/6 ER 14R 10F 11/11 ET transferred one 4AA embryo beta 11/20! BFP Betas stop multiplying . m/c at 5 weeks moving on to FET if my numbers ever get back to 0!
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  • KristyLynn26KristyLynn26 member

    I'm so sorry Hun. Please don't loose hope it is really early. Remember (like they like to post on TTGP):

     HPT accuracy DPO 

    10 dpo : 35% 
    11 dpo : 51% 
    12 dpo : 62% 
    13 dpo : 68% 
    14 dpo : 74% 
    15 dpo : 80% 
    16 dpo : 88% 
    17 dpo : 92% 
    18 dpo : 99%


    DON?T TEST EARLY!!!! Unfortunately I just don't think us 2IFers have those early detection kind of odds. 

     

    I'm with Nawlinsgrl and truly believe this is your cycle. ((HUGS)) Hang in there.

     

     

     

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    First Time: DD born 3/2011 after trying for two years, LAP, and two IUIs w/ Femera + Ovidrel
    This Time: 4/12 Femera IUI #1 BFN, 5/12 Femera + TI BFN, 6/12 Femera + IUI #2 BFN, 7/12 Femera + IUI #3 BFN, 8/12 Follistim IUI #4 BFN
    IVF #1: ER 11/5/12 : 17 eggs retrieved/6 fertilized, ET 11/10/12 : 5dt of 2 embies/0 frosties BFN
    IVF #2: ER 1/28/13 : 12 eggs retrieved/9 fertilized, ET 2/2/13 : 5dt of 2 embies/0 frosties BFN
    IVF #3: ER 4/15/13 : 13 eggs retrieved/7 fertilized, ET 4/18/13 : 3dt of 3 embies/0 frosties BFN
    Laparoscopy 5/24/13 : Stage 2 Endo, Scaring, and Both tubes Blocked but successfully Opened
    IVF #4 (Clinical Trial): ER 7/22/13 : 15 eggs/8 fertilized, ET 7/25/13 : 3dt of 3 embies/0 frosties BFN
    IVF #5: ER 11/4/13 : 13 eggs/12 fertilized, ET 11/9/13 : 5dt of 2 embies/0 frosties BFP!!! Beta 11/20/13 = 447 1 Beautiful Baby! EDD: July 28, 2014
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  • Lauren79Lauren79 member

    I have been MIA for a few days.  Your post made me tear up as I have the same feelings right now about only being meant to have one child. 

    It is still early.  I am hoping and praying that you get your BFP.  I am around if you need to anything. 

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    BFP 06.29.12 EDD 03.11.13 natural m/c 07.13.12
    BFP 09.22.12 EDD 05.31.13 natural m/c 10.07.12
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  • jeannaqueenajeannaqueena member

    Thanks my women for all the responses!  Y'all are truly wonderful.  I know I shouldn't test bc it really brings me down. I think I am going to try and hold out till Monday as we have a bday party on Sunday that I don't want to be in a bad mood for.  

    I do feel much better after reading those numbers and all the quirky responses!!!   

    TTC#1: 14 months on our own (did HSG, b/w, SA);
    BFP on Cycle 14--TWINS! Identical twin boys stillborn at 19wks(1/9/10)
    3 break cycles; took clomid 50mg, BFP #2 Beta #1 35, Beta #2 338!!! Owen was born 2/11/11! 
    TTC#2: 4 cycles on clomid: BFNs
    BFP #3: Cycle #5 100mg clomid; beta #1 21; beta #2 6=CP 
    Cycle #6 break cycle TTC no meds=BFN
    Cycle #7: 150 clomid+ovidril+IUI=BFN (switched to RE)
    Cycle #8: follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #9 Forced break due to cyst
    Cycle #10 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle #11 follistem+ovidril+TI=BFN
    Cycle#12 Forced break due to cyst, went on BCP; did repeat HSG, Saline U/S
    Cycle #13 IVF: Follistim/Menapur ER 11-30 11 eggs, 5 mature, 4 fertilized and 3dt on 12-3; BFN
    Cycle #14: IVF#2 lupron/follistim/menopur ER 1-22, 19 eggs, 14 fertilized, 5dt on 1-27, BFP!! beta 1: 63, beta 2: 119; EDD 10-15-13; 1 frozen embie
    Miracle Surprise BFP, EDD 10-1-15; saw HB great Betas, 11weeks lost baby MC at home
    Moved forward with FET transfered solo frostie on 6-4-15, beta 1: 315, beta 2: 738, u/s showed one baby on track EDD 2-21-16
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  • DahliaFlowerDahliaFlower member

    I think you are way to early to give up yet.  

    That would be like the equivalent of 10 dpo, and that's still early to POAS.

    Do not quit, you're definitely not out.  Keep thinking PUPO! 

    TTC #1 12/2009
    BFP #1 1/2010, M/C 6 weeks
    BFP #2 6/2010, DD lost to     congenital heart disease, we are heartbroken.

    TTC #2 4/2011, diagnosed MTHFR, FVL
    Four natural cycles BFN; Clomid IUI BFN; Follistim IUI BFN;
    1/2012 IVF #1 BFN
    4/2012 FET BFP #3
    5/2012 7w1d u/s: anembryonic demise; M/C @ 8w.
    6/2012 found Stage II/III endo on laparoscopy, removed w/ laser.
    8/2012 IVF #2 epic fail: no viable embryos.

    Vacation, break, second opinions, on to new RE.
    1/2013 Surprise chemical pregnancy BFP #4 (break cycle), IVF #3 postponed.
    2/2013 TI w/ hormonal support, prednisone, aspirin, Lovenox, acupuncture gave us a miracle BFP #5!
    Heartbeat on U/S at 6w1d!     Baby,please stay!!
    Our miracle baby boy arrived 10/2013!  We are so in love!!

    10/2014 Surprise BFP #6
    Our second daughter arrived in May 2015!  We are so grateful!  

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